{"id":59067,"date":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:47:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59067"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:39:27","slug":"a-todas-las-chicas-que-no-pueden-decidir-entre-el-corazon-y-la-mente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-todas-las-chicas-que-no-pueden-decidir-entre-el-corazon-y-la-mente\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas que no pueden decidir entre lo que quiere su coraz\u00f3n y lo que dice su mente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes memoria, tu mente y tu coraz\u00f3n han sido incapaces de encontrar el t\u00e9rmino medio.<\/p>\n

The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you\u2019re not the only one.<\/p>\n

Desde el principio del mundo, la gente ha estado luchando con el mismo dilema: \u00bfDeben hacer lo correcto o deben ver ad\u00f3nde les llevan sus emociones?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been asking yourself this question the most in terms of romantic love.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfA qui\u00e9n debe elegir para que sea su compa\u00f1ero de vida<\/a>? Should you be with the man who gives you butterflies or with the one you\u2019re compatible with? Is amor suficiente<\/a> y merece la pena, aunque te d\u00e9 muchos quebraderos de cabeza?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para ser sinceros, nadie ha encontrado nunca una soluci\u00f3n perfecta. Some will advise you to go after your heart\u2019s desires, to forget about the rules and to follow your gut<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that it\u2019s the only way not to regret your decisions because even if they\u2019re wrong, at least you\u2019ll always have the satisfaction that at one point, you were brave enough to do what you truly wanted.<\/p>\n

Sounds quite romantic, doesn\u2019t it? From one point of view, this really is the right attitude; after all, you only have one life and you certainly shouldn\u2019t waste it by killing your desires and shutting off your emotions.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, that\u2019s what happens in the movies and novels all the time, right?<\/p>\n

The characters go against all possible laws of logic and society and blindly follow their heart\u2019s desires, even if their lives depended on not doing so.<\/p>\n

Acaban viviendo felices para siempre, pero la vida real es muy distinta a un cuento de hadas.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 ocurre cuando las consecuencias de tus actos llaman a tu puerta?<\/p>\n

What happens when it turns out that your choices weren\u2019t good for you and when they leave painful traces on your life and future?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why some people will tell you to always be realistic; after all, that\u2019s the only chance you have to prevent the pain.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

God gave us our reasoning for a reason\u2014to know better than just going after our instincts, to have the capacity to determine what\u2019s right and wrong and to make wise and smart choices.<\/p>\n

So, what\u2019s the answer to this everlasting question: \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes dejar de estar tan dividido entre lo que dice tu mente y lo que quiere tu coraz\u00f3n?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bien, la clave est\u00e1 en el equilibrio<\/strong>. Yes, you heard it right; you\u2019re the one who has to find a compromise between these two things and decide when it\u2019s time to listen to each of them.<\/p>\n

Tu experiencia te ense\u00f1ar\u00e1 que ninguna de estas dos pr\u00e1cticas es perfecta.<\/p>\n

Por mucho que te gustar\u00eda, you can\u2019t go through life doing whatever you want to in the moment and you can\u2019t blindly follow your desires<\/strong> unless you\u2019re ready to face severe consequences which will come sooner or later.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Por otro lado, reprimir sus emociones<\/a> y convertirte en un robot descerebrado tampoco es lo correcto. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Yes, in this case, you might have a bigger chance of saving yourself from a lot of pain but on the other hand, you\u2019re likely to end up breaking your own heart and condemning yourself to a loveless life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00e9jame contarte un peque\u00f1o secreto sobre el amor rom\u00e1ntico: It\u2019s not the real deal as long as your mind and heart are fighting about it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

De hecho, cuando conozcas a alguien que est\u00e1 destinado a ser, tanto tu cerebro como tus emociones estar\u00e1n en sinton\u00eda.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, cuando conozcas al hombre perfecto, lo amar\u00e1s con todo tu coraz\u00f3n y tu mente<\/strong> y al mismo tiempo, sabr\u00e1s que es el adecuado para ti.<\/p>\n

When this happens, there will be no more dilemmas or doubts; all the pieces of the puzzle called your life will fall into perfect order and you\u2019ll see what true balance really means.<\/p>\n

For the first time ever, you won\u2019t be afraid. You\u2019ll stop wandering between your reasoning and emotions and you\u2019ll stop wondering if you chose wisely.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how you\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found both your soulmate and your forever person\u2014all in one.<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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For as long as you can remember, your mind and heart were unable to find the middle ground. The two could never reach a compromise and you were left in the middle to try and get them on the same page. Well, you\u2019re not the only one. Ever since the beginning of the world, people…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":59076,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59067","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/To-Every-Girl-Who-Can\u2019t-Decide-Between-What-Her-Heart-Wants-And-What-Her-Mind-Says.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59067","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59067"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59067\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59076"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59067"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59067"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59067"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}