{"id":59087,"date":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T11:40:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59087"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:27:20","slug":"incluso-cuando-estes-soltero-estas-cosas-apestaran","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/incluso-cuando-estes-soltero-estas-cosas-apestaran\/","title":{"rendered":"Aunque seas soltera y fabulosa, estas 6 cosas apestar\u00e1n"},"content":{"rendered":"

No est\u00e1s soltero porque nadie te quiera o porque no est\u00e9s destinado a ser amado. Eres soltero por decisi\u00f3n propia.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether you need some extra time to heal from a devastating heartbreak from the past, decided to take some time off from relationships, or simply don\u2019t feel ready for anything serious right now.<\/p>\n

The important thing is that you\u2019re making the best out of your vida de soltero<\/a>. Most of the time, you\u2019re not even lonely.<\/p>\n

You know you don\u2019t need a man to complete you and you\u2019re using this time to get your life in order.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, no importa lo fabuloso que sea ser soltero, hay algunas cosas que apestan al respecto. Aqu\u00ed tienes 6 de ellas.<\/p>\n

1. 2. Otras personas<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it. The biggest problem about being single is not the feelings and thoughts you have, it\u2019s the society around you.<\/p>\n

The truth is that, if you\u2019re in your twenties and have been single for a while, most people in your surroundings act like they feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n

They treat you like you\u2019re a second class citizen \u2013 that since you haven\u2019t been able to find a romantic partner, you\u2019re obviously not good enough for anything else either.<\/p>\n

Even your closest friends and family members think that you\u2019re miserable on your own.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re aware that they mean well, but after a while, them looking down on you just because of your relationship status becomes tiring.<\/p>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

In fact, you feel like they\u2019d rather see you in an unhealthy, toxic relationship than strong enough to go through life by yourself.<\/p>\n

De este modo, seg\u00fan ellos, cumplir\u00edas unas normas sociales imaginarias, pero, por supuesto, a nadie le importar\u00eda un bledo c\u00f3mo te sientes.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why you shouldn\u2019t care about other people\u2019s opinion.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need their pity and you certainly shouldn\u2019t feel like they\u2019re better than you just for being romantically involved.<\/p>\n

2. Contar s\u00f3lo con uno mismo<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a strong, independent, and powerful woman who has the capacity to go through life by herself.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need anyone pushing you forward, holding your hand through the hard times, or anyone resolving your problems.<\/p>\n

Oye, eso es algo de lo que estar muy orgulloso. Cr\u00e9eme, no muchos podr\u00edan lograrlo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, para ser sincero, a veces el hecho de no tener a nadie en quien confiar m\u00e1s que en uno mismo es un poco asqueroso.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you are not capable of being your biggest support.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just that it would be nice to have someone you can count on every once in a while. Of course, you have your friends, family, and even coworkers.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, you don\u2019t have a life partner \u2013 a man to be your teammate through thick and thin.<\/p>\n

Even though this is the last thing you would ever admit, the truth is that there are times when you wish to have a man who will be there to have your back. You don\u2019t need him to guide you or be your savior.<\/p>\n

Te vendr\u00eda bien alguien que vaya por la vida a tu lado, hombro con hombro.<\/p>\n

3. No tener un acompa\u00f1ante<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 pasa con todas esas bodas, fiestas de cumplea\u00f1os y otras celebraciones a las que siempre tienes que ir solo? Es una putada no tener un acompa\u00f1ante, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a pain having to choose whether you\u2019ll go alone, look for a date months ahead just so you don\u2019t have to go through those series of boring questions regarding your love life, or ask a amigo<\/a> to tag along just so you don\u2019t look desperate.<\/p>\n

4. Falta de intimidad f\u00edsica<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you say that you\u2019re tired of sleeping alone, most assume that you\u2019re just horny and that one raunchy night would solve all of your problems.<\/p>\n

El problema de la solter\u00eda es algo m\u00e1s profundo que un deseo carnal.<\/p>\n

In fact, what you miss is physical intimacy. Whether you like to admit it or not, it\u2019s not always easy going home to a cold, empty bed with nobody waiting for you.<\/p>\n

Not only that, you also can\u2019t remember the last time you kissed or hugged someone.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo que m\u00e1s echas de menos es acurrucarte y despertarte junto a tu ser querido.<\/p>\n

Of course, you could be sleeping around to have the physical satisfaction, but that\u2019s simply not your cup of tea.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, incluso entonces, seguir\u00edas sintiendo la ausencia de un v\u00ednculo f\u00edsico real con otro ser humano.<\/p>\n

5. No estar enamorado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por mucho que disfrutes de tu solter\u00eda y le saques el m\u00e1ximo partido, tienes que admitir que la sensaci\u00f3n de estar enamorado tambi\u00e9n mola.<\/p>\n

Recuerdas el buen tipo de nerviosismo, el mariposas<\/a> in your stomach, the sweating of your palms, and the sensation you get when you know you\u2019re about to see your crush?<\/p>\n

Well, sometimes you can\u2019t help but miss all those feelings. You miss liking a man, being attracted to him, and wanting him to become yours.<\/p>\n

However, just because nostalgia hits you from time to time, it doesn\u2019t mean that it should serve as an excuse to jump into a new relationship.<\/p>\n

Porque adivina qu\u00e9: estar infelizmente enamorado es mucho peor que no estarlo en absoluto.<\/p>\n

6. El mercado de las citas<\/h2>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

Among other things that are a drag when you\u2019re single \u2013 even though you\u2019re killing it \u2013 is the dating market.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re obsessed with the idea of finding a boyfriend, but you didn\u2019t shut your door to love forever either.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, de vez en cuando, sales en un par de citas. Sin embargo, cada vez vuelves m\u00e1s decepcionado que antes.<\/p>\n

Everyone around you keeps setting you up on blind dates and men hit on you. But, not one has what you\u2019re looking for.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not that you\u2019re too picky. You just have sus normas<\/a> y se niegan a conformarse con menos, lo cual es genial.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, a veces s\u00f3lo deseas no volver a tener otra cita de mierda nunca m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"Aunque <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re not single because nobody wants you or because you\u2019re not meant to be loved. Instead, you\u2019re single by your own choice. It doesn\u2019t matter whether you need some extra time to heal from a devastating heartbreak from the past, decided to take some time off from relationships, or simply don\u2019t feel ready for anything…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":59090,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-near-a-lake.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59087","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59087"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59087\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59090"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59087"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59087"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59087"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}