{"id":5909,"date":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T07:38:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5909"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:29:13","slug":"chico-de-la-carta-no-podia-decidir-queria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chico-de-la-carta-no-podia-decidir-queria\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que no pod\u00eda decidir lo que quer\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quiz\u00e1 nunca leas esta carta, pero quer\u00eda decirte lo que pienso.<\/p>\n<p>Necesito plasmar mis emociones en un trozo de papel y, una vez que lo lea todo, tal vez sea lo bastante fuerte para cerrar este cap\u00edtulo de mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo quiero que sepas que no es f\u00e1cil para m\u00ed hacer esto y mientras escribo esta carta, hay sentimientos encontrados sobre ti dentro de mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos de ellos me dicen que mereces una segunda oportunidad pero por otro lado, est\u00e1n esos sentimientos feos que se desarrollaron por todas las cosas malas que me hiciste.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I want you to know one thing\u2014you were the man I loved the most but you hurt me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Significabas el mundo para m\u00ed y vi en ti todo lo que hab\u00eda so\u00f1ado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102583\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing.jpg\" alt=\"feliz pareja posando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/happy-couple-posing-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sab\u00edas c\u00f3mo conquistarme. Sab\u00edas c\u00f3mo entrar en mi coraz\u00f3n. Y estabas all\u00ed incluso antes de que me diera cuenta.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/por-que-me-cuesta-tanto-dejarlo\/\">Es dif\u00edcil echar a alguien de tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/a> Quiero decir, hab\u00eda una raz\u00f3n para que estuvieras all\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>I must have felt something for you, right? But you didn\u2019t care about it. And honestly, I don\u2019t know if your purpose was to hurt me or you did that accidentally.<\/p>\n<p>I just know that after our breakup I am still broken. I can\u2019t shake this feeling of sorrow off. I am trying so hard to be the old me. The one who is always cheerful and the one who never gives up.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora, estoy pensando si deber\u00eda haber luchado m\u00e1s por ti <b><i>. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Maybe you were calling me to help you but I didn\u2019t know to recognize your voice.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102584\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste mirando a lo lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t see that you needed me. But when I think twice, it wasn\u2019t all my fault.<\/p>\n<p>If you need someone, you come and say it. You don\u2019t hurt people just to get their attention. I guess you chose the wrong way.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to tell you that I couldn\u2019t stand your moody behavior anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t stand that you said that you loved me one day and I would catch you with another girl the next one.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t be in that magic circle anymore. I needed the truth from you.<\/p>\n<p>I needed you to admit either that you love me and want to stay with me or that you don\u2019t want me to be a part of your life anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102585\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste con el tel\u00e9fono en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/sad-woman-holding-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pero nunca o\u00ed esas palabras salir de tu boca.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Y entonces, en un abrir y cerrar de ojos, me di cuenta <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/kirsten-corley\/2017\/03\/this-is-the-kind-of-guy-you-should-stop-waiting-for\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Deber\u00eda dejar de esperarte.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/dejar-de-esperar-indecision-decision\/\">tu indecisi\u00f3n era una decisi\u00f3n.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A decision that you don\u2019t love me enough to provide me with all the love I need. You couldn\u2019t have loved me with the same amount of love and passion that I felt for you.<\/p>\n<p>Pero fuiste un cobarde al admitirlo.<\/p>\n<p>Era m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil enroscarme en tu dedo me\u00f1ique y estar conmigo cuando te conven\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102586\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste tumbada en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/mindful-sad-woman-lying-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Because that was something I always was\u2014your second choice, a girl you always crawled to when others abandoned you.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, ahora es suficiente. Renuncio a ti.<\/p>\n<p>Renuncio a nuestro amor y a todo lo que podr\u00edamos haber tenido si hubieras estado un poco m\u00e1s dispuesta a intentarlo.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to fight for someone who doesn\u2019t fight for me. I don\u2019t need an almost relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Me lo merezco todo o nada. Y supongo que he experimentado esto \u00faltimo contigo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>As\u00ed que, escucha esto: Voy a esperar a un tipo que sabe lo que quiere<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102587\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg\" alt=\"mujer joven sentada en la colina\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/young-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esperar\u00e9 al que se dedique a una relaci\u00f3n y no desaparezca durante 2 meses y luego aparezca de repente.<\/p>\n<p>I want someone who will always be there. Because that is what people in love do\u2014they can rely on each other.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Al final, quiero que recuerdes una cosa: nunca salgas con otra chica si no est\u00e1s dispuesto a darlo todo de ti.<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let another one suffer like I did. Make sure that you can handle everything before you even start it. Or don\u2019t start it at all.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Con cero amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>El que era m\u00e1s que suficiente para ti<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-102589\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Carta al hombre que no pod\u00eda decidir lo que quer\u00eda\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maybe you will never read this letter, but I just wanted to say what is on my mind. I need to put my emotions on a piece of paper and once I read it all, maybe I will be strong enough to close this chapter of my life. I just want you to know that&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":102588,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Couldnt-Decide-What-He-Wanted.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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