{"id":59378,"date":"2020-04-07T20:23:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T20:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59378"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:43","slug":"haz-que-le-gustes-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/haz-que-le-gustes-a-la-persona-que-te-gusta\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo volver a gustar a tu media naranja: 15 pasos para conseguirlo"},"content":{"rendered":"

You wouldn’t say that you’re totalmente enamorado<\/a> with this person, but you’re definitely into them and you would like to give it a shot.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es c\u00f3mo<\/em>, when you don’t have a clue about their feelings?<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo conseguir gustar a la persona que te gusta sin parecer desesperado y necesitado?<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfDeber\u00edas utilizar las redes sociales para hacerlo? \u00bfO acercarte a ellos en persona?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHay que ser directo o basta con enviarles indirectas?<\/p>\n

If these are some of the questions going through your head and if you’re wondering how to get your crush to like you in no time at all, then read on for all the answers you need.<\/p>\n

15 Ways To Get Your Crush’s Attention<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Cuida tu aspecto<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando ya te gusta alguien, su aspecto f\u00edsico es lo \u00faltimo.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re way more interested in what type of person they are and in the way they treat you.<\/p>\n

However, before you meet someone for the first time, their looks are the first thing you\u2019re drawn to.<\/p>\n

Tu enamorado no es una excepci\u00f3n: tiene que encontrarte. f\u00edsicamente atractivo<\/a> before they\u2019ll give you a real chance.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your looks<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re wondering how to get your crush to notice you, the first thing you should take special care of is your looks.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying that you have to look like a top model with a perfect face and body, but if nothing else, you have to be pleasant to this person\u2019s eye.<\/p>\n

Of course, you shouldn\u2019t go under any aesthetic procedures or plastic surgeries to become someone you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Instead, hit the gym to tone your body a little, and if you\u2019re a girl, wear makeup that suits you, while if you\u2019re a guy, try growing a beard.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Dress to impress<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

El siguiente paso es pensar en la forma de vestir.<\/p>\n

When I tell you to dress to impress, it doesn\u2019t mean that you should wear super classy outfits-just dress for the occasion.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re not good at matching your clothes, stick to the basics and you shouldn\u2019t make a mistake.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a girl, emphasize your attributes but do it as subtly as possible.<\/p>\n

After all, you don\u2019t want your crush to think that boobs are the only thing you have to offer.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Personal hygiene<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Listen carefully to this one because I can\u2019t underline it enough: always practice good personal hygiene.<\/p>\n

Huele irresistible, d\u00fachate con regularidad, c\u00e1mbiate de ropa y aseg\u00farate de tener un aliento fresco.<\/p>\n

Trust me-you could look like you\u2019ve just stepped out from the cover of a magazine, but if your personal hygiene is questionable, it will all be in vain.<\/p>\n

2. Trabaja tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you know a bunch of good looking people with amazing personalities who have absolutely no luck with the opposite sex. Why do you think that is?<\/p>\n

Cuando los observas, tienen literalmente todo lo que alguien buscar\u00eda en una pareja. <\/p>\n

However, if you look closely and pay more attention, you\u2019ll see that they\u2019re missing a certain X factor.<\/p>\n

Well, that factor you can\u2019t seem to define is called self-esteem. Lucky for you, confidence can be worked on.<\/p>\n

You see, here is the trick: you can\u2019t expect your crush to think of you as worthy of their attention if you don\u2019t see your own value.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t expect them to see your qualities if you\u2019re unaware of them in the first place, and you certainly can\u2019t expect them to see you as a catch if you don\u2019t think that way about yourself.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you can\u2019t become confident overnight. But you can pretend to be.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, para empezar, finge tu autoestima. Olv\u00eddate de tu inseguridades<\/a> y tachar la posibilidad de fracasar.<\/p>\n

Cuando veas a la persona que te gusta, act\u00faa como si fueras el due\u00f1o de la habitaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019re dying on the inside, pretend that you\u2019re certain of yourself-trust me, there is no bigger turn on than this.<\/p>\n

3. Elogiarlos<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

The best way to initiate some kind of contact with the person you\u2019re into is to compliment them.<\/p>\n

Everyone likes to be praised and if you\u2019re the one who can make your crush feel good about themselves, they\u2019ll definitely develop interest in you.<\/p>\n

However, instead of only focusing on this person\u2019s looks, stand out by complementing their personality and accomplishments.<\/p>\n

This especially applies if you\u2019re a man, trying to get a woman to like you.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser consciente de que decenas de chicos se acercan a esta chica todo el tiempo y lo \u00fanico que probablemente hacen es decirle lo guapa y atractiva que es.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, la forma de que seas especial es prestar m\u00e1s atenci\u00f3n a otras cosas adem\u00e1s de a sus atributos f\u00edsicos.<\/p>\n

Trust me-she\u2019ll cherish it more than anything.<\/p>\n

4. Trabaja tu sentido del humor<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo hacer que le gustes a quien te gusta?<\/p>\n

Well, one of the most efficient ways to work your way into someone\u2019s heart (and into their pants) is without doubt a good sense of humor.<\/p>\n

This is a social skill you can work on if you don\u2019t have natural talent.<\/p>\n

Puedes empezar la conversaci\u00f3n con un buen chiste, que har\u00e1 re\u00edr a tu pareja y animar\u00e1 el ambiente.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ten cuidado con el tipo de chistes que cuentas.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trying to make a good first impression, avoid dark humor because not everyone is into it.<\/p>\n

Evita tambi\u00e9n los chistes verdes: adem\u00e1s de ser inapropiados y groseros, pueden hacer pensar a la otra persona que s\u00f3lo tienes una cosa en la cabeza.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re prone to sarcasm, make sure you don\u2019t cross the line and become cynical.<\/p>\n

5. Compartir un secreto<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

What\u2019s a better way to get someone to trust you and ultimately to fall for you than sharing a personal secret with them?<\/p>\n

Si quieres que tu pareja se abra a ti, tienes que mu\u00e9strales primero tus puntos d\u00e9biles<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Naturalmente, debe asegurarse de presentarse de la mejor manera posible.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t rule out the possibility of exposing some of your flaws and imperfections either.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

This way, when your crush sees that you\u2019re not perfect, they\u2019ll become more relaxed in your presence and they won\u2019t be afraid to reveal their true personality.<\/p>\n

Also, you\u2019ll show them that they\u2019re important to you and that you trust them, which is a big deal for everyone.<\/p>\n

This kind of experience can serve as a chance to bond with the person you\u2019re interested in on a much deeper level.<\/p>\n

6. Mostrar inter\u00e9s por su vida<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your crush to like you, the next step is to show an interest in their life and to present yourself as a good listener and a good friend.<\/p>\n

No, you shouldn\u2019t be too nosy, nor should you openly stalk them to get some information-the point is to show them that you care enough.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t go straight to sensitive subjects. Instead, start by engaging in small talk and asking them about their daily routines, hobbies, career, mejores amigos<\/a> y otras cosas inofensivas.<\/p>\n

Once you see that you\u2019re both becoming more relaxed, proceed with some deeper topics.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

H\u00e1gales algunas preguntas personales y muestre inter\u00e9s por sus miedos, ambiciones y sue\u00f1os m\u00e1s salvajes.<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, ser\u00e1 reconfortante tener a alguien con quien hablar de estas cosas.<\/p>\n

When it comes to love topics, at the beginning it will be enough to find out whether they\u2019re emotionally available (I\u2019m guessing you already know that they\u2019re single-otherwise you wouldn\u2019t keep hitting on them).<\/p>\n

If you start talking about your previous relationships, don\u2019t dig too much through the past and let them give you the amount of information they feel comfortable giving.<\/p>\n

7. Encuentre sus intereses comunes<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Mucha gente te dir\u00e1 que los polos opuestos se atraen.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong-I\u2019m not going to argue with this notion: they do attract but they rarely last.<\/p>\n

Bear in mind that familiarity is the key to getting under someone\u2019s skin.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cient\u00edficamente demostrado que las personas son m\u00e1s propensas a enamorarse de alguien que tiene intereses similares a los suyos.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s your job to find the common interests you have with your crush.<\/p>\n

Invest\u00edgalos un poco, averigua qu\u00e9 le gusta a esta chica o chico y encuentra algunas similitudes entre vosotros dos.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Naturally, you won\u2019t admit that you\u2019ve been stalking them and you\u2019ll present everything you know as a huge coincidence.<\/p>\n

For example, if you happen to find out that they\u2019re into a certain band or a type of music, casually mention how you enjoy listening to them or even ask them to tag along to a concert.<\/p>\n

Trust me-once they hear something like this, they\u2019ll think it\u2019s a sign of faith.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s more than obvious that you\u2019re their soulmate and a match made in heaven.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend to be someone you\u2019re not just to impress your crush.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t change your basic interests to please them because the truth will be revealed sooner or later.<\/p>\n

8. Utilizar signos de lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, la comunicaci\u00f3n no verbal es m\u00e1s elocuente que las palabras.<\/p>\n

So, if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to get your crush to like you back, without you having to admit your feelings, using signos del lenguaje corporal<\/a> a su favor es justo lo que necesita.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de utilizar estas se\u00f1ales no verbales para demostrar tu inter\u00e9s, tambi\u00e9n puedes observar las mismas se\u00f1ales en tu enamorado.<\/p>\n

If they\u2019re sending you similar signals, they\u2019re definitely into you and if they don\u2019t,you probably need to try a little bit harder.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Stay near them<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, aprovecha cualquier oportunidad para estar lo m\u00e1s cerca posible de la persona que te gusta.<\/p>\n

No, you won\u2019t turn into a stalker who is constantly at their shoulder but if you two are in the same crowd, make sure you always sit next to each other, if you talk to them, whisper in their ear and if you stand near them, make sure your feet are pointed toward theirs.<\/p>\n

A primera vista, estos movimientos pueden parecer completamente tontos y sin sentido, pero cr\u00e9eme, tienen un prop\u00f3sito m\u00e1s profundo.<\/p>\n

If you use them, your crush will become accustomed to your presence and you\u2019ll have a better chance of making an actual first move on them.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Make eye contact<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Hear me out: in these types of situations, eye contact is everything and it\u2019s your job to initiate and maintain it.<\/p>\n

Los ojos son las ventanas del alma: pueden ayudarte a revelar tus verdaderos sentimientos y son una forma estupenda de ligar.<\/p>\n

Empieza echando un vistazo a la persona que te gusta y mira c\u00f3mo responde.<\/p>\n

El siguiente paso es mirarles fijamente (pero no de una forma espeluznante) y no apartar la mirada aunque lo hagan.<\/p>\n

If your crush notices that you’re trying to make eye contact and returns the look-there is no doubt that they like you back.<\/p>\n

However, if they look away, it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean all of your chances are gone: maybe they\u2019re too shy for deep prolonged contacto visual<\/a> or they\u2019re teasing you on purpose.<\/p>\n

-<\/strong> Contacto f\u00edsico accidental<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Las<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de estas se\u00f1ales de lenguaje corporal, el \u00faltimo paso son los toques f\u00edsicos accidentales.<\/p>\n

This is the moment where you should be extra careful because you don\u2019t want to appear creepy and you have to respect the other person\u2019s personal space and boundaries, as much as you have the need to touch them.<\/p>\n

To begin with, it should be enough to try holding their hand while you\u2019re talking.<\/p>\n

\"Los<\/p>\n

Puedes poner tu mano en su hombro o incluso en su rodilla si surge la oportunidad.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, cuando te saludes, b\u00e9sale siempre en la mejilla y abr\u00e1zale un poco m\u00e1s de lo habitual.<\/p>\n

What matters here is for you to carefully observe your crush\u2019s feedback.<\/p>\n

If you see that they\u2019re not comfortable with what you\u2019re doing-step back immediately.<\/p>\n

9. Al\u00e9jate de la zona de amigos<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Uno de los mayores problemas a los que te puedes enfrentar mientras averiguas c\u00f3mo gustarle a la persona que te gusta es caerle bien sin querer. acabar en la zona de amigos<\/a>.<\/p>\n

In order for you to get the person you\u2019re interested in to like you, you have no option but to hang out with them, but that can easily lead to you becoming good friends, which is something you clearly don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to find a way to make your intentions clear.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be too pushy but show them that you\u2019re actually hitting on them all the time and that you aren\u2019t interested in becoming their best friend but rather their potential partner.<\/p>\n

\"Brazo<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, evita ser su hombro en el que llorar cuando se trate de otras personas.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let them talk to you about their dates and don\u2019t give them advice on how to go back to their ex-because this is what friends do.<\/p>\n

Be friendly, but use every chance you get to tease them. Most importantly-don\u2019t forget to flirt!<\/p>\n

10. Show them that they can count on you\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Posiblemente la mejor cualidad para hacerte novio o novia material sea la fiabilidad.<\/p>\n

Everyone likes having a partner they can count on and who has their back, so you need to show your crush you\u2019re the person for the job.<\/p>\n

Cu\u00eddelos y sea la primera persona a la que llamen cuando necesiten consejo u opini\u00f3n sobre algo.<\/p>\n

Show them that you\u2019re there for them, be consistent and make them understand that you\u2019re not leaving their side, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

11. …but don\u2019t be too available<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t let your crush take advantage of you, which is exactly the effect you\u2019ll have if you become too available.<\/p>\n

Show them that you\u2019re there but that you have a life of your own as well.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the one calling and texting all the time, as if you have no one else to talk to.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give them the impression that you\u2019re ready to put your life on hold until they have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

B\u00e1sicamente, ten cuidado de no convertirte en su cachorro y en la persona a la que llaman s\u00f3lo cuando necesitan un favor.<\/p>\n

12. Haz algo para impresionarles<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Si quiere destacar entre la multitud, la forma de hacerlo es impresiona a tu pareja<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, when it comes to this step, you have to be aware that not all people are impressed by the same things, so you have to find something that fascinates this person you\u2019re into.<\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 podr\u00eda hacer que tu enamorado se enamorara de ti? \u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de persona es y qu\u00e9 puede hacer que se enamore de ti?<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs por la forma en que resuelves un determinado problema que tienen? \u00bfSe trata de conseguir entradas para su espect\u00e1culo favorito?<\/p>\n

O, \u00bfes recordar peque\u00f1as cosas sobre ellos que mencionaron casualmente hace un tiempo?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your job to find out and to use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n

13. Pasar tiempo con ellos<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

As I already mentioned, familiarity is usually the key to someone\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to become a part of your crush\u2019s life if you want to get them to like you back.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be boring but make sure you have regular contact and communication.<\/p>\n

Inicie conversaciones y deje que se acostumbren a su presencia.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, despu\u00e9s de alg\u00fan tiempo, deja de llamar y enviar mensajes de texto e intenta retroceder un poco.<\/p>\n

Make them miss you and feel your absence, so they\u2019ll get scared of losing you and understand that they want you by their side.<\/p>\n

Yes, this may seem like you\u2019re playing mind games but sometimes, you simply have to do it if you want to achieve your goals.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t manipulate them-just make a perfect balance and from time to time, let them chase you.<\/p>\n

14. Env\u00ede una vibraci\u00f3n positiva<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Just like the rest of us, you also have moments when you don\u2019t feel like your best self.<\/p>\n

There are times when you\u2019re negative, nervous, and insecure and that is perfectly normal-after all, you\u2019re just a human being.<\/p>\n

However, while you\u2019re hitting on someone, these are not the sides of your personality you should display very often.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it-nobody likes to be around naggy, bitter people who\u2019ll kill their mood.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to try hard to be fun whenever you\u2019re around your crush.<\/p>\n

Enviar un mensaje positivo vibe<\/a>, come up with interesting activities, be optimistic, smile as much as you can, and don\u2019t forget to laugh at their jokes.<\/p>\n

Be the person who will brighten up their day-that\u2019s something your crush will appreciate.<\/p>\n

15. Inv\u00edtales a una primera cita<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, si nada funciona, deja de preguntarte c\u00f3mo gustarle a tu pareja y simplemente invitarles a salir<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, deja claro que se trata de una primera cita y no de un encuentro amistoso, y que tienes esperanzas de convertirte en su pareja potencial.<\/p>\n

Bear in mind that a lot of people don\u2019t get the hints and that your crush might be one of them.<\/p>\n

Sea valiente y d\u00e9 el primer paso: \u00bfqu\u00e9 tiene que perder?<\/p>\n

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