{"id":5989,"date":"2020-04-03T07:42:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T07:42:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=5989"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:44:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:44:25","slug":"cada-chica-alguna-vez-perdio-hombre-narcisista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cada-chica-alguna-vez-perdio-hombre-narcisista\/","title":{"rendered":"A todas las chicas que se han perdido por un hombre narcisista..."},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfAlguna vez has amado a un hombre con tanta fuerza, inmensidad e ingenuidad que pensaste que eras una chica afortunada que encontr\u00f3 a su \u2018happily ever after\u2019<\/a> en un hombre? Pues yo s\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Has it ever happened to you that you loved the wrong guy and strongly believed that he\u2019s the one? Well, it did to me.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l, las cosas se me escapaban de las manos.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de \u00e9l, la felicidad era algo de lo que s\u00f3lo o\u00eda historias. Y la tristeza me llegaba en oleadas.<\/p>\n

Memories would just take turns and I\u2019d be overwhelmed by the emotions they\u2019d bring along. For a long time, I wondered if I would be able to grasp the meaning of my life again.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I wondered if I would ever get back to normal or if I\u2019ll ever be capable of loving again. God knows it was something that love was hundreds of miles away from me.<\/p>\n

Dios sabe que casi me hab\u00eda rendido. I wasn\u2019t always like this.<\/b><\/p>\n

Yo era una de esas mujeres felices que siempre estaban agradecidas por lo que ten\u00edan.<\/p>\n

I was one of those who enjoyed her life, smiled and laughed every day, and I was one of those who\u2019d go to sleep with enthusiasm for the new day.<\/p>\n

Pero salir con un narcisista me cambi\u00f3.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I wasn\u2019t half the person I used to be after he was done with me.<\/p>\n

El mismo entusiasmo que ten\u00eda antes de reunirnos por la ma\u00f1ana se convirti\u00f3 ahora en miedo a salir de la cama.<\/p>\n

Mi felicidad fue sustituida por ansiedad.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I was ashamed of letting him change me. For a long time, I was ashamed of the person I became, but mostly I was ashamed that I allowed him to get the best of me. I should\u2019ve known better.<\/p>\n

Confi\u00e9 en \u00e9l<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Me hizo confiar en \u00e9l.<\/i><\/b> He did everything to convince me he\u2019s got my back and that he\u2019s my person.<\/p>\n

He made me feel like I could count on him and that he\u2019d do anything for me. He kept making promises and I always waited for those promises to be kept.<\/p>\n

Pero nunca lo fueron. Porque me hizo confiar en \u00e9l s\u00f3lo para poder traicionarme<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n

Me hizo sentir segura.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

For a while, I felt like I could call him for a rescue mission and he\u2019d come any time of the day.<\/p>\n

For a while, I thought he was my safe heaven\u2014but he was far from that. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me hizo sentir segura para que bajara la guardia. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Una vez que baj\u00e9 la guardia, su misi\u00f3n estaba cumplida porque yo estaba absolutamente desprotegido de su ataque. Nunca los vi venir.<\/p>\n

Lo amaba.<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Permit\u00ed que alguien con un historial de relaciones rotas formara parte de mi vida. Entregu\u00e9 mi coraz\u00f3n, mi cuerpo y mi alma a un hombre que no ten\u00eda ni idea de lo que era el amor.<\/p>\n

Le am\u00e9 con cada c\u00e9lula de mi cuerpo y le entregu\u00e9 mi amor incondicional, irrevocable y desinteresadamente y me perd\u00ed completamente por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Pero s\u00f3lo porque me convenci\u00f3 de que se le puede ense\u00f1ar a amar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

But you can\u2019t teach a narcissist to love.<\/a> It\u2019s just not in his system. Love is just an abstract word he\u2019ll never feel.<\/p>\n

Me perd\u00ed por un hombre que era incapaz de amar. <\/i><\/p>\n

Me hizo prisionero de mi amor.<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Me qued\u00e9 con \u00e9l porque cre\u00eda que era por amor. Siempre cre\u00ed en el amor.<\/p>\n

I believed humans were created from two bodies and one soul and that I had found my other soul, my other half in him. But, he wasn\u2019t my soulmate.<\/p>\n

Era alguien que sacaba lo mejor de m\u00ed. Era alguien que se alimentaba de mi miseria.<\/p>\n

Era alguien que necesitaba que yo estuviera mal para sentirse bien consigo mismo. Y dej\u00e9 que me hiciera eso porque era ingenua.<\/p>\n

Idealic\u00e9 mi sufrimiento y me hice creer que era un h\u00e9roe luchando contra el amor. Pero lo \u00fanico que fui fue una est\u00fapida por enamorarme de un narcisista.<\/p>\n

Relacionado: La gu\u00eda definitiva para ignorar a un narcisista (Detecci\u00f3n y consecuencias)<\/a><\/p>\n

I lost myself to a narcissistic person…<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I stopped believing I\u2019m worthy and that I deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

Perd\u00ed mi confianza. Perd\u00ed mi autoestima. Dej\u00e9 que su ego\u00edsmo ganara y permit\u00ed que todo girara en torno a \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Dej\u00e9 que me manipulara. Nada de esto fue consentido y sin embargo sucedi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Me perd\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Relacionado: C\u00f3mo herir emocionalmente a un hombre narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Pero tambi\u00e9n volv\u00ed a encontrarme a m\u00ed mismo.<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Pas\u00e9 por un infierno para un hombre. Fui la mejor versi\u00f3n de m\u00ed mismo. Lo di todo y no me guard\u00e9 nada.<\/p>\n

I wish I could say I didn\u2019t get anything out of it, but that\u2019s not how the story ended. I got a whole new life lesson out of it.<\/p>\n

I might have been a wreck for a while, but I wasn\u2019t going to allow myself to be that for the rest of my life. It\u2019d mean he won and I couldn\u2019t let that happen.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que me levant\u00e9 y empec\u00e9 a coser mis pedazos rotos uno a uno. Remend\u00e9 uno a uno todos los agujeros de mi coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I patched every hole in my soul as well. I\u2019d leave my house with my head held high as if what he did to me was nothing.<\/p>\n

Me pas\u00f3 por encima demasiadas veces que no tuve m\u00e1s remedio que ense\u00f1arle la puerta de salida de mi vida.<\/p>\n

Por c\u00f3mo me trataba, pens\u00e9 que wasn\u2019t worthy of love<\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

It took me a while but I realized that I am more than enough\u2014it was him who didn\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>\n

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