{"id":59927,"date":"2020-04-14T20:15:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T20:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=59927"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:15:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:15:00","slug":"como-gustarle-a-alguien","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-gustarle-a-alguien\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo gustarle a alguien: 20 m\u00e9todos que realmente funcionan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo caerle bien a alguien? \u00bfQu\u00e9 puedes hacer para que alguien se enamore de ti?<\/p>\n<p>How can the person you\u2019re into, see all of your qualities? How can you open their eyes and make them realize you\u2019re the one for them?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I won\u2019t lie to you: accomplishing this isn\u2019t always easy.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, conseguir que alguien se enamore de ti requiere mucha energ\u00eda y esfuerzo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60140\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-kissing-man.jpg\" alt=\"mujer besando hombre ambos en chaquetas de cuero\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>After all, you can\u2019t control how someone feels about you and convincing them that you\u2019re likeable and worthy of their attention takes time and patience.<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, you came to the right place because we\u2019re about to reveal to you the ultimate step-by-step guide towards your crush\u2019s heart.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you\u2019re wondering how to make someone like you back, just follow the following advice. I promise you, these psychological tricks work with anyone.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">20 maneras infalibles de enamorar a alguien<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2>1. El exterior es tan importante como el interior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59936\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camiseta blanca de tirantes sujetando un aparato de gimnasia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re trying to make anyone like you, in the first place, you have to make sure to look your best.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerde que la primera impresi\u00f3n lo es todo y consid\u00e9rela como su oportunidad de hacerse simp\u00e1tico a su inter\u00e9s amoroso.<\/p>\n<p>This step doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with this particular person you\u2019re into.<\/p>\n<p>Whether it be that you\u2019re a girl or guy, it\u2019s much more connected with you becoming more appealing and attractive for the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<p>As much as people claim otherwise, the truth is that we\u2019re all drawn by someone\u2019s physical appearance at a first glance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camiseta de tirantes blanca mientras se mira al espejo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to look perfect or that you should undergo some crazy aesthetic treatments or even plastic surgeries to get someone to like you.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it will be enough to hit the gym and to bring your body in order. Make sure you have a neat hairdo, be careful about the way you dress, and don\u2019t forget to smell good at all times.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re a girl, don\u2019t be scared to wear the clothes that will point out your attributes, but be careful about not looking too cheap either.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, todos los chicos se sentir\u00e1n atra\u00eddos por tu <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/tetas-o-culos-la-verdad-sobre-las-obsesiones-y-fantasias-masculinas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">culo y tetas<\/a>, but if you\u2019re looking for something more serious, this shouldn\u2019t be the only thing you have to offer.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t put too much makeup on but use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60132\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pretty-woman-walking.jpg\" alt=\"bonita mujer caminando por la acera cerca de paredes blancas\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\"><\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, la mayor\u00eda de los hombres te dir\u00e1n que prefieren a las chicas que no llevan maquillaje, pero la verdad es que les gusta el look natural en el que vas bastante maquillada pero nada parece demasiado artificial.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you\u2019re male, the best thing you can do for your appearance is to build some muscles. Another thing that works wonders is growing a beard.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to your clothing, make sure you\u2019re always dressed for the occasion and not to look like you\u2019ve grabbed the first thing you got your hands on.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody expects you to wear a tuxedo, but don\u2019t go around walking in your sweatpants all the time either.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Tener confianza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59938\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-people.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de gente charlando cerca de las escaleras y la pared azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"519\"><\/p>\n<p>Nadie puede explicarlo, pero un hecho probado es que hay una cosa que a todo el mundo le gusta m\u00e1s que nada y es <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/construir-la-confianza-en-uno-mismo-vida-exitosa-citas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">confianza<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s quite simple: when you think that you\u2019re good enough and leave a good first impression, people around you accept that opinion and follow your lead, so they end up considering you pretty awesome as well.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially the case when it comes to dating and the way the opposite sex sees you. If you think that you\u2019re a good catch, the person you want to like you will be all over you too.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, el truco de la confianza en uno mismo es que no se puede actuar en consecuencia.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re struggling with insecurities and think of yourself as not enough, you won\u2019t be able to pretend that you\u2019re full of self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>At least, you won\u2019t be able to do it for long. It\u2019s like most people have that sixth sense and sense the vibe you\u2019re sending, so sooner or later, they see right through your false pretenses.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59939\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-a-drink.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con una bebida en la mano dando un mensaje \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s exactly why you have to be sure about your qualities before convincing the person of your interest that you\u2019re worthy of their attention.<\/p>\n<p>Easier said than done, I know. Nevertheless, I\u2019m begging you to at least try and work on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de centrarte en tus fracasos, si\u00e9ntete orgulloso de cada peque\u00f1a cosa que consigas durante el d\u00eda. Ponte t\u00fa primero y aprende a complacer tus necesidades.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to your social skills, start with talking a little bit more loudly and don\u2019t be scared to say your opinion about every topic.<\/p>\n<p>Look everyone directly in the eyes while you\u2019re talking \u2013 that will show them that you stand behind your words.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e1sicamente, cuando entres en la sala, reduce tu timidez y act\u00faa como si fueras el due\u00f1o. Te prometo que as\u00ed todas las miradas estar\u00e1n puestas en ti.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Mostrar inter\u00e9s<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59943\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/blonde-woman-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia sonriendo a un hombre sentado cenando\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo gustas a alguien?<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect the object of your affection to like you back unless they\u2019re aware that you\u2019re interested in them first, can you?<\/p>\n<p>Precisamente por eso tienes que ser t\u00fa quien muestre iniciativa, para poder obtener alguna respuesta.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter whether it is that you&#8217;re male or female \u2013 just make that first move. No, you don\u2019t have to necessarily come clean about your feelings, but you have to initiate some kind of contact.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s someone you haven\u2019t met in person, find an excuse to introduce yourself. Start by checking them out and smiling every time they pass by and after a while, just start saying hi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59947\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre mirando a mujer con amor\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, puedes pedir alg\u00fan tipo de ayuda, dependiendo del lugar donde te encuentres habitualmente.<\/p>\n<p>If you see them at the gym, pretend that you could use advice regarding a certain type of exercise. If it\u2019s a restaurant, ask them to recommend their favorite meal or just simply ask them what\u2019s the time.<\/p>\n<p>Es fundamental que tu pareja se fije en ti. Tienes que hacerte visible y estar presente en su radar antes de que pueda empezar a considerarte como su posible inter\u00e9s amoroso.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, no todos los anuncios son buenos. Lo \u00faltimo que debes hacer es ponerte en rid\u00edculo, ser demasiado entrometido o actuar de forma grosera para que esa persona te preste atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Lograr un contacto regular<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59950\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-calling.jpg\" alt=\"hombre llamando por tel\u00e9fono con edificios en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\"><\/p>\n<p>The key to most people\u2019s hearts is familiarity. If this person we\u2019re talking about didn\u2019t fall for you at first sight, you have to become a part of their life in order to change that.<\/p>\n<p>Y la mejor manera de hacerlo es conseguir alg\u00fan tipo de contacto regular.<\/p>\n<p>This is especially true if we\u2019re talking about someone shy who needs more time to relax and become comfortable enough around you to give you a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should become boring and impose yourself on them. Just let them get used to your presence subtly and slowly, without pushing things too much.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Ser c\u00e1lido y positivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59954\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/group-of-people-having-fun.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de personas divirti\u00e9ndose bajo el sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Todos tenemos alg\u00fan tipo de energ\u00eda que mostramos a los dem\u00e1s, a veces sin ser conscientes de ello.<\/p>\n<p>Al mismo tiempo, subconscientemente, preferimos rodearnos de personas que transmitan buenas vibraciones.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, if you want to be the one who brightens your crush\u2019s day every time they see you, work on your optimism.<\/p>\n<p>Try your hardest to display positive emotions and don\u2019t allow them to see you when you\u2019re nervous and cranky.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, you\u2019re a human being made out of flesh and blood and you can\u2019t have a smile on your face constantly.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-drags-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre arrastra a una mujer con hierba alta a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>There are days when you aren\u2019t happy and cheerful, but at this point, these are not the moments in which your crush should see you.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, aseg\u00farate de que te perciban como la persona m\u00e1s positiva del mundo. S\u00e9 la persona que siempre trae el buen humor en lugar de la que oscurece sus d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, by doing this, you\u2019ll make this person completely crazy over you.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll be the ones chasing you and trying to spend as much time as possible with this special person who makes them forget about their troubles.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Mostrar signos de lenguaje corporal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59955\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-staring-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"pareja mir\u00e1ndose fijamente durante la hora dorada\" width=\"800\" height=\"515\"><\/p>\n<p>Since you\u2019re wondering how to make someone like you, it is more than clear that you have a problem approaching this person out of the blue and asking them out on a date.<\/p>\n<p>However, instead of seeing this lack of courage as a problem, remember that there are other effective ways for someone to notice that you\u2019re into them.<\/p>\n<p>La comunicaci\u00f3n no verbal, como las se\u00f1ales del lenguaje corporal y las expresiones faciales, a veces es incluso m\u00e1s fuerte que decir las cosas en voz alta.<\/p>\n<p>Besides being fun and teasing, it provides you a certain safety net: If the person of your interest doesn\u2019t respond positively to your signals, you have the chance to back off with dignity and without actually being rejected if you just pretend that nothing was happening.<\/p>\n<p>Establecer contacto visual<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSabe que dicen que los ojos son las ventanas del alma? Pues es totalmente cierto.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00ed, has o\u00eddo bien. Es posible ligar con alguien usando s\u00f3lo los ojos.<\/p>\n<p>De hecho, para mucha gente, este contacto visual rompi\u00f3 el hielo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59956\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-playing-guitar.jpg\" alt=\"hombre tocando la guitarra con una mujer escuchando en el parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>That is exactly why the first body language signal you\u2019ll send to your crush is deep eye contact. I don\u2019t care if you\u2019re shy, get the courage to stare at them in a seductive manner.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t look away if they start avoiding eye contact. Instead, continue looking at them and show them that you don\u2019t plan on giving up so easily.<\/p>\n<p>Especially don\u2019t do it if your crush starts playing your game and looks back at you. Play with your eyes and send them a clear message without having to actually say a word.<\/p>\n<p>Sonr\u00edeles<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have perfect teeth, so you avoid smiling? Well, let me tell you that you\u2019re making a huge mistake.<\/p>\n<p>La sonrisa es el lenguaje universal del amor y la mejor forma de atraer a alguien es sonre\u00edrle todo lo posible.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f3calos accidentalmente.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re figuring out how to make someone like you, accidentally and subtly touching them is one of the ways to do it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59961\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-looks-into-the-eye.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer mira a los ojos de un hombre- ambos con top negro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Naturally, you won\u2019t act like a psychopath who invades other people\u2019s personal space or is too pushy.<\/p>\n<p>However, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you touching this person\u2019s hand while you\u2019re talking or putting yours on their shoulder or even knee.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re passing by them, make some kind of physical contact \u2013 at least touch their cheek.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing about these accidental touches is the feedback you\u2019re getting. Is your crush comfortable with you acting this way or are they pulling away every time you approach?<\/p>\n<p>Remember that we all enjoy different levels of physical contact, no matter how much we like the other person. So please, respect other people\u2019s boundaries.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1rate o si\u00e9ntate cerca de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Use every opportunity you can to stand or sit near your crush. This is especially the case when you\u2019re surrounded by other people; always make sure you\u2019re the one next to the person of your interest.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, cuando los dos os est\u00e9is comunicando, que los dedos de los pies apunten hacia ellos.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Conocerlos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59962\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en la cama hombre sirve cafe\" width=\"800\" height=\"548\"><\/p>\n<p>El siguiente paso es hacer todo lo posible por conocer de verdad a esa persona que te gusta.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not talking about finding out some basic info about them, I\u2019m talking about you putting effort into really getting to know them and the core of their personality.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about finding out more about their fears, aspirations, hopes, and dreams. About asking some deep, personal questions that help you reveal every level of their being.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t engage in small talk only. The thing that will help you stand out is having the courage to dig deep down and reveal some important things about this person.<\/p>\n<p>Ante todo, esto te dar\u00e1 la oportunidad de ver si es la persona que realmente quieres a tu lado o si todo era una ilusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60122\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sits.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados a lo largo de las v\u00edas\" width=\"800\" height=\"516\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfLas has estado idealizando durante todo este tiempo o te siguen gustando despu\u00e9s de conocerlas de verdad?<\/p>\n<p>Also, your potential partner will be more than thrilled once they figure out that you\u2019ve shown interest in their life.<\/p>\n<p>They will see that you\u2019re different than anyone else. You\u2019re not a typical modern dating product who is only interested in their body and looking for something temporary.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you\u2019re interested in the entire package and pay attention to their heart, soul, and brains, which is pretty rare these days.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Recuerde algo sobre ellos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59963\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bench-countryside-couple.jpg\" alt=\"banco campo pareja saliendo sentada en un banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"513\"><\/p>\n<p>There is no better way to say \u201cHey, like me back\u201d, then remembering small details about a person.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, besides showing how much you care for the other person, this approach doesn\u2019t make you look desperate or clingy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, everyone would be happy knowing that there\u2019s someone who remembered everything they told them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60123\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-in-white-top.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer en top blanco cerca uno del otro foto en escala de grises\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Of course, you won\u2019t use the information you have just to show off, but there is no harm in casually mentioning that you remember the name of this person\u2019s first pet or the date of their mum\u2019s birthday.<\/p>\n<p>Just don\u2019t overreact unless you want to be characterized as a psycho.<\/p>\n<p>Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, utiliza s\u00f3lo la informaci\u00f3n que hayas obtenido de esta persona.<\/p>\n<p>I know you\u2019ve been probably stalking them a bit or asking your mutual friends about them, but they don\u2019t have to know that, so there is no point in showing them that you\u2019ve done your part of the research.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Haga hincapi\u00e9 en sus intereses comunes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59965\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-reading-books.jpg\" alt=\"pareja leyendo libros en una cafeteria \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfRecuerdas que hablamos del concepto de familiaridad?<\/p>\n<p>How it\u2019s easier to fall for someone when it feels like they\u2019ve been a part of our life for ages and when we can be our true selves in front of this person.<\/p>\n<p>Well, one of the ways to achieve this familiarity is by emphasizing your and your crush\u2019s common interests and shared values.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1 cient\u00edficamente demostrado que los polos opuestos se atraen, pero las semejanzas duran m\u00e1s, as\u00ed que si quieres conquistar a esa persona durante m\u00e1s tiempo, tienes que demostrarle lo compatibles que sois.<\/p>\n<p>If it\u2019s necessary, for starters pretend to like some things you really don\u2019t. Don\u2019t get me wrong.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59987\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-doing-yoga.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer haciendo yoga en colchoneta de yoga una planta en la parte posterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not suggesting for you to reinvent yourself or to be someone you essentially are not, but lying that you like your crush\u2019s favorite song when you actually never heard about it won\u2019t bring any harm.<\/p>\n<p>La mejor manera de enfatizar tu inter\u00e9s com\u00fan no es estar de acuerdo con todo lo que te dice esa persona, porque ese enfoque es demasiado obvio y te hace parecer que tienes personalidad, as\u00ed que tienes que imitarla, lo que te desanima enormemente.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, do a little bit of investigation of your own. Find out more about this person\u2019s taste in music, movies, books, art and other things and try learning about their general attitudes about life.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, la pr\u00f3xima vez que qued\u00e9is, menciona casualmente algo que les guste y pres\u00e9ntalo como tu preferencia.<\/p>\n<p>Trust me, your crush will be thrilled they\u2019ve found the chance to meet someone as similar to them as you are.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Hazles cumplidos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59973\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-suit.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con traje cogiendo de la mano a una mujer con una flor en la cabeza\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Who doesn\u2019t like compliments? Trust me, we all enjoy hearing them, even those of us who blush every time.<\/p>\n<p>Y la persona que te gusta no es una excepci\u00f3n. Por eso, piropear a la persona que te interesa es uno de los caminos m\u00e1s seguros hacia su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>O\u00edr que alguien nos elogia y nos dice cosas bonitas nos sube el ego. Nos sentimos m\u00e1s dignos y mejor con nosotros mismos en general.<\/p>\n<p>When you compliment your crush, you\u2019re working on their self-esteem. And before you know it, they\u2019ll become hooked on the sensation you\u2019re giving them.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, you&#8217;ll make this person feel good in your presence. And who doesn\u2019t like being around someone who makes them feel like they\u2019re the best in the world?<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you won\u2019t follow them around, paying random compliments.<\/p>\n<p>En lugar de eso, d\u00edgales algo agradable sobre su aspecto, sentido del humor o inteligencia de vez en cuando y eso ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s que suficiente.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Estar disponible<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59977\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-and-dog.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer y perro con pared de tablones sosteniendo tazas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>If you want a specific person to like you, they have to know that you\u2019re emotionally available.<\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t play games and pretend you have someone special to build some kind of imaginary competition for your crush. Instead, make it clear that you\u2019re single and ready to mingle.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t be busy when they want to hang out. Ask them to hang out and accept their invitations.<\/p>\n<h2>12. \u2026but not too desperate<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59983\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-headphones.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con auriculares y un hombre a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t be too desperate either. Nobody likes people who are too clingy and needy, especially not in this initial phase of your potential relationship.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you\u2019re crazy over this person and that you want to spend every second of your free time with them.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, if you&#8217;re calling and texting them all the time, you can just get the opposite effect and cause them to get tired of you before you\u2019ve even started dating.<\/p>\n<p>Besides, you don\u2019t want them to start taking you for granted. Don\u2019t allow them to think that you\u2019ll always be there for them, no matter how they behave and that they can have you whenever they feel like it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60124\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-shades.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con gafas de sol mirando a una mujer sonriente a su lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>In this case, it\u2019s best to find some kind of balance. It\u2019s crucial to follow their reactions and be realistic about whether you\u2019re bothering them or they\u2019re enjoying your presence.<\/p>\n<p>Para empezar, estate cerca de ellos y luego, ret\u00edrate inesperadamente. Haz que se acostumbren a tu presencia y luego dales la oportunidad de sentir tu ausencia y echarte de menos.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, all of this sounds like game playing, but it\u2019s simply something you have to do if you\u2019re trying to figure out how to make someone like you.<\/p>\n<h2>13. 13. Tener sentido del humor<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59981\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-talking-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer hablando por tel\u00e9fono y un hombre de pie mientras pincha la nariz de la mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>One of the most effective ways to get into someone\u2019s pants and heart is to make them laugh. Everyone loves a good laugh and a sense of humor is always a plus.<\/p>\n<p>El truco aqu\u00ed es que tu humor sea sano. Intenta averiguar qu\u00e9 tipo de bromas le gustan m\u00e1s a esa persona y recuerda que algunas personas se dejan insultar m\u00e1s f\u00e1cilmente que otras.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re getting to know each other, avoid dirty sexual jokes because that might offend them and make them think that you only have one thing on your mind.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be vulgar; use appropriate humor until you see what makes them laugh.<\/p>\n<p>Otra cosa a la que debes prestar atenci\u00f3n es a encontrar el equilibrio perfecto entre bromear y re\u00edrte de ellos.<\/p>\n<p>Tease them, but don\u2019t point out their flaws. You don\u2019t want them to get the impression that you\u2019re trying to put them down in any way.<\/p>\n<h2>14. Ser honesto y aut\u00e9ntico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60127\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-gives-small-flower.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre da una peque\u00f1a flor a una mujer con la luz asomando entre los \u00e1rboles de detr\u00e1s\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re talking about your perfect partner, honesty is one of the first personality traits you fall for, right? Nobody likes to be around people who constantly lie and your crush is no different.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, it\u2019s your job to show them that you\u2019re honest and genuine.<\/p>\n<p>Make sure they see that you have good intentions and that you\u2019re not there to hurt their feelings and break their heart in the future.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, in the beginning, you\u2019ll want to present yourself in the best possible light. You won\u2019t talk about your biggest flaws right away and there is nothing wrong with that.<\/p>\n<p>However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should pretend to be someone you\u2019re not just to win this person over.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60125\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-hair-blown.jpg\" alt=\"mujer feliz con el pelo al viento junto a un hombre con camisa blanca\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\"><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t hide your true colors and don\u2019t invent a whole new personality to be more appealing to this person, because your real self will come out on the surface sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s, di siempre la verdad, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, there is a huge difference between telling a little white lie \u2013 for instance, convincing someone that this new shirt they just bought looks awesome on them when you actually don\u2019t like it at all \u2013 and hiding something important about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Be as honest as possible about your past, but don\u2019t reveal all of your worst sides right away. The most important thing is to stand behind your words and never allow them to catch you lying.<\/p>\n<h2>15. Show them you\u2019re reliable and trustworthy<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59966\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-doing-exercise.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer haciendo ejercicio dentro de una pista cubierta\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Another quality everyone, including this guy or a girl you\u2019re into, is definitely looking for is having someone who will always be there for them.<\/p>\n<p>Y eso es exactamente lo que tienes que demostrarles: que pueden confiar en ti y contar contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Being a trustworthy person means that you\u2019re able to keep a secret and you don\u2019t have a habit of making false promises.<\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re reliable, your crush can count on you at all times. Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow them to take advantage of your kindness and call you only when they need you.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you act like someone who won\u2019t back out on them in case of emergency, someone who will give them a hand when they need it the most, trust me, it is a huge plus and a way into their heart.<\/p>\n<h2>16. Pedir consejo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59988\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/behind-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"detr\u00e1s de una mujer y un hombre sentados en un sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>El siguiente paso para caerle bien a alguien es demostrarle que te parece sabio, listo e inteligente.<\/p>\n<p>Es hacerles saber que aprecias su opini\u00f3n y su actitud, y que consideras importantes sus puntos de vista sobre la vida.<\/p>\n<p>Si quieres conseguirlo, p\u00eddele consejo a tu enamorado.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t just stop at asking for their help with some irrelevant things such as your choice of outfit, show them that you trust their guidance when it comes to bigger issues too, such as a problem you might have at work, a disagreement you had with your friend or even a family emergency.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59985\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-standing.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer de pie delante de una mesa gris\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\"><\/p>\n<p>Adem\u00e1s de hacerles sentir bien por ayudarte e indirectamente hacerles un cumplido pidi\u00e9ndoles consejo, este enfoque tambi\u00e9n har\u00e1 que tu enamorado vea lo importantes que son para ti.<\/p>\n<p>Out of all the people in the world, they\u2019re the ones you came to and that must mean something.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you disagree with their opinion about something, don\u2019t hesitate to tell them that.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t argue, just show the strength of your character and let them know that you\u2019re not a people-pleaser who will nod their head to everything they say, just because you like them.<\/p>\n<h2>17. Contarles un secreto<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59990\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-having-breakfast.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer desayunando cerca de un muro gris\" width=\"800\" height=\"554\"><\/p>\n<p>Otra forma de establecer una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s profunda con esa persona especial es revelar algo sobre ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Just tell them a secret \u2013 something that only your best friends and family members know. In this way, you\u2019re letting them know that they have an important place in your life.<\/p>\n<p>By doing this, you\u2019ll inspire your crush to open up as well and you might see them in a whole new light.<\/p>\n<p>Once they realize that you trust them enough to expose your vulnerabilities and to share your intimacy with them, they\u2019ll realize they can tell you more about themselves as well.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed, adem\u00e1s de crear un fuerte v\u00ednculo entre los dos, tambi\u00e9n te ayudar\u00e1 a aprender cosas nuevas sobre el objeto de tu inter\u00e9s.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda que no debes juzgarles, te digan lo que te digan. Aprecia el hecho de que te hayan visto como su consuelo y esc\u00fachales.<\/p>\n<h2>18. Ser amable<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59992\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-play-guitar.jpg\" alt=\"hombre toca la guitarra con una mujer escuchando con bebidas delante de ellos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Uno de los mayores temores de la mayor\u00eda de las personas que intentan conquistar a alguien especial es acabar en la friendzone.<\/p>\n<p>According to a lot of people, once you enter this dark territory, there is no way out \u2013 you\u2019re stuck there forever and nothing you do can get you out of this Bermuda triangle.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, how can you expect to get under someone\u2019s skin if you don\u2019t become friends first?<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;m not talking about a situation when you directly approach someone you find attractive and ask them out right away.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the process of making them like you, in which friendship cannot be avoided.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 debes hacer exactamente? \u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes hacerte amigo de la persona que te gusta sin caer en la friendzone?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59994\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/people-holding-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"gente sujetando vasos con mucha gente lejos\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>La clave est\u00e1 en encontrar un equilibrio.<\/p>\n<p>Act friendly but don&#8217;t become best friends. And never forget to flirt!<\/p>\n<p>Make sure they\u2019re perfectly aware of your final goal and intentions. Otherwise, you\u2019ll be leading them on and might even get accused of pretending to be their friend just to end up using them.<\/p>\n<p>The number one rule is to avoid love life topics. Don\u2019t get me wrong, you should certainly talk about your romantic histories, preferences, and standards when it comes to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<p>However, don\u2019t put yourself in the situation where you\u2019ll sit quietly while your crush is talking about a guy or a girl they\u2019re currently interested in.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody expects you two to be faithful to each other. After all, you haven\u2019t started dating yet.<\/p>\n<p>But if you are comfortable enough to talk about other people you\u2019re seeing, you\u2019re without doubt in the friendzone.<\/p>\n<h2>19. Hacer algo por ellos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59996\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-washing-plates.jpg\" alt=\"hombre lavando platos mirando mientras sonrie con un espejo en el fregadero\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Si quieres caerle bien a alguien, empieza a hacerle peque\u00f1os favores y cuida de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t become their personal butler, but there is nothing wrong with being at this person\u2019s service every now and then.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, ay\u00fadele con las tareas dom\u00e9sticas, \u00e9chele una mano cuando tenga que cocinar o cuando se le pinche una rueda.<\/p>\n<p>Be the first person they call while they\u2019re in some kind of emergency, but don\u2019t allow yourself to become only that.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, take care of them and their needs, but don&#8217;t exaggerate. Don&#8217;t act like their parent, but as their potential love interest.<\/p>\n<h2>20. Inv\u00edtales a salir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-59998\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-holding-babys-breath.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sosteniendo la respiraci\u00f3n de un beb\u00e9 ocult\u00e1ndosela a una mujer de pie frente al hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be clear about one thing.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re trying to figure out how to make someone like you and are going through this entire process because you don\u2019t want to straightforwardly ask them out, am I right?<\/p>\n<p>You might be afraid of rejection or you don\u2019t have enough experience with the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<p>En cualquier caso, quieres evitar confesar tus intenciones, as\u00ed que has optado por este enfoque m\u00e1s sutil.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, invitar a salir a la persona que te gusta y dar un paso concreto para que acab\u00e9is juntos tiene que ocurrir tarde o temprano.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s time to do it once you accomplish all of the steps mentioned above.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t worry, you\u2019ve done enough and managed to get under their skin, so now is the perfect moment to ask them on a first date.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve gotten to know this person, so it probably won\u2019t be a problem for you to figure out where to take them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-60000\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-dating.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer saliendo en una cena judia tradicional\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Lo m\u00e1s importante aqu\u00ed es ser espec\u00edfico. No se trata de un encuentro amistoso ni de una reuni\u00f3n de grupo.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re inviting them out on a proper romantic first date.<\/p>\n<p>Also, be concrete and suggest an activity right away instead of leaving things vague. Adjust to your crush\u2019s interests and schedule.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not going to lie -you may do everything right yet there is always a chance for them to turn you down.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they misinterpreted your intentions, maybe they\u2019re into someone else, decided to stay away from the dating market for a while, or simply don\u2019t like you.<\/p>\n<p>If this happens, you have to accept it with dignity. Don\u2019t take it personally and remember it\u2019s their right not to fall for you.<\/p>\n<p>Instead of falling into despair, be proud of yourself for trying to do your best. After all, how will you know if they like you or not if you haven&#8217;t given it a shot?<\/p>\n<p>Ret\u00edrate con elegancia y c\u00e9ntrate en curar tu coraz\u00f3n roto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-62126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/HOW-TO-MAKE-SOMEONE-LIKE-YOU_-20-METHODS-THAT-REALLY-WORK-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo gustarle a alguien: 20 m\u00e9todos que realmente funcionan \" width=\"800\" height=\"1199\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you make someone like you? What can you do to make someone fall in love with you? How can the person you\u2019re into, see all of your qualities? How can you open their eyes and make them realize you\u2019re the one for them? Well, I won\u2019t lie to you: accomplishing this isn\u2019t always&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-59927","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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