{"id":6004,"date":"2019-10-03T08:45:36","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T08:45:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6004"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:54:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:54:15","slug":"lista-cosas-que-no-deberia-querer-conseguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/lista-cosas-que-no-deberia-querer-conseguir\/","title":{"rendered":"Lista de cosas que no debes hacer si quieres superarle"},"content":{"rendered":"

You are torn apart now and feel like half of you is missing. It’s hard. That only means your feelings were genuine.<\/p>\n

Tras el fracaso de una relaci\u00f3n, lo natural es querer superar a esa persona. Quieres hacer las cosas m\u00e1s f\u00e1ciles, no m\u00e1s duro contigo mismo.<\/a> That’s why you should quit doing self-destructive things that only prolong your pain.<\/p>\n

1. Don’t stalk his Facebook and Instagram accounts.<\/span><\/h2>\n

There is nothing for you to see there. You don\u2019t need information about where he is, let alone with whom. That\u2019s not of your business anymore. It\u2019s really useless.<\/p>\n

2. Don’t ask around about him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

That’s a two-way street. If you ask people who know both of you, they will just end up sharing that with him and you don\u2019t want that. Your breakup is nobody else\u2019s business. Respect your (and his) privacy.<\/p>\n

3. Don’t text him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

You probably miss him and want to know why this happened, but don\u2019t contact him in any way. It will only make you look desperate. If he doesn’t return the text, you will feel even worse.<\/p>\n

Sobre todo deja de enviar 456 mensajes sin respuesta. La gente denuncia a la polic\u00eda por eso.<\/p>\n

4. Don\u2019t rush into a new relationship.<\/span><\/h2>\n

It\u2019s not good, neither for you nor for the other person. You are still not ready and you will just end up hurting somebody.<\/p>\n

5. Deja de ver cosas que nunca estuvieron ah\u00ed.<\/span><\/h2>\n

After a breakup, we only seem to think about the things that were good in a relationship we forget abbot the things that were bad. If everything was that great, you wouldn\u2019t be where you are now. Face the reality.<\/p>\n

6. Don’t spend your days talking about him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

It only makes him stay in your head longer than he has to. You already talked to your friends and repeated the same situation. When you notice you sound like a broken record even to yourself, it\u2019s time to stop.<\/p>\n

7. Don’t rewind situations in your brain thinking you should have done something differently.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Everything is like it is supposed to be. We can\u2019t turn back time, so it is useless to think about what you could\u2019ve, should’ve and would\u2019ve done in certain situations. Things played the way they did and it was out of your hands.<\/p>\n

8. Don\u2019t drown your grief in alcohol.<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

If you are sad and you drink, it only magnifies your sorrow. It ends up with you drinking and crying, and you don\u2019t want anybody to witness that. A hangover is even worse\u2014it only makes you feel depressed the next day.<\/p>\n

9. Don\u2019t try to get back to him.<\/span><\/h2>\n

Just don\u2019t!!! If somebody let you go, that\u2019s their decision. Tienes que dejarlos ir<\/a>\u2014there\u2019s no other way. Once you break up, even if you patch things up, it will never be the same. You can\u2019t fix a broken thing.<\/p>\n

10. Don’t forget to take some time to get better.<\/span><\/h2>\n

La curaci\u00f3n es un proceso que lleva tiempo.<\/a> Don’t think that getting over him will happen overnight. Be gentle to yourself and take the space and time you need.<\/p>\n

Avoid doing the 10 behaviors above so you can find closure. Letting go of somebody is never an easy task. You didn\u2019t want it to end but it did. You have to make peace with that. It will hurt, it will break you and it will shape you back into a stronger and happier person. When you are down, there\u2019s no other way but up. You will find your way to get through it. Just don\u2019t make it harder than it has to be.<\/p>\n

\u201cHold on to the thought that no emotion lasts forever, no matter how wonderful or how terrible the emotion may be. The tears may last a little longer than you would like, but it will get better. I promise.\u201d<\/strong><\/em> Osayi Osar-Emokpae<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are torn apart now and feel like half of you is missing. It’s hard. That only means your feelings were genuine. After a relationship falls apart, the natural thing is wanting to get over that person. You want to make things easier, not harder on yourself. That’s why you should quit doing self-destructive things…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":6008,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6004","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/jakob-owens-168417.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6008"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}