{"id":6028,"date":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","date_gmt":"2017-10-03T10:11:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6028"},"modified":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T07:28:54","slug":"por-eso-me-fui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/por-eso-me-fui\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso me fui"},"content":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m glad I did.<\/span><\/p>\n

It took a lot of sacrifice and courage but somewhere along the line, I found it. Or, maybe you just destroyed me so much that I didn\u2019t care what was going to happen. I only wanted to get out as soon as possible. I wanted to leave. <\/span><\/p>\n

I left because you didn\u2019t try hard enough.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Una relaci\u00f3n no es una calle de sentido \u00fanico.<\/a> You cannot be in a relationship with someone and think that\u2019s it. You\u2019ve done your part. The rest just goes with the flow. It\u2019s going to be ok. That is not true. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s never going to be ok if you don\u2019t try\u2014if you don\u2019t care. I can\u2019t be the only one who gives a damn. I can\u2019t be the only one who is investing everything I\u2019ve got to make it work. That\u2019s why I left. I was fed up with everything.<\/span><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me hiciste sentir como un in\u00fatil.<\/i><\/b> I busted my ass off to make something out of my life\u2014out of our lives. I worked 2 to 3 jobs a day. I tried so hard because I cared. <\/span><\/p>\n

But you were the anchor that was pulling me down to the bottom of the ocean. I felt worthless because you didn\u2019t move a finger to help me\u2014to help us. <\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you knew how to do\u2014and you did it perfectly\u2014was sitting on the couch and waiting for me to come back from work, asking what\u2019s for lunch. Pardon my French, but FU.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Por<\/p>\n

Me fui porque estaba harto de falsas promesas y palabras vac\u00edas.<\/i><\/b> I was done listening to your excuses for everything. I refused to believe that you are out of luck\u2014that you couldn\u2019t catch a break. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me negu\u00e9 a creerlo porque s\u00e9 que todos somos los sastres de nuestra propia felicidad. Lo s\u00e9 porque todo lo que me ha pasado ha sido producto de mi trabajo duro y de mi obstinaci\u00f3n por conseguir lo que quiero. <\/span><\/p>\n

I tailored my life as best as I could with one flaw in it\u2014you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

My dear, you can\u2019t sit around the house and wait for good things to fall from the sky. You have to at least try. Try anything. Try something.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me hiciste quedar como un tonto. <\/i><\/b>For 4 years, you\u2019ve been dragging me along. For 4 years, you\u2019ve been promising to move mountains for me. You didn\u2019t move mountains. You didn\u2019t even move a tiny rock. <\/span><\/p>\n

Me mentiste. Estuviste mintiendo todo este tiempo. Y fui un est\u00fapido por creerte. <\/a>I was stupid for giving you chances to prove yourself. And you counted on that. You took advantage of that\u2014of me. You knew I\u2019ll fight for you\u2014I\u2019ll fight for us. You knew I would never give up on us. <\/span><\/p>\n

Resulta que esta vez has dado un mordisco que era m\u00e1s de lo que pod\u00edas masticar. Has dado un paso de m\u00e1s. Calculaste mal las cosas. La cagaste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me hiciste miserable. <\/i><\/b>Me fui porque era la \u00fanica que hac\u00eda todo el trabajo. Me fui porque me pon\u00edas triste. Me fui porque me hiciste da\u00f1o.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

Me fui porque era conmigo con quien pod\u00edas desquitarte. Yo era la que aguantaba tus insultos y tu mal humor. <\/span><\/p>\n

Yo era el que sufr\u00eda cada vez que t\u00fa estabas en tu propia dimensi\u00f3n, completamente alejado del mundo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me di cuenta de que me quiero a m\u00ed misma. <\/span><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me di cuenta de que mi vida no vale el dolor y el sufrimiento que me diste.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Me fui porque me di cuenta de que me lo merezco todo.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Y no me diste nada. \u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Adi\u00f3s.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know why I left. You may pretend you don\u2019t to make it easier. And you’ve known, all along, I was going to leave. That decision wasn\u2019t made all of a sudden. It took me a long time to take this life-changing step. Now, I\u2019m glad I did. It took a lot of sacrifice and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":6032,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brooke-cagle-336470.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6028"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6028\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}