Diferentes tipos de personas en mis amistades y relaciones rom\u00e1nticas me llevaron a muchos fracasos emocionales.<\/p>\n
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One by one, each sphere of my life gave me plenty of reasons to start to define who I actually am. I made it a mission to become a person I\u2019m going to like, no matter what.<\/p>\n
I decided that those things that make me proud of myself would be the ones I\u2019d be doing from that point on.<\/p>\n
Decid\u00ed dejar de dedicar mi tiempo y energ\u00eda a relaciones y cosas francamente t\u00f3xicas y horribles.<\/strong><\/p>\n Aunque me divert\u00ed durante un tiempo e hizo mi vida emocionante tener relaciones con chicos malos y hacer cosas salvajes, s\u00f3lo me dej\u00f3 sinti\u00e9ndome m\u00e1s desesperada. Me hizo cuestionarme a m\u00ed misma m\u00e1s que nunca.<\/p>\n What I did was make a decision to think about everything that made me who I am\u2014my parents, my childhood, my other experiences.<\/p>\n Utilic\u00e9 el truco de pensar en m\u00ed misma como si fuera otra persona, para poder ser m\u00e1s objetiva.<\/p>\n Una vez que acept\u00e9 qui\u00e9n era sin guardar rencor a las personas de mi pasado, fui libre para construirme como quisiera.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ve created rituals of telling myself each morning what I think I should do that day and how I think I should behave.<\/p>\n Visualizo todo mi d\u00eda con todo lo que creo que puede depararme. Si tuviera desacuerdos con amigos o compa\u00f1eros de trabajo en mi mente pienso muy detenidamente lo que les dir\u00eda.<\/p>\n Pensar con antelaci\u00f3n me dio tiempo para pensar con claridad y decidir lo que quiero hacer sin caer en las trampas de mis propias emociones.<\/p>\n Lo que tambi\u00e9n hice fue convertir en algo nocturno el reflexionar y pensar sobre todo lo que hab\u00eda ocurrido ese d\u00eda. Evaluaba mis progresos para convertirme en quien quer\u00eda ser.<\/p>\n I can tell you now that I\u2019ve learned many things about myself and also about others. I became a person I can say I\u2019d admire if I met them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Siempre elijo hacer las cosas que me gustan por encima de las cosas que la sociedad me presiona a hacer. Sigo mis instintos.<\/p>\n Yo elijo absolutamente siempre tratar a los dem\u00e1s con amabilidad y respeto por encima de cualquier tipo de beneficio o inter\u00e9s que me pueda reportar tratarles mal.<\/p>\n I spend time with people who care about me and who show their appreciation for everything I do for them. I\u2019m over wasting my time on people who don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n I don\u2019t have a problem with loving myself and taking care of myself but also loving other people and wanting to make both me and others happy.<\/p>\n I\u2019ve thoroughly analyzed each one of my flaws. Some of them I\u2019m accepted as I think they bring some charm to my character.<\/p>\n Those that have been bad for me, I\u2019ve done everything to change and I\u2019ve put great effort into doing this.<\/p>\n One thing that I\u2019ve realized is even though some people may not like who I am or what I\u2019m doing with my life, that\u2019s completely fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not living my life for them, I\u2019m living it for myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n I know I\u2019m not done evolving and there are still many things to do and many things to change but I\u2019m very happy with who I\u2019m becoming. The path I\u2019ve chosen to live is making me very excited and proud of myself.<\/p>\n I\u2019m aware that many people would find this kind of life of constantly searching for a better self difficult but I love it.<\/p>\n One thing I can promise to those people is that even though it is hard, it\u2019s also very rewarding.<\/p>\n It gives me great confidence to be able to admit who I am and what I\u2019ve done and truly love myself for what I\u2019m becoming.<\/p>\n For most of my life, I\u2019ve been struggling with my own personality. Who am I? Why am I this way? Am I a good person? What is the definition of a good person? I expected to be able to differentiate between what\u2019s right and wrong by the time I was an adult but boy was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":60314,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-60306","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/I-Like-Who-I\u2019m-Becoming.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60306","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60306"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60306\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60306"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60306"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60306"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/calm-woman-in-red-hoodie.jpg\")
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