{"id":6035,"date":"2020-10-03T10:31:22","date_gmt":"2020-10-03T10:31:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6035"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:31:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:31:26","slug":"secuelas-rotas-alguien-de-confianza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/secuelas-rotas-alguien-de-confianza\/","title":{"rendered":"Las secuelas de que te rompa alguien en quien m\u00e1s confiabas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you put your trust in someone, you do it in good faith. You trust people with all your heart thinking they\u2019ll never use that trust to hurt you. But, usually, people that break us are those who we\u2019d swore would never to do that.<\/p>\r\n<p>La persona que jur\u00e9 que nunca me har\u00eda da\u00f1o me hizo pedazos. Y \u00bfc\u00f3mo te recuperas de que te rompa algo alguien a quien amabas y en quien m\u00e1s confiabas?<\/p>\r\n<p>I tried to forget, but it didn\u2019t work. I tried to keep it off of my mind, doing whatever I could to keep myself busy, but it didn\u2019t help. Then I tried to understand, but I just couldn&#8217;t. I couldn\u2019t wrap my mind around it because I would\u2019ve never done it. I\u2019d never use someone\u2019s trust in a bad way when I know what that person has been through. I would never pour gasoline on the fire.<\/p>\r\n<p>I would never break somebody. I\u2019d never do something this brutal to someone because I know how much it hurts. I am not scared of going to hell because I doubt it gets worse than this.<\/p>\r\n<p>The thing that gets me the most is that I\u2019m not sure if I\u2019m ever going to be truly happy anymore. Because each time I smile, the thought of what happened to me starts knocking from the back of my mind. And I end up being completely powerless to it.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124343 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer se apoya en un \u00e1rbol\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/the-woman-stands-leaning-against-a-tree-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Cuando te rompe alguien en quien m\u00e1s conf\u00edas, te conviertes en otra persona.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>I am not half the person I used to be. I don\u2019t laugh half as much as I laughed before. I get anxious the moment somebody asks me something personal. I refuse to tell people how I feel.<\/p>\r\n<p>The thing is, I\u2019m ashamed. I don\u2019t want to tell anybody about what happened to me. I don\u2019t want anyone to know how naive I was or how I trusted the wrong person. I don\u2019t want anybody to know how weak I was.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">Cuando te rompe alguien en quien m\u00e1s conf\u00edas, te da miedo volver a amar.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>I am petrified to give my heart to somebody again. I\u2019m scared to open up. I don\u2019t want this kind of thing to happen again.<\/p>\r\n<p>I guard my heart and I push people away at the first sign of that butterfly awakening in my stomach. Because I know I wouldn\u2019t be able to survive another heartbreak.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Cuando te rompe alguien en quien m\u00e1s conf\u00edas, te olvidas de confiar por completo. <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p>Who will show me that not everybody is the same? It\u2019s just too much of a risk to accept anyone\u2019s helping hand to prove me wrong. It\u2019s too much work to let myself love again. I did it once and it did me no good.<\/p>\r\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Lo peor de que te rompa alguien en quien m\u00e1s conf\u00edas es la sensaci\u00f3n de no ser digno que se te queda en la piel cada d\u00eda.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-124344 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer de espaldas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/a-woman-with-her-back-turned-1-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Cuando te destrozan, ese sentimiento de no ser lo bastante bueno sigue hinch\u00e1ndose constantemente. Antes, llevaba mi autoestima como mi joya m\u00e1s preciada y ahora no me queda nada de ella.<\/p>\r\n<p>I keep thinking that I am not good enough because the person I trusted the most got the best of me. The person I trusted the most didn\u2019t see me as worthy, so he decided to break me. If I wasn\u2019t worthy to the one I loved, how am I supposed to be worthy to somebody else?<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Constantly looking over your shoulder, expecting the worst of people and being guarded sucks, but at least I don\u2019t have to worry about being let down or hurt again. Nobody gets to break me again because nobody has a chance to get to me. I\u2019m done letting people in.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Cre\u00eda que hay bondad en todo el mundo. Cre\u00eda que la gente a la que quiero es buena. Y ahora que me han pisoteado tantas veces, no he tenido m\u00e1s remedio que dejar marchar a quienes me han hecho agujeros en el coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\r\n<p>I don\u2019t buy those empty promises about how they won\u2019t hurt me. Because I know they will if I only give them a chance.<\/p>\r\n<p>I am not being angry and I\u2019m not throwing a tantrum. I\u2019m simply disappointed in myself. I just don\u2019t get how I could be so naive to give somebody the tools to break me and strongly believe he\u2019d never would.<\/p>\r\n<p><i> Maybe, I will allow myself to get back to the way I was before. Maybe, I will give life another chance. Maybe, I will decide to love and trust again, but that \u2018maybe\u2019 won\u2019t be coming soon. <\/i><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-124342\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Las secuelas de que te rompa alguien en quien m\u00e1s confiabas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you put your trust in someone, you do it in good faith. You trust people with all your heart thinking they\u2019ll never use that trust to hurt you. But, usually, people that break us are those who we\u2019d swore would never to do that. The person I swore would never hurt me actually broke&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":124341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6035","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/The-Aftermath-Of-Being-Broken-By-Someone-You-Trusted-The-Most-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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