{"id":6044,"date":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","date_gmt":"2020-04-03T10:54:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6044"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:42:27","slug":"falling-love-chica-sobrevivio-abuso-emocional-saber","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/falling-love-chica-sobrevivio-abuso-emocional-saber\/","title":{"rendered":"Antes de enamorarte de una chica que ha sobrevivido a abusos emocionales, debes saber esto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely.<\/p>\n<p>The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any way.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t like something, he will try to talk, but if things don\u2019t function, he will rather leave her than do some harm.<\/p>\n<p>Pero lo cierto es que hoy en d\u00eda hay muchas mujeres que han sufrido abusos emocionales y para todos aquellos hombres que quieran salir con una chica as\u00ed, esto es lo que deben tener en cuenta.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Necesita o\u00edr que es digna<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94068\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriendo y mir\u00e1ndose al exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/couple-smiling-and-looking-at-each-other-outside-768x516.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si te pones en su lugar, entender\u00e1s por qu\u00e9 lo digo.<\/p>\n<p>Una vez se enamor\u00f3 del tipo equivocado, el que le hizo la vida imposible y el que le hizo creer que no era suficiente.<\/p>\n<p>And now, she doesn\u2019t want the same things to happen again. So, don\u2019t be too harsh on her.<\/p>\n<p>Dale tiempo para curarse y ens\u00e9\u00f1ale a quererse de nuevo.<\/p>\n<p>Tell her that she is beautiful and special just the way she is and that you don\u2019t want her to change unless she wants it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es muy cuidadosa&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94069\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una pareja sonriente que se abraza y se mira en el exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/side-view-of-smiling-couple-hugging-and-looking-each-other-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando pasas alg\u00fan tiempo con un maltratador, aprendes a andar con pies de plomo. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/a-la-chica-que-confundio-el-abuso-con-el-amor\/\">Cada ni\u00f1a maltratada emocionalmente<\/a> sabe esto.<\/p>\n<p>She knows that her man can be moody and that she is the one who will pay for all that in the end. That\u2019s why she will always be careful.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t let you walk into her life easily if you don\u2019t show to her how much you care about her.<\/p>\n<p>Esto es normal y s\u00f3lo espero que haya algunos chicos buenos por ah\u00ed que sepan tratarla con respeto. Porque eso es lo que toda mujer merece.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A veces se confunde&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94070\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre consolando a su mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-comforting-his-woman-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estar en una relaci\u00f3n abusiva definitivamente ha dejado algunas cicatrices profundas.<\/p>\n<p>Just because of this, she will sometimes be confused about things that she wants or doesn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n<p>Ha pasado por un infierno y ha vuelto, as\u00ed que necesita algo m\u00e1s de tiempo para darse cuenta de qui\u00e9n es su prioridad y qui\u00e9n su opci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Once she finishes doing this, she will let you know. So if you really care about her, give her time to decide. And remember, big things just don\u2019t happen overnight!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es extremadamente emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94067\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer tumbados sobre una superficie de cemento y mir\u00e1ndose el uno al otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/man-and-woman-lying-on-concrete-surface-and-looking-each-other-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si conoces su historia, entonces tambi\u00e9n sabes que form\u00f3 parte de algo dram\u00e1tico y malo. Por todas estas cosas es m\u00e1s emocional que otras chicas.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez pueda herirla la forma en que dices algo con tu voz alta.<\/p>\n<p>Or she might be offended if you don\u2019t call her when you said you will.<\/p>\n<p>Peque\u00f1as cosas como esas pueden hacer o arruinar su d\u00eda. As\u00ed que si quieres conservarla, ten cuidado con esas peque\u00f1as cosas porque son las que m\u00e1s cuentan.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Es una guerrera<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94071\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de una hermosa mujer morena en el parque de oto\u00f1o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Portrait-of-a-beautiful-brunette-woman-in-autumn-park-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ha pasado por muchas cosas que la han hecho m\u00e1s fuerte. Ya no es la misma chica del a\u00f1o pasado.<\/p>\n<p>She won\u2019t text you every day just to remind you that she exists.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want to be a victim anymore and she will do everything in her power for history not to repeat itself.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quiere que esta vez sea diferente&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94073\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg\" alt=\"pareja sonriente que se mira sentada en una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/smiling-couple-looking-at-each-other-while-sitting-on-table-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Una chica as\u00ed pas\u00f3 por un infierno, as\u00ed que quiere que esta vez las cosas sean diferentes.<\/p>\n<p>She wants everything that she couldn\u2019t have in the previous relationship and she won\u2019t settle for anything less than she deserves.<\/p>\n<p>Su historia estaba llena de dolor, pero si encuentra a un hombre en el que pueda creer y que la haga feliz de nuevo, sin duda se quedar\u00e1 con \u00e9l. Al fin y al cabo, ella quer\u00eda eso para toda su vida.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Quiere que la aceptes tal y como es&nbsp;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94072\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"pareja feliz mir\u00e1ndose\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/happy-couple-looking-at-each-other-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es consciente de que a veces es un desastre y de que est\u00e1 bien que te vayas. Pero en el fondo, le encantar\u00eda que te quedaras y lucharas por ella.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3lo quiere un hombre de verdad que la acepte con todas sus imperfecciones, \u00a1porque la han convertido en la mujer que es hoy!<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n:&nbsp;<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/carta-hombre-maltratado-emocionalmente\/\">Carta al hombre que me maltrat\u00f3 emocionalmente<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-94065\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Antes de enamorarte de una chica que ha sobrevivido a abusos emocionales, debes saber esto\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s get one thing straight\u2014love is an amazing thing! But some of us once fell so hard for a guy, that we were blind to see that he was taking advantage of us and kept hurting us purposely. The right one will never abuse his lady emotionally. In fact, he won\u2019t abuse her in any&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":94064,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Before-Falling-In-Love-With-A-Girl-Who-Survived-Emotional-Abuse-Know-This.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6044"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6044\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/94064"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}