{"id":61061,"date":"2020-04-09T22:30:05","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T22:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61061"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:21:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:21:56","slug":"deje-de-esperar-un-resultado-diferente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deje-de-esperar-un-resultado-diferente\/","title":{"rendered":"Dejar de cometer los mismos errores y esperar un resultado diferente"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hay una dura verdad cuando se trata de dar segundas oportunidades: En la mayor\u00eda de los casos, es completamente in\u00fatil y en vano. \u00bfSabe por qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Porque por mucho que lo intentes, al final las cosas acaban igual que la primera vez.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It happens with all relationships and it\u2019s been happening to you since you can remember.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ve always been a believer. You had faith that your love can change the people you care for.<\/p>\n

Cre\u00edste en sus falsas promesas y excusas vac\u00edas<\/a>. Pensabas que dando oportunidades a la gente, les inspirabas a ser mejores.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ninguna de tus expectativas se hizo realidad. Sobre todo en el caso de tu ex.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re real with yourself, you\u2019ll admit that you\u2019ve given this man more chances than you can count.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cada vez que mete la pata, ah\u00ed est\u00e1 a tu puerta, suplicando otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

He puts effort into convincing you that he\u2019ll improve, start treating you differently, and finally become the man you deserve him to be.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 pasa? Aunque en el fondo sabes que todo esto es mentira, de alguna manera consigues creerle porque eso es lo que quieres.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Inconscientemente, quieres o\u00edrle mentirte. Quieres volver a confiar en \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de todo, \u00bfqu\u00e9 otra excusa tendr\u00edas para volver a tenerlo en tu vida?<\/p>\n

At first, he acts like he\u2019ll keep his promises. He pretends to be a changed man and you\u2019re relieved by the fact that you haven\u2019t made another mistake.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, vuelve a las andadas y empieza a revelar su verdadera cara.<\/p>\n

Los dos acab\u00e1is en un c\u00edrculo sin fin en el que \u00e9l es un gilipollas, t\u00fa rompes con \u00e9l, \u00e9l se disculpa y t\u00fa vuelves con \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sounds familiar, right? Well, if this is something you can relate to, it\u2019s time to start worrying for your future.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante, it\u2019s time to make some crucial changes if you want to save yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see, every time you give this man another chance, you\u2019re actually giving him an opportunity to keep on ruining your life.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not giving him a shot to become better \u2013 you\u2019re giving him permission to break your heart all over again.<\/p>\n

Therefore, you can\u2019t be mad at him for using it in his favor.<\/p>\n

Yes, he\u2019s a manipulative jerk, but you\u2019re the one who is letting him be one.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one continuously giving him access to your life, even though you know very well it\u2019s the worst mistake you can make. You\u2019re the one allowing him to behave this way.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re sending him a message that this kind of treatment is acceptable. That you\u2019re perfectly fine with him treating you like trash.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re signalling to him that there is nothing he could do to make you stop loving him.<\/p>\n

That no matter how he behaves, you\u2019ll be right there where he left you, the next time he tries coming back.<\/p>\n

Yes, he is playing with you. But you\u2019re the one who chooses to be his toy.<\/strong>  To be honest, I don\u2019t know what you think that will happen.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re making the same mistake over and over again and you\u2019re expecting a different result.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Deja de esperar<\/a> for a miracle. You won\u2019t see it. Stop waiting for this man to start appreciating all of your sacrifices.<\/p>\n

Deja de esperar que empiece a tener en cuenta tus emociones. Y lo que es m\u00e1s importante, deja de esperar a que cambie.<\/p>\n

You see, people rarely change. And even when they do, they do it for themselves \u2013 not for the sake of someone\u2019s love.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, en lugar de perder m\u00e1s tiempo precioso, qu\u00edtate las gafas de color de rosa y afronta la verdad. Por mucho que te duela, mira a la realidad a los ojos y ac\u00e9ptala de una vez.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

A riesgo de sonar brutal, I\u2019m here to tell you to pick up the pieces of your broken dignity and get the hell out. <\/strong>Walk away and never turn back. Do it before it\u2019s too late!<\/p>\n

Because if you don\u2019t, ten years from now, you\u2019ll catch yourself in the exact same situation, still trapped in this repetitive pattern with no sign of progress and no light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n

\"Dejar<\/p>\n

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There is this harsh truth when it comes to giving second chances: In most cases, it is completely pointless and in vain. You know why? Because no matter how much you try, things eventually end up the same way they did the first time. It happens with all relationships and it\u2019s been happening to you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":61066,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61061","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Making-The-Same-Mistakes-And-Expecting-A-Different-Result.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61061","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61061"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61061\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/61066"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61061"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61061"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61061"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}