{"id":61189,"date":"2020-04-12T21:30:22","date_gmt":"2020-04-12T21:30:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61189"},"modified":"2022-02-22T12:22:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T12:22:22","slug":"la-alejas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-alejas\/","title":{"rendered":"Si la alejas, no te preguntes ad\u00f3nde ha ido"},"content":{"rendered":"

Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she\u2019ll be there when you decide you need her. She won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1ntas veces decida elegirte, si no la eliges la ahuyentar\u00e1s<\/strong>. She won\u2019t stand for that.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have a place in her heart for people who decide to care for her only when it\u2019s convenient for them.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t be able to put up with you having time for her when you feel like it and then choosing to ignore her when she\u2019s not the best option for you.<\/p>\n

She simply won\u2019t stand sharing all of herself with you and you running from her like she\u2019s the one doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puede que pienses que volver\u00e1 a ti por mucho que la alejes.<\/p>\n

You might believe that she\u2019ll be right there where you left her when you suddenly feel like being with her again. Trust me, she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll wonder what happened. You\u2019ll think, at first, that she changed and did something so that the two of you drifted apart.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s not true and you know it. Day by day, you did things that not even her could ignore. She left you to protect herself.<\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t change. She simply decided she no longer wanted to deal with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Intent\u00f3 aferrarse a ti con todo lo que ten\u00eda. Te dio el beneficio de la duda y sigui\u00f3 pensando que una vez que derribara tus muros todo ser\u00eda perfecto.<\/p>\n

D\u00eda tras d\u00eda, le demostrabas lo equivocada que estaba al intentarlo. Ella te era fiel y t\u00fa hiciste que se hartara tanto de todo que decidi\u00f3 marcharse.<\/p>\n

\u00bfAlguna vez te has parado a pensar c\u00f3mo le afectan las cosas que haces?<\/p>\n

No saber qu\u00e9 lugar ocupaba en tu vida la entumec\u00eda cada d\u00eda m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Era una muerte emocional lenta: cuanto m\u00e1s tiempo se aferraba a ti, m\u00e1s indiferente se sent\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Some day, out of the blue, you\u2019ll send her a message. That day she\u2019ll finally have the strength to ignore it. You pushing her away has made her so much stronger.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t call her – she understood. You didn\u2019t text her – she understood. You made no place for her in your life – she understood.<\/p>\n

Now she\u2019s moved on and wants nothing to do with you and you need to understand that.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still with her and starting to become aware of how little time you have left, know this:<\/p>\n

Por mucho que te quiera y por mucho valor y fuerza que le cueste alejarse de ti, lo har\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo porque su coraz\u00f3n es grande y te ha perdonado en el pasado<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean she\u2019ll be there forever no matter how you act towards her.<\/p>\n

If you continue to push her a bit further each day, one day she\u2019ll be gone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t accept her running to you whenever you need her and then ensure you are nowhere to be found if she needs you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let her spend sleepless nights taking care of you and nurturing you when you\u2019re feeling low and then disappear when she\u2019s the one who needs healing.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t talk to her when you feel like it and then ignore her when something more fun happens in your life, with the expectation that she\u2019ll reappear whenever you want her to.<\/p>\n

If you pushed her away once and she came back, you should know to appreciate this. It\u2019s rare for anyone to do that, no matter the amount of love they feel for you.<\/p>\n

Ag\u00e1rrala y nunca, nunca la sueltes. Demu\u00e9strale tu aprecio y cari\u00f1o. She might just be the only one who\u2019ll come back for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She\u2019s a keeper. Make sure you\u2019re the one to keep her.<\/p>\n

\"SI<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Her heart is huge and her love for you is tremendous. You keep pushing her further and further away. You think she\u2019ll be there when you decide you need her. She won\u2019t. No matter how many times she decides to choose you, you not choosing her will chase her away. She won\u2019t stand for that….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61189\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}