{"id":61354,"date":"2020-04-21T21:28:55","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T21:28:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61354"},"modified":"2022-02-28T11:35:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-28T11:35:11","slug":"cuantas-citas-antes-de-que-la-relacion-sea-oficial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuantas-citas-antes-de-que-la-relacion-sea-oficial\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas citas antes de que la relaci\u00f3n sea oficial?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00bfHay que esperar cierto tiempo para tener una verdadera \"charla de pareja\"?  <\/span><\/p>\n

Is there a magic number of dates that you need to have had to sit down with the person you’re dating and make it exclusive?<\/span><\/p>\n

La pregunta es: \u00bfcu\u00e1ntas citas faltan para que la relaci\u00f3n pase al siguiente nivel?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Lo que tienes que saber es que cada persona es diferente, por lo que cada una necesita un tiempo distinto para estar realmente preparada para una relaci\u00f3n seria. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Uno querr\u00e1 que sus citas se conviertan en algo serio despu\u00e9s de unos pocos <\/span>frases cursis para ligar<\/span><\/a>y otra al cabo de un par de meses.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve met someone and your <\/span>la primera cita fue bien<\/span><\/a>, you can\u2019t wait to have another. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esperas tu momento para ir a la segunda cita. Y luego otra, y otra. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It’s perfectly normal to be eager to start something special with someone new in your love life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que incluso desarroll\u00e9is un v\u00ednculo y una qu\u00edmica especiales tras las primeras citas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Deep down you want a serious and long-term relationship, but you continue to go on these \u201cnon-official\u201d dates that seem to lead nowhere.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, dating is not simple and usually, daters can\u2019t wait to turn their dating into an exclusive relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Pero, antes de empezar a so\u00f1ar despierto sobre vuestro futuro juntos, tienes que estar seguro de que tu pareja est\u00e1 preparada para convertirse en tu media naranja. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n tienes que saber si eres compatible para una relaci\u00f3n seria. <\/span>Pero, \u00bfc\u00f3mo hacerlo? Pues siga leyendo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Establecer el n\u00famero de fechas<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Lo que puedes hacer es fijar una serie de citas en las que dedicar\u00e1s tu tiempo a conocer a la persona con la que sales. <\/span><\/p>\n

For instance, you can set an 8-date rule \u2013 or 10, 12 \u2013 however many you want it to be. <\/span>Pero, en esas citas fijas, rel\u00e1jate y disfruta conoci\u00e9ndote. <\/span><\/p>\n

No hay necesidad de presionar. Mira con los ojos, no con el coraz\u00f3n, y conoce de verdad a la persona con la que est\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/span><\/p>\n

After just 8 dats, you will be able to see if there are grounds for a committed relationship or he\u2019s just wasting your time. <\/span><\/p>\n

El intervalo de tiempo entre las fechas es importante. <\/span>You don’t have to see each other every day, but make time between each date and make every one of them fun and interesting!<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, every date doesn\u2019t need to be a big deal. Sometimes, just watching Netflix and eating popcorn makes for a great date.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Maybe you can even visit your \u201cfirst place\u201d where you met each other for the very first time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero ser\u00eda perfecto que cada una de esas fechas fuera diferente de la anterior.<\/span><\/p>\n

Re\u00fane algunas <\/span>ideas creativas para una tercera cita<\/span><\/a>por ejemplo, para que su cita sea memorable. <\/span><\/p>\n

De ese modo, podr\u00e1 introducir a su pareja en diferentes situaciones que fomentar\u00e1n distintos temas y conversaciones.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You both can share opinions about those different situations \u2013 these can be your deal breakers or deal makers! <\/span><\/p>\n

Es una forma estupenda de averiguar si tu pareja est\u00e1 preparada para hablar de relaciones y cu\u00e1ndo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mientras sal\u00eds, sigue el flujo de vuestras conversaciones y analiza su comportamiento. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estas son algunas de las posibles pistas que te mostrar\u00e1 si quiere tener una charla oficial de pareja contigo:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Te piropea a menudo<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Have you ever had the feeling when someone is describing the person that they want to be with, that they\u2019re secretly describing you? <\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re still confused about your relationship status, go on a date that includes games where you can show your partner how great you are in some of them. <\/span><\/p>\n

No pierda de vista los cumplidos y preste atenci\u00f3n a los detalles de los mismos. <\/span>Analiza c\u00f3mo te piropea tu pareja: con una caricia suave, una mirada especial o simplemente dici\u00e9ndolo y luego apartando la mirada.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si su pareja le hace cumplidos a menudo o destaca sus grandes cualidades, esto deber\u00eda disminuir sus preocupaciones sobre su estado sentimental.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n podr\u00edas tomar un caf\u00e9 y preguntarle directamente qu\u00e9 tipo de socio<\/a> que quiere. <\/span><\/p>\n

What he is searching for in his love life. It\u2019s easy to tell if someone is into you if the person is quick and confident in his answer. <\/span>A ver si encuentras tus cualidades y valor<\/span>s en sus respuestas.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Te incluye en sus planes<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re questioning your dating partner and relationship status, suss out in your conversations if the person is planning things with or without you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, puede que tenga muchas ganas de viajar a un lugar determinado y quiera que vayas con \u00e9l. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe there\u2019s a huge job opportunity but he calls you first to talk with you about it. <\/span>Tambi\u00e9n puede ser algo muy peque\u00f1o y aleatorio.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Por ejemplo, tu pareja est\u00e1 entusiasmada con esa nueva pel\u00edcula que lleva tanto tiempo esperando ver y quiere que le acompa\u00f1es.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sus planes son muy importantes porque demuestran si realmente le importas y quiere tener un futuro contigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Because if he can\u2019t include you in some small plans like watching a movie or grabbing a coffee, how can he plan something bigger like a future with you?<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Te presenta a su familia y amigos<\/h2>\n

\"foto<\/span><\/p>\n

Si se organizan bien, 8 citas deber\u00edan ser tiempo suficiente para que t\u00fa y tu pareja os conozc\u00e1is. <\/span><\/p>\n

Junto a hablar el uno del otro y de vuestras cualidades, otra buena pista de que este chico quiere ir en serio contigo <\/span><\/p>\n

y convertir la nueva relaci\u00f3n en algo m\u00e1s es si te deja conocer a los miembros de su familia.<\/span><\/p>\n

La familia es siempre algo especial para todos, algo que todos apreciamos y queremos proteger.<\/span><\/p>\n

So if he takes you to his home and introduces you to his family, it’s usually a sign that he wants you to be a part of his family.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Los<\/p>\n

It’s also a clue that he wants to keep you for a long time in his life!<\/span><\/p>\n

Otra buena pista para tranquilizarte son sus amigos. Los amigos son la familia elegida, \u00bfverdad?<\/span><\/p>\n

If your partner is eager to have you meet his friends, it’s a totally good step in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta es definitivamente una raz\u00f3n para dejar de cuestionar <\/span>cu\u00e1ntas citas antes de hablar en exclusiva<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ha llegado el momento de empezar a hablar y hacer oficial vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Es persistente<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que persistencia es una palabra que siempre encuentras entre los consejos para citas, <\/span><\/p>\n

but it\u2019s valuable advice if you have your heart set on a more serious and preferably long-term relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s persistence exactly? <\/span>It\u2019s making an effort to be a part of someone\u2019s life. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, cuando se trata de persistencia en las citas, se traduce en que \u00e9l quiera verte incluso entre esas 8 o m\u00e1s citas que fijasteis inicialmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your partner can’t wait for your next date, always texting and calling you first.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Hace lo que hacen los hombres de verdad cuando est\u00e1n enamorados: muestra inter\u00e9s y afecto, y se esfuerza de verdad.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re not certain that you\u2019re giving him the same amount of attention and questioning <\/span>if you\u2019re showing him you are \u201cwarmed up\u201d enough for the next step together and he still wants to pursue you, <\/span>there’s your sign that he\u2019s into you and an official relationship might be on the horizon. <\/p>\n

Pero ten cuidado. Demasiada atenci\u00f3n y persistencia por parte de uno de los dos puede hacer que ambos tomen caminos separados.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Su lenguaje corporal importa<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

When you go on those 8 dates, pay attention to his body language signs and how he behaves when he\u2019s around you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s into you and wants to get official, it’s always written all over his face. <\/span>Try to read the signs when you’re with him. <\/span><\/p>\n

Presta atenci\u00f3n a su contacto visual, a la posici\u00f3n de su cuerpo cuando te habla y a sus expresiones faciales.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"J\u00f3venes<\/p>\n

Si su pareja sonr\u00ede mucho cuando est\u00e1 con usted, le toca suavemente y quiere cogerle la mano, le mira a los ojos cuando le habla, <\/span><\/p>\n

you’ll soon need to prepare yourself for a serious relationship talk.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Se preocupa por ti<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Aunque sus citas no sean espectaculares ni siempre algo divertido y aventurero, simplemente ir y sentarse en alguna cafeter\u00eda o comer juntos puede ser igual de significativo.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, a trav\u00e9s de esas citas, puedes ver de cerca si este chico realmente se preocupa por ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

Try to look at how much time he\u2019s willing to sacrifice for you or how many compromises he\u2019s willing to make because of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Si intenta estar siempre a tu lado pase lo que pase e intenta resolver todos tus problemas que pueda, es que quiere ser tu media naranja. <\/span><\/p>\n

A person who is truly into you will show his care through actions, so you don’t have to worry if your relationship is going in the right direction.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. He Treats You Like You’re Already In Relationship<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Al final, algo que siempre hay que tener en cuenta cuando te preguntas cu\u00e1ntas citas faltan para que una relaci\u00f3n se convierta en oficial es c\u00f3mo te trata tu pareja. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si te manda mensajes a menudo para ver c\u00f3mo est\u00e1s, si cambia sus planes s\u00f3lo para salir contigo y verte, <\/span><\/p>\n

and if he\u2019s comfortable enough to talk with you about his feelings, <\/span>planes y pensamientos, <\/span>it’s okay to prepare your speech to move your relationship to the next level.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Then the last few important things that you can’t forget to ask yourself: Are you happy when you are with the person you’re dating? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfLe tratas como quieres que te trate? \u00bfEst\u00e1s preparado para hacer oficial vuestra relaci\u00f3n? <\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t forget that a relationship is about two people, so seek the answers within yourself too!<\/span><\/p>\n

Banderas rojas<\/h2>\n

\"Persona<\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1ntas citas establezcas para conocer mejor a tu pareja a trav\u00e9s de las citas, recuerda que con el tiempo y las citas, vuestra relaci\u00f3n cambia y evoluciona. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero, al igual que tu relaci\u00f3n cambia, tambi\u00e9n lo hace tu pareja. <\/span>Vuestra conexi\u00f3n puede mejorar con el tiempo y, si es as\u00ed, la conversaci\u00f3n sobre vuestra relaci\u00f3n oficial ir\u00e1 sobre ruedas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por otro lado, puede que cambie y se convierta en una persona completamente distinta.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que aqu\u00ed tienes algunas de las banderas rojas que pueden molestarte en tu relaci\u00f3n no oficial:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You two start to spend too much time just texting and not really seeing each other<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He often cancels your plans<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He forgets about your date<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn’t call you<\/span><\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

\u2022 He only wants to go out to the same places and isn\u2019t eager to try something new and different with you<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He can\u2019t stop talking about his past relationships and ex<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn\u2019t compromise, you can only spend time together when it works for him<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He stops trying to impress you <\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He suddenly changes his behavior after your first date<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u2022 You catch him using dating apps<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 He\u2019s not intriguing anymore<\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You’re the one who always reaches out first <\/span><\/p>\n

\u2022 You don’t feel like he\u2019s into you anymore<\/span><\/p>\n

These red flags may seem disappointing, especially after a certain time when you\u2019ve already developed<\/span><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

certain feelings for the person and he\u2019s rejected you or doesn’t feel the same. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, don’t feel downhearted. <\/span><\/p>\n

These can be also reasons and your answer that the guy is just not ready to have and be in a serious relationship, which is ultimately his business and problem \u2013 not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

To Sum Up…<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

La confusi\u00f3n sobre cu\u00e1ntas citas debes tener antes de que una relaci\u00f3n pueda pasar al siguiente nivel es totalmente normal. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you are really into someone and you like the person, of course you’re eager to know your relationship status and what the future holds . <\/span><\/p>\n

Pero la verdad es que depende de la situaci\u00f3n y de la persona con la que salgas. <\/span><\/p>\n

That\u2019s because we\u2019re talking about people \u2013 they have previous experiences and current expectations you know nothing about.<\/span><\/p>\n

For some, it\u2019s easy to take the relationship to the next level after just a month, but for others,  they just need a little more time. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Either way, it can’t hurt to try the 8-day dating rule. It will be fun and even challenging for you to get to know your partner better. <\/span><\/p>\n

Plus, it\u2019ll also prepare you for the conversation that you’re so eager to have!<\/span><\/p>\n

If it doesn’t turn out well and your dating partner changes in a negative way as your dates progress, don’t stress about it too much. <\/span><\/p>\n

Hay muchos hombres con los que salir en este mundo y te mereces a alguien que sea lo mejor para ti. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas <\/span><\/p>\n

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