{"id":61653,"date":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61653"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:08:22","slug":"no-te-atrevas-a-volver-a-mi-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-atrevas-a-volver-a-mi-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"No te atrevas a volver a mi vida como si nunca hubieras desaparecido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00bfQui\u00e9n te crees que eres? \u00bfQui\u00e9n te ha dado derecho a entrar y salir de mi vida como si fueras su due\u00f1o?<\/p>\n<p>Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/7-cosas-inteligentes-que-hacer-despues-de-ser-victima-de-un-fantasma\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">me fantasme\u00f3<\/a>sin darme nunca una explicaci\u00f3n adecuada.<\/p>\n<p>El que me dej\u00f3 sin cerrar y que me dej\u00f3 intentando encontrar respuestas por mi cuenta.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who vanished out of my life, without the decency to break up with me in person.<\/p>\n<p>El que era demasiado cobarde para enfrentarse a m\u00ed y que opt\u00f3 por desaparecer, sin pensar en las consecuencias.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-adult-man.jpg\" alt=\"hombre adulto barbudo mirando al exterior a trav\u00e9s de una ventana redonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>I didn\u2019t push you away from me, I didn\u2019t ask for a break and nor did I abandon you. Instead, I just let you go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1l parece ser el problema ahora?<\/strong> Now, when I\u2019m just one step away from full recovery?<\/p>\n<p>Deber\u00edas avergonzarte de siquiera intentar reaparecer en mi vida.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfC\u00f3mo puedes mirarme a los ojos y pedirme que te deje volver, despu\u00e9s de todo lo que hiciste?<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfSentiste que casi te hab\u00eda superado, as\u00ed que decidiste arruin\u00e1rmelo todo? \u00bfSentiste que me perd\u00edas para siempre y volviste para evitarlo?<\/p>\n<p>What do you want from me now? Haven\u2019t you hurt me enough?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61656\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/a-desperate-man.jpg\" alt=\"un hombre desesperado se lleva la mano a la frente cerca del puerto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>Why don\u2019t you stick to your decisions? Be man enough and leave me alone. After all, that\u2019s exactly what you did the last time!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I hate to break it to you but unlike you, I have strength of character. Once upon a time, I told you that you wouldn\u2019t get any second chances with me.<\/p>\n<p>I know better than to allow you to break my heart once again. I\u2019m wiser than to trust a douchebag like you.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, I\u2019ll be the one who is standing behind her words. I swear\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/estabas-bien-pero-no-quiero-que-vuelvas-a-mi-vida\/\">I\u2019m not letting you back into my life<\/a>, even if it\u2019s the last thing I do.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this has nothing to do with the emotions I might have for you. So, don\u2019t dare try to accuse me of never loving you enough just because I don\u2019t allow you to treat me like a piece of garbage.<\/p>\n<p>You see, I\u2019m not your second choice, your safety net or an <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/estoy-oficialmente-cansado\/?utm_source=rss&amp;utm_medium=rss&amp;utm_campaign=im-officially-tired\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">idea tard\u00eda<\/a>. I\u2019m not someone you can come to when everyone else abandons you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61657\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado junto a la ventana con una imagen sombr\u00eda de las nubes vistas a trav\u00e9s de las ventanas\" width=\"800\" height=\"514\"><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will put her life on hold, patiently waiting for you to come back. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-rogara-elegira-merecer\/\">No alguien que te rogar\u00e1 que la elijas<\/a> y ciertamente no alguien que te dar\u00e1 interminables segundas oportunidades.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not the type of woman who will put up with your crap, as long as she has you by her side. Not someone who will allow you to treat her the way you want, just so you wouldn\u2019t leave her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not a girl who will give you the green light to keep on hurting her. A girl who will always keep her door and arms wide open for you, despite the way you treat her.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not someone who will settle for breadcrumbs of your love and attention. Not someone you can play your little mind games with.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014I\u2019m no longer the girl who loved you more than she loves herself. What a shock, right?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sitting-on-walkway.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado en una pasarela entre columnas amarillas y un edificio de acero gris\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Well, from now on, I\u2019m putting myself first. I\u2019m done wasting my time and energy on people who don\u2019t deserve it and on relationships that are doomed to fail.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorry but I refuse to serve you as an ego booster, as proof that somewhere you\u2019re still loved and wanted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Me niego a servirte como plan de respaldo, como la persona a la que acudes cuando todo lo dem\u00e1s se ha venido abajo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let me tell you something: I\u2019m worth much more than your deceptions. I will not allow you to play with me or to drag me into an endless circle of break-ups and make-ups.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t give a damn about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/no-mas-palabras-dulces-y-promesas-vanas-quiero-honestidad-y-esfuerzo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">falsas promesas<\/a>, empty excuses and phoney apologies. You\u2019re too late!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61678\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Don\u2019t-You-Dare-Coming-Back-Into-My-Life-Like-You-Never-Disappeared-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"No te atrevas a volver a mi vida como si nunca hubieras desaparecido Pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Who do you think you are? Who gave you the right to march in and out of my life, like you own it? Listen to me and listen carefully: you\u2019re the one who left me. The one who walked away from us. You\u2019re the one who ghosted me, without ever giving me a proper explanation&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61653","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61653"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61653\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61653"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61653"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61653"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}