{"id":61757,"date":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61757"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:19:18","slug":"si-tu-todo-no-es-suficiente-entonces-lo-estas-desperdiciando-en-el-hombre-equivocado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/si-tu-todo-no-es-suficiente-entonces-lo-estas-desperdiciando-en-el-hombre-equivocado\/","title":{"rendered":"Si no te basta con todo, probablemente lo est\u00e9s malgastando en el hombre equivocado"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/self-love\/girl-power\/a-la-chica-con-el-alma-cansada-es-hora-de-que-te-salves\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">tu alma est\u00e1 cansada<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried hard to make him love you, you\u2019ve done your best to make your relationship work, and that\u2019s made you feel like you aren&#8217;t good enough.<\/p>\n<p>Your feelings are selfless and he\u2019s only been selfish. You worry more about him than about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>He is all that&#8217;s important in your life. But unfortunately, you don&#8217;t get the same feeling from his side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sideview-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de una mujer que reza cerrando los ojos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\"><\/p>\n<p>You constantly feel that you don&#8217;t deserve him because everything you do is wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Debes entender que si es amor verdadero, si \u00e9l es tu alma gemela, entonces hasta las cosas m\u00e1s peque\u00f1as que hagas estar\u00e1n bien para \u00e9l.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll appreciate your effort more than those gestures.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been waiting for him to change far too long. You are somehow still sure that he loves you and that it will make him change for you \u2013 make him be a better person for you.<\/p>\n<p>He isn&#8217;t changing. He\u2019s only there because he knows that he can control you and you&#8217;ll do everything he asks you to do because you want to stay with him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/focus-photo-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto de enfoque de una mujer con el pelo cubri\u00e9ndole la mitad de la cara en escala de grises\" width=\"800\" height=\"510\"><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;ll use your love only to feed his own ego, which is already inflated. And you&#8217;ll be left with low self-esteem issues.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s become the center of your life and now everything is about him.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve lost your friends because of him. You\u2019ve even distanced yourself from your family. People who were always there for you. People who were your biggest support in life.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve distanced yourself from everyone who tried to tell you <em>that man isn&#8217;t for you<\/em>. Porque pensabas que s\u00f3lo quer\u00edan separaros.<\/p>\n<p>Do you believe them now? Do you see that everything they\u2019ve been telling you about him all this time is true?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"discutiendo hombre y mujer cerca de las cortinas grises y beige\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve tried so hard to make his family accept you and to get them to like you. And they have. They see how kind and good a woman you are.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has hecho planes para el fin de semana o para una cena rom\u00e1ntica y \u00e9l te ha abandonado para salir con sus amigos? T\u00fa nunca le har\u00edas algo as\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Es la \u00fanica persona con la que puedes abrirte, pero nunca tiene tiempo para escucharte. \u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has llorado hasta quedarte dormida por sus acciones?<\/p>\n<p>Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1ntas veces te has maquillado a la ma\u00f1ana siguiente y has actuado como si no hubiera pasado nada?<\/p>\n<p>You are missing some great things that will be so much better for you. Maybe you are missing the one who&#8217;ll love you like he never did. Who will love and appreciate everything you do for him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61774\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-desk.jpg\" alt=\"mujer en escritorio mostrando gafas y lapto\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Great things are waiting for you and all you have to do is to let go of him. Let go of that wrong man who\u2019s proven to you so many times that he isn&#8217;t your destiny.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tu vida es un libro y t\u00fa eres el \u00fanico autor. Considera esta relaci\u00f3n como una de tus mayores lecciones vitales. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Name that lesson \u201cWhat love should never feel like\u201d and close that chapter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Conf\u00eda en m\u00ed que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/8-senales-de-que-eres-demasiado-buena-para-el-y-no-te-merece\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">eres lo suficientemente bueno<\/a>. T\u00fa eres mejor que eso. Es un ciego y nada de lo que hagas le har\u00e1 ver la clase de mujer que tiene a su lado.<\/p>\n<p>Until he loses you. Then he&#8217;ll understand. Then he&#8217;ll regret it. Then he&#8217;ll wish to turn back time and undo all those lousy things he put you through.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-in-couch.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste en sofa con top oscuro y mano en la frente\" width=\"800\" height=\"522\"><\/p>\n<p>Every second of your life is precious, so please stop wasting it on the wrong man. You&#8217;ll only lose yourself that way.<\/p>\n<p>And there is nothing worse than that. To lose yourself in love. To lose yourself for someone who didn&#8217;t deserve you in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to pick yourself up after that. It&#8217;s hard to learn to love yourself again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tome la decisi\u00f3n correcta. Deja de perder tu precioso tiempo. Por favor, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/empieza-de-nuevo-y-quierete\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">el\u00edgete a ti mismo por una vez<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ll see how beautiful life can be without him. His absence will bring back colors to your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-61802\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/IF-YOUR-ALL-ISN\u2019T-ENOUGH-THEN-YOU\u2019RE-PROBABLY-WASTING-IT-ON-THE-WRONG-MAN-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"SI TU TODO NO ES SUFICIENTE, PROBABLEMENTE LO EST\u00c9S MALGASTANDO EN EL HOMBRE EQUIVOCADO PINTEREST\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve poured yourself into your man and now your body is tired. You\u2019ve constantly sought out ways to make him happy and now your soul is tired. You feel drained because you\u2019ve given yourself entirely to him. You feel empty from inside and life has slowly lost its color. You\u2019ve tried hard to make him&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-61757","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61757"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61757\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61757"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61757"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}