{"id":61848,"date":"2020-04-14T19:50:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T19:50:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61848"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:18:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:18:43","slug":"como-entrar-en-dms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-entrar-en-dms\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo deslizarse en DMs: 6 maneras probadas de hacerlo como un jefe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Enviar mensajes directos en las redes sociales es totalmente distinto a enviar mensajes de texto a alguien en aplicaciones de citas (como Tinder) o quedar con alguien en la vida real.<\/p>\n

El DM requiere mucha confianza y creatividad para causar la mejor primera impresi\u00f3n<\/a> and that’s why learning how to slide into DMs like a boss is essential!<\/p>\n

Just like junk mail, DM slides belong to the category of unsolicited messages, but this doesn’t mean you don’t stand a chance.<\/p>\n

Si te centras en seguir los pasos que se indican a continuaci\u00f3n (y si evitas cosas como ser raro y enviar demasiados emojis) tendr\u00e1s muchas posibilidades de captar su atenci\u00f3n y causar una primera impresi\u00f3n matadora.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

When meeting someone face-to-face IRL, you have 7 seconds to impress them, whereas DMing works on the principle of ‘first message = first impression’.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que lo \u00faltimo que quieres hacer es arruinar el primer mensaje con mensajes de texto demasiado coquetos, enviando frases cursis para ligar o un selfie reciente (\u00bfo un Snapchat?).<\/p>\n

Quieres DM tu bae potencial con estilo, y de una manera no intrusiva y atractiva.<\/p>\n

You want them to see that you’re different from the rest and that you’re totally worthy of being DMed back! And this is how you do it:<\/p>\n

C\u00f3mo deslizarse eficazmente en los DM<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Primero s\u00edguelos (o env\u00edales una solicitud de amistad) y aseg\u00farate de que te correspondan.<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Este es el primer paso importante a la hora de enviar un mensaje de texto a alguien en una red social.<\/p>\n

You don’t want to send someone you like a private message without first making sure that they want to be texted.<\/p>\n

Y si la persona a la que has seguido te vuelve a seguir en Insta u otra red o acepta tu solicitud de amistad, entonces es muy probable que te apruebe.<\/p>\n

So, they won\u2019t categorize you as a stalker and, most importantly, they won\u2019t use m\u00e9todos fantasma<\/a> cuando les env\u00edes un mensaje de texto.<\/p>\n

I daresay this is one of the biggest advantages of communicating like this compared to meeting face-to-face, because you can’t ask someone whether they like you or whether they want to be approached by you.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Quiero decir, puedes pero ser\u00eda totalmente raro, \u00bfverdad?<\/p>\n

Pero, con las citas en l\u00ednea y el DMing, tienes la opci\u00f3n de tantear el terreno primero sigui\u00e9ndoles o envi\u00e1ndoles una solicitud de amistad y esperando a ver su respuesta.<\/p>\n

So, if they follow you back and accept your friend request, it’s like a semi-green light for you to slide into their DMs.<\/p>\n

The emphasis is on \u2018semi\u2019 here, though. Why? Because there’s still no guarantee they will be pleased about you DMing them, and that’s where your texting style comes into the story!<\/p>\n

No puedes obligarles a que te quieran, pero puedes hacer todo lo que est\u00e9 en tu mano para causar una buena primera impresi\u00f3n envi\u00e1ndoles el mensaje adecuado.<\/p>\n

2. Causar una buena primera impresi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Probablemente ya sepas que si quieres mejorar tu vida amorosa, tienes que trabajar para mejorar tu imagen (ya sea en Internet o en la vida real).<\/p>\n

En el mundo de las plataformas de redes sociales, esto significa asegurarse de que su perfil y su feed tengan un aspecto lo m\u00e1s fresco y atractivo posible.<\/p>\n

Now, don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean that you need to look like a model in every picture and have the exciting life of a celebrity.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo tienes que acentuar tus mejores rasgos, porque todos tenemos algo \u00fanico y especial que nos diferencia de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Lo peor que puede pasar es que les sigas o env\u00edes una solicitud de amistad sin tener ninguna foto, o teniendo una foto de una botella de cerveza, coche, cosas caras o tus u\u00f1as perfectas.<\/p>\n

A nadie le importa (a menos que sean cazafortunas, claro).<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, causar una primera impresi\u00f3n excelente consiste b\u00e1sicamente en dar lo mejor de uno mismo.<\/p>\n

It’s about presenting yourself in the best light possible, but without overdoing it!<\/p>\n

3. Hacer preguntas reflexivas<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

No puedo insistir lo suficiente en que hacer preguntas bien pensadas desempe\u00f1a un papel enorme a la hora de aprender a deslizarse en los DM como un jefe.<\/p>\n

I’ve noticed that the male population has a tendency to send texts like: Hola hermosa<\/em> o Hey sexy<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Si bien esto podr\u00eda funcionar en Tinder u otras aplicaciones de citas en l\u00ednea, las posibilidades de que funcione en redes sociales<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Instead of instantly drooling over someone you barely know anything about, you should think about first asking them some thoughtful questions – about their life or about something they posted recently.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way to be engaging but not creepily engaging (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

If you solely focus on praising their physical attributes, they will classify you as superficial and “only interested in one thing”.<\/p>\n

So, even if you’re interested in only one thing (jumping into their pants), the only way to succeed is by being non-creepy and interesting.<\/p>\n

4. Iniciar la conversaci\u00f3n con un inter\u00e9s mutuo<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Before sliding into someone DMs, always make sure to do your homework and check out their profile – you\u2019d be surprised how many potential topics you\u2019ll find there.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSiguen posteando sobre un grupo de m\u00fasica en particular, pol\u00edtica, libros, comida, animales?<\/p>\n

Pay attention to their feed\u2019s content and find a mutual interest.<\/p>\n

Cuando encuentres una conexi\u00f3n entre los dos, te ser\u00e1 m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil hacer las preguntas adecuadas y mantener la conversaci\u00f3n una vez que las hayas DM.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Also, make sure to post some pictures of your mutual interest yourself, so that they see you’re being genuine.<\/p>\n

Y si lo haces, hay muchas posibilidades de que... enviarte un mensaje primero<\/a> o comentar algo que hayas publicado.<\/p>\n

Como ves, todo es posible si juegas bien tus cartas.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Las 25 mejores preguntas coquetas para impresionar a una chica<\/a><\/p>\n

5. Realizar una conexi\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Foto<\/p>\n

Internet es un lugar peligroso lleno de desconocidos, bichos raros y asquerosos, as\u00ed que establecer una conexi\u00f3n cuando env\u00edes un mensaje de texto a alguien es una forma segura de ganar puntos.<\/p>\n

If you have mutual friends, make sure to use it to your advantage. You can mention some of your mutual friends or if you\u2019ve already met the person you’re DMing, you can refer to that as well.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you met them at a recent party and now you don’t know how to slide into their DMs and let them know that you’re the guy or girl who exchanged a few words with them.<\/p>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

En ese caso, deber\u00edas decir algo como: Oye, creo que nos conocimos en la fiesta de (ese d\u00eda).<\/em><\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n puedes a\u00f1adir: Recuerdo que mencionaste (algo)<\/em> para refrescarles la memoria.<\/p>\n

Otra forma de establecer una conexi\u00f3n es comentar alg\u00fan lugar com\u00fan que ambos hay\u00e1is visitado.<\/p>\n

I’m sure they will be thrilled to share their experience and impressions with you!<\/p>\n

6. Responder a una de sus historias<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Si todo lo dem\u00e1s falla (es broma), siempre puedes elegir la opci\u00f3n de responder a una de sus historias.<\/p>\n

I mean, just think about it! Stories are one of the best ways to slide into their DMs because you won’t seem like some creep who was digging through their profile and commenting on every picture.<\/p>\n

Porque las historias se presentan, son visibles y gritan literalmente: Comenta, dale a me gusta (o haz lo que quieras)<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

So, let’s say their story is a funny video of their pet playing.<\/p>\n

Lo que puedes hacer es decirles que su mascota es s\u00faper mona y a\u00f1adir que t\u00fa tuviste una situaci\u00f3n similar hace poco (o cuando ten\u00edas mascota) adem\u00e1s de aderezarlo con alg\u00fan detalle gracioso que les haga re\u00edr.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a perfect story response that will show them you’re not a creep, that will be engaging, and that will make them laugh.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a combination of both a thoughtful and funny way to slide into their DMs!<\/p>\n

Things You Should NEVER Do When Sliding Into Someone’s DMs<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Sometimes, a positive outcome greatly depends on the things we didn’t do instead of those we did.<\/p>\n

We could say that is the golden rule of DMing – and social networks in general.<\/p>\n

Para ayudarte a sacar el m\u00e1ximo partido a tu experiencia de DM (y causar una primera impresi\u00f3n excelente), aqu\u00ed tienes una lista de cosas que NUNCA debes hacer:<\/p>\n

1. Don’t be creepy<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

By not being creepy I mean staying away from sending your dick pics (if you’re male) or pics in hot outfits (if you’re female) even though I know guys wouldn’t mind it at all.<\/p>\n

You need to keep in mind that sliding into someone’s DMs equals sending unsolicited messages (as I already mentioned above) and you don’t want to make them feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

Si consigues que se sientan as\u00ed, les parecer\u00e1s espeluznante y puede que no te contesten.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que recuerda no ser espeluznante y, en su lugar, ser sencillo y eficaz. Porque sencillo = \u00a1\u00e9xito!<\/p>\n

2. Don’t send boring, generic messages<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Yo mismo odio los mensajes aburridos y gen\u00e9ricos como: Hola, \u00bfqu\u00e9 haces? o similares.<\/p>\n

I mean, it’s okay to ask that, but it doesn’t have to be the first thing you ask someone and it doesn’t have to be on repeat.<\/p>\n

Los mensajes aburridos y gen\u00e9ricos son una forma segura de parecer poco interesante y de matar la conversaci\u00f3n antes incluso de que haya empezado.<\/p>\n

En su lugar, deber\u00edas pensar en otras formas creativas de iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n, como las mencionadas anteriormente (o siempre puedes inventar algo \u00fanico por ti mismo).<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 143 mensajes de texto que le har\u00e1n desearte y echarte de menos a\u00fan m\u00e1s<\/a><\/p>\n

3. Don’t freak out if they don’t reply immediately<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Just don’t. Perhaps they’re busy and they cannot text you back at the moment, so they\u2019ve put you on hold by not replying for the time being.<\/p>\n

That doesn’t mean you should freak out immediately and go full crazy mode on them (and also keep in mind that they can screenshot the convo).<\/p>\n

Cr\u00e9eme, en estas situaciones la paciencia es una verdadera virtud.<\/p>\n

4. Don’t use Tinder tactics<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that sliding into someone’s DMs is not the same thing as contacting them on Tinder or other dating apps.<\/p>\n

So, no, it’s not okay if you call them sexy or use other similar words that show your attraction to their physical attributes.<\/p>\n

You don’t know if they want to be spoken to that way or if it makes them uncomfortable.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que lo mejor es ir sobre seguro y evitar a toda costa las t\u00e1cticas de Tinder.<\/p>\n

5. Don’t be a liking & commenting stalker<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

And please, don’t be one of those people who run into liking & commenting mode and as a result annoy the person they wanted to text.<\/p>\n

This is another legit version of being a creep, so you don’t want to do that.<\/p>\n

No es recomendable que te gusten todas sus fotos (ni siquiera las de hace 10 a\u00f1os) y que comentes todas sus fotos nuevas, a menos que quieras asustarles y parecer raro.<\/p>\n

Entiendo que te gusten mucho, pero cr\u00e9eme, \u00a1restringirte a sus tuits y fotos m\u00e1s recientes funcionar\u00e1!<\/p>\n

Sigue siendo aut\u00e9ntico.<\/h2>\n

\"Viajeros<\/p>\n

Y por \u00faltimo, pero no menos importante, uno de los mejores consejos para citas en general, y especialmente cuando se trata de aprender a deslizarse en DMs, es s\u00e9 t\u00fa mismo<\/a>!<\/p>\n

Don’t overdo things when it comes to making the first impression and don’t pretend to be something you’re not.<\/p>\n

Stay true to yourself because that’s the best bet and the biggest shortcut to catching anyone’s attention, getting them to reply, and winning their heart!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 4 se\u00f1ales de texto que indican que se siente totalmente c\u00f3modo contigo<\/a><\/p>\n

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