{"id":61929,"date":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=61929"},"modified":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","modified_gmt":"2022-06-08T16:49:36","slug":"senales-de-que-vives-con-una-lesbiana-en-el-armario","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/senales-de-que-vives-con-una-lesbiana-en-el-armario\/","title":{"rendered":"Esposa lesbiana: 10 signos reveladores de que vives con una lesbiana en el armario"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te casaste con una chica que parec\u00eda perfecta para ti. La quer\u00edas con toda tu alma y parec\u00eda que ella tambi\u00e9n estaba enamorada de ti.<\/p>\n

But lately, you’ve started to seriously doubt her sexual orientation. So\u2026 What happened?<\/p>\n

Tan vergonzoso es pensar para ti mismo ”My lesbian wife is in love with another woman… What do I do?’<\/em>‘, it’s a brutal reality many men face.<\/p>\n

Te animo encarecidamente a que sigas leyendo y descubras todos los signos reveladores que apuntan a que tu mujer es una lesbiana en el armario.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

It sucks to think that only last year you were planning a beautiful ceremony with your future wife, and now, you’re struggling with thoughts like ”My wife’s a lesbian, how could I not see the signs?”<\/em><\/p>\n

Sometimes, people who identify as queers just aren’t ready to admit it to themselves, let alone anyone else.<\/p>\n

Para salir del armario hace falta mucho valor, y como lesbiana en el armario, tu mujer probablemente estaba intentando entenderlo todo.<\/p>\n

I’m sure it wasn’t her intention to hurt you by having a lesbian lover (who just happens to be her best friend) but a person’s sexuality is a very complex issue and some people just take longer to realize their true selves.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no encuentro el amor? 10 problemas que te impiden encontrar a tu media naranja<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo tratar a mi mujer lesbiana?<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

En primer lugar, debe estar seguro de que su esposa es miembro de la comunidad LGBT<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Even if you’ve known her since high school, there are things people keep hidden until they’re ready to share them with the world.<\/p>\n

En aras de una total transparencia, mi primer novio tambi\u00e9n result\u00f3 ser gay.<\/p>\n

We\u2019d been together for quite some time and not until I saw suspicious things on his Facebook page and our sex life became an issue did I start seeing the signs.<\/p>\n

It’s confusing, painful, and draining. As much as you want to understand it and be okay with it, you’re just so mad and heartbroken, and I want you to know that’s perfectly okay.<\/p>\n

Nobody teaches you how to deal with these things. There’s no rulebook on how to deal with such intimate and complex issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pero lo que importa es que sepas que no es una decisi\u00f3n que tu mujer haya tomado para hacerte da\u00f1o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Si la situaci\u00f3n en casa sol\u00eda ser ideal, cree que realmente era as\u00ed.<\/p>\n

People who hide their true sexual orientation are confused and ashamed, which propels them to live a life they so deeply want to be true. But it’s not.<\/p>\n

Todo el mundo tiene derecho a ser aut\u00e9ntico, por dif\u00edcil que sea aceptarlo.<\/p>\n

Si tienes sospechas de que tu mujer podr\u00eda ser gay, las se\u00f1ales que te presentamos a continuaci\u00f3n te ayudar\u00e1n a aclararlo.<\/p>\n

Whatever you find out, please be kind and respectful. As painful as this is for you, can you even imagine what it’s like for your wife?<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 10 diferencias cruciales entre el amor y el enamoramiento<\/a><\/p>\n

10 se\u00f1ales reveladoras de que su mujer es gay<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Estas se\u00f1ales descubrir\u00e1n la verdad sobre tu mujer y te ayudar\u00e1n a decidir tu pr\u00f3ximo movimiento.<\/p>\n

Espero que esto te aporte algo de claridad y paz, sea cual sea el resultado.<\/p>\n

Instead of wondering why she didn’t tell you this before she married you, focus on helping her navigate this new reality.<\/p>\n

1. She’s the decision-maker in your relationship<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

While this all on its own isn’t a reason enough to panic, it’s still one of many elements a lesbian wife would possess.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs firme y decidida? \u00bfToma todas las decisiones importantes?<\/p>\n

Be honest\u2026 who wears the pants in your relationship? If your wife’s indeed a closet lesbian, she probably tends to do things her way (or no way).<\/p>\n

She doesn’t easily let you have any control nor does she fully trust your judgment.<\/p>\n

Al final, simplemente no acepta un no por respuesta y, a menudo, te preguntas cu\u00e1l es tu papel en tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n

If this is so, keep reading, as you’ll likely recognize yourself in plenty more of these signs.<\/p>\n

2. She doesn’t care about being girly<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Your wife probably isn’t one to take up the bathroom for two hours while getting all dolled up for a night out.<\/p>\n

She’s much more chill. At home, she usually wears comfy sweats and when you go out, she takes ten minutes to get ready.<\/p>\n

She’s a girl, but she doesn’t really act girly at all. Most of the girls you know are obsessed with their looks, but not her.<\/p>\n

Incluso en el instituto, nunca se molest\u00f3 con esas cosas femeninas, nunca fue su estilo.<\/p>\n

Y cuando lo piensas, esa fue tu primera se\u00f1al (pero entonces, era lo m\u00e1s alejado de tu mente).<\/p>\n

I hope as you’re reading this now, things are finally starting to make sense and you see that this is something your wife has been carrying for a long, long time.<\/p>\n

3. Le gusta llevar el pelo corto y despeinado<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Again, all by itself, it’s not a major concern, but mixed with all the other signs, you’ve got a reason to be alarmed.<\/p>\n

A su mujer nunca le gust\u00f3 el pelo largo. Nunca lo tuvo ni le apetece mantenerlo.<\/p>\n

It’s too much of a hassle. Short hair is her thing!<\/p>\n

El estilo Bieber siempre ha sido muy popular entre los maricas.<\/p>\n

If your wife has sported this do at any point in your marriage (maybe even now?) I’m sorry to say, but it\u2019s very likely she\u2019s not straight, as much as you want her to be.<\/p>\n

But hey, it’s better to see the signs now, before things go too far and everything becomes even more complex.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: C\u00f3mo olvidar a alguien: La gu\u00eda definitiva para seguir adelante<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Su lenguaje corporal la delata<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

A person’s body language will tell you more about them than words ever will.<\/p>\n

Even before you got married, she was never one to be delicate and gentle. She sat the way she wanted to and ate with no shame about who’s looking.<\/p>\n

She doesn’t politely cross her legs when you’re out and she’s always been a bit masculine when it comes to her movements.<\/p>\n

La cosa es que esto sol\u00eda ser lo que te atra\u00eda de ella.<\/p>\n

Te encantaba que fuera como uno m\u00e1s de los chicos bromeando con tu brazo y prefiriendo los temas de chicos a cualquier cosa de chicas.<\/p>\n

Eso significaba que pod\u00edas hablar con ella de todas las cosas que te interesaban.<\/p>\n

But now, you’re starting to see that these were all huge red flags you’re only now starting to see for what they really are.<\/p>\n

5. She’s not into chick flicks<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

De nuevo, \u00a1te encantaba esto de ella! Todas las chicas con las que sal\u00edas te hac\u00edan ver las pel\u00edculas m\u00e1s insoportablemente cursis, que te hac\u00edan estremecerte. \u00a1Pero tu mujer no!<\/p>\n

She dislikes them even more than you do (if possible). She can’t stand watching all those unrealistic romantic movie moments in the rain and seeing people embrace each other despite all odds.<\/p>\n

She’s much more into action thrillers and laugh-out-loud comedies.<\/p>\n

While this made for really fun date nights for you, it’s also a sign that you should worry about who you married.<\/p>\n

It might be fun in this regard, but it’s time to burst your bubble and come back to reality.<\/p>\n

If you can’t even make her watch one moderately cheesy movie on Netflix, isn’t it time to start questioning things?<\/p>\n

6. She can’t stand the thought of having a mani-pedi<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Lesbians aren’t as interested in having nail art as straight people are.<\/p>\n

They just don’t give a shit about having decorated, long nails. It’s annoying and unnecessary.<\/p>\n

She may have fooled you by saying that she can’t have long nails (as much as she ”wants to”) because they’re inconvenient for her work, the truth is something completely different.<\/p>\n

Short nails are much more suitable for lesbians (you can imagine why) and they simply aren’t as bothered with having the most artistic nails (especially not on their feet). Who has time for that?<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Romance en la universidad: 17 consejos para que funcione<\/a><\/p>\n

7. She’s always been one of the boys<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Upon seeing all these signs, I bet you’re wondering how the hell you didn’t connect the dots before, right?<\/p>\n

Bueno, a veces pasa alg\u00fan tiempo antes de que realmente quieras ver las se\u00f1ales.<\/p>\n

Chances are, you’ve probably wondered about these things before, but you just never allowed yourself to give it any serious thought.<\/p>\n

Pero s\u00ed, tu mujer siempre ha sido uno de los chicos. Nunca fue la persona m\u00e1s femenina, su risa siempre fue fuerte y extra\u00f1a, y nunca le import\u00f3 vestirse de punta en blanco.<\/p>\n

Siempre se ha sentido m\u00e1s c\u00f3moda rodeada de un grupo de t\u00edos, lo que era un soplo de aire fresco cuando sal\u00edais juntos.<\/p>\n

But now, it’s all starting to become way too real.<\/p>\n

8. Te cont\u00f3 que experiment\u00f3 en la universidad<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

Pero eso lo hace todo el mundo, \u00bfno? Es m\u00e1s, \u00a1pensar en ella mont\u00e1ndoselo con otra mujer te pon\u00eda cachondo!<\/p>\n

Era tan excitante imaginar a tu mujer besando a otras chicas. Nunca hab\u00edas pensado en ello como se\u00f1al de nada.<\/p>\n

Pero ahora, al dar un paseo por los recuerdos, ves que todo estaba ah\u00ed, delante de ti. S\u00f3lo quer\u00edas ignorarlo.<\/p>\n

Esta es tu chica, tu roca y tu compa\u00f1era en el crimen. Y ella no es quien pensabas que era.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPero por qu\u00e9 se casar\u00eda contigo si sab\u00eda que era gay?<\/p>\n

That’s the thing. She didn’t really know it. People experiment and over time, they start realizing who they really are.<\/p>\n

Tu mujer s\u00f3lo tard\u00f3 un poco m\u00e1s en permitirse vivir su aut\u00e9ntico yo.<\/p>\n

9. Le encanta coquetear con otras mujeres<\/h2>\n

\"Dos<\/p>\n

Pero pensabas que todas las chicas son as\u00ed. Debe ser una especie de c\u00f3digo de chicas, \u00bfno?<\/p>\n

Mujeres apoyando a mujeres, y a ti te encantaba que tu mujer fuera todo poder femenino.<\/p>\n

A menudo se quedaba mirando a otras chicas en los clubes (qu\u00e9 sexy, \u00bfverdad?).<\/p>\n

Ella siempre piropea a sus amigas<\/a> on their looks (she’s such a good friend).<\/p>\n

She never notices hot guys walking by, but there isn’t a hot girl that doesn’t catch her attention (and you often join her!)<\/p>\n

All those things that made you think you had the coolest, most understanding, girl-empowering wife are actually signs of a deeply hidden secret she simply wasn’t ready to dig out.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 12 razones por las que tu segundo amor es el mejor de todos<\/a><\/p>\n

10. Tu vida sexual se ha vuelto rancia<\/h2>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

And now you know why, right? If anything, at least you know it’s not you!<\/p>\n

I know this doesn’t make you feel better, but it’s better to be faced with the truth than to keep hoping it’ll work out (which it really won’t).<\/p>\n

Your wife is a lesbian. This is going to take some serious getting used to, so don’t feel bad for needing time to gather your thoughts.<\/p>\n

Elige el mejor momento para hablar con tu mujer e intenta ser respetuoso al pedirle respuestas.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Puede que t\u00fa lo hayas descubierto todo, pero quiz\u00e1 ella a\u00fan necesite tiempo para asimilar su realidad.<\/p>\n

She’s the one who married someone outside her sexual orientation. If you’re in pain, she’s probably devastated.<\/p>\n

It’s up to you what happens next. Be kind and gentle, and give her the time and respect she deserves.<\/p>\n

She may be gay, but that doesn’t change the fact that she’s got nothing but love for you.<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 15 se\u00f1ales de atracci\u00f3n entre mujeres<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Las secuelas<\/h2>\n

\"Espalda<\/p>\n

No hay un buen momento para descubrir que tu pareja es gay. No hay una manera correcta o incorrecta de sentirse al respecto.<\/p>\n

There’s just the brutal reality and coping with this unimaginable situation.<\/p>\n

Tu mujer sigue siendo tu mujer. Puede que no est\u00e9 enamorada de ti rom\u00e1nticamente, pero te sigue amando profundamente.<\/p>\n

Recu\u00e9rdalo antes de hacer o decir algo de lo que puedas arrepentirte.<\/p>\n

You love this person and there’s a reason why you married her. Give her a chance to tell you her side of the story, and at her own pace.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll be glad you did it the right way.<\/p>\n

Ahora mismo, te duele much\u00edsimo y tu vida parece una farsa.<\/p>\n

But sometime down the line, I promise things will look up again, and eventually, you’ll find your happily-ever-after.<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de cada tormenta, \u00a1hay un arco iris! (Y en tu situaci\u00f3n, en m\u00e1s de un sentido).<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Una Colecci\u00f3n De Citas Sobre Rupturas Para Curar Un Coraz\u00f3n Roto<\/a><\/p>\n

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