{"id":62022,"date":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T12:07:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62022"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:44:29","slug":"elige-siempre-perder-a-un-hombre-antes-que-perder-la-cabeza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/elige-siempre-perder-a-un-hombre-antes-que-perder-la-cabeza\/","title":{"rendered":"Elige siempre perder a un hombre antes que perder la cabeza"},"content":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt about that.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfsabes qu\u00e9 es a\u00fan m\u00e1s importante? La relaci\u00f3n que tienes contigo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esa es la relaci\u00f3n que simplemente debe ser sana, exitosa y satisfactoria si quieres siquiera pensar en el romance.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sigues anteponiendo a tu hombre a ti misma y cu\u00e1nto tiempo piensas seguir haci\u00e9ndolo?<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que te consideras duro<\/a>. You\u2019re strong and, at first glance, it appears that you\u2019re handling this awful situation you got yourself dragged into surprisingly well.<\/p>\n

De alguna manera te las arreglas para lidiar con todas las rupturas y reconciliaciones.<\/p>\n

You keep your head above the surface despite all the insults, arguments, and toxicity. But let\u2019s be real.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t go on like this forever. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll see the damage all of this is leaving on you and you\u2019ll start feeling the consequences of this hell you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So, ask yourself if it\u2019s really worth it. \u00bfMerece la pena perder la cabeza por mantener a un hombre?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You see, there will be plenty of men in your life, even though you probably don\u2019t think that way now.<\/p>\n

Tarde o temprano, te olvidar\u00e1s de este hombre y empezar\u00e1s a amar a alguien nuevo con la misma intensidad con la que lo amabas a \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, nunca podr\u00e1s reemplazarte a ti mismo.<\/strong> Time will do its trick and heal your broken heart. Sooner or later, you\u2019ll stop missing this guy.<\/p>\n

But you can\u2019t find a new woman to live your life, once you lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Te prometo una cosa: You can make it without anyone, including this guy. But you can\u2019t make it without yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Recuerde que you don\u2019t need him<\/a> \u2013 you chose to give him a place in your heart \u2013 but you do need yourself.<\/p>\n

Sobrevivir\u00e1s aunque le dejes marchar, aunque las cosas no lo parezcan en este momento.<\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que ahora mismo quieres mantener a este hombre a tu lado.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re ready to do whatever it takes just for him to remain in your life.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, en lugar de hacer eso, para variar, c\u00e9ntrate en mantener la cordura. C\u00e9ntrate en preservar tu salud mental y emocional.<\/p>\n

C\u00e9ntrate en ser feliz y considera tu paz interior como la prioridad n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n

\"retrato<\/p>\n

Por favor, ser lo suficientemente inteligente como para elegir perder a un hombre antes que perder la cabeza. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Trust me, nobody \u2013 and especially not someone who doesn\u2019t appreciate you \u2013 is worth you going crazy over him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

As\u00ed es exactamente como seguir\u00e1n las cosas si te quedas atrapado en este c\u00edrculo sin fin.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s what will happen if you stay in this toxic relationship, full of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and constant fights.<\/p>\n

Ya sabes, if it happens, he won\u2019t stick around to help you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be there to give you a hand or pull you out of your darkness.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put an effort into fixing your heart, even though he\u2019s the one who broke it.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be there to glue you back together, even though he\u2019s the one who crushed you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t have your back to catch you when you start falling.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t stand by your side to help you heal, even though he is the one who destroyed you.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be there to bring you back to life, even though he\u2019s the one who spiritually killed you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before you know it, this man will be gone and you\u2019ll be left all alone to fight with your demons and traumas.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t just lose precious years of your life, you\u2019ll also have to deal with depression, insecurities, and anxiety, which is much worse.<\/p>\n

Sooner than you might think, you\u2019ll look around and see that the girl you used to be is nowhere to be found.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll be replaced by a negative and bitter woman who\u2019ll need ages to fully recover from everything she\u2019s been through.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, s\u00e1lvate a ti mismo<\/a> on time. Ditch his sorry ass and pull yourself out of this misery before it\u2019s too late to be sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Elige<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I\u2019ll be honest with you here: Love is important. Whether someone likes to admit this or not, it\u2019s nice having a man whom you care for and who cares for you back. It won\u2019t magically put your life in perfect order, but a healthy romantic relationship will make you happier \u2013 there is no doubt…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":62026,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Always-Choose-Losing-A-Man-Over-Losing-Your-Mind.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62026"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}