{"id":62245,"date":"2020-04-13T18:16:09","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T18:16:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62245"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:39:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:39:54","slug":"deja-a-un-hombre-que-no-te-merece","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-a-un-hombre-que-no-te-merece\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como se deja a un hombre que no te merece"},"content":{"rendered":"

Almost every girl has been crazy in love with a man who didn’t deserve her. And, we\u2019ve all had a man who didn’t treat us well but we loved him blindly, anyway.<\/p>\n

Leaving that man is probably the hardest thing you\u2019ll do, even though you clearly know that he is going to hurt you someday for sure if you don’t end it as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

Al principio, pensaste que tu amor le cambiar\u00eda. Le demostrabas cada d\u00eda lo mucho que significaba para ti.<\/p>\n

Le quer\u00edas m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s cada d\u00eda<\/a>. Quer\u00edas desesperadamente que funcionara.<\/p>\n

You really hoped that he’d realize that no one will ever love him the way you did and that would make him change and appreciate you more.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

You hoped that for your anniversary he’d get you something special, maybe even an engagement ring. But that didn’t happen.<\/p>\n

He didn’t get you anything because he forgot.He has failed you again. You’ve even stopped counting how many times he failed you.<\/p>\n

Life can be so unfair sometimes. A person whom you love completely and for whom you would give your life doesn’t give a damn about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Leaving him may seem like the hardest thing for you to do right now, but you’ll realize one day that it was the best decision you ever made.<\/p>\n

Here is how you’ll finally leave a man like that and leave him in the past once and for all.<\/p>\n

Hable sinceramente consigo mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

The most important thing is that you have to be true to yourself. Admitting that he doesn’t deserve you is the first and the hardest step.<\/p>\n

Tienes que ser consciente de lo valiente que eres. Puedes dejarlo. Puedes continuar con tu vida. Un d\u00eda, you’ll meet someone who will treat you the way you deserve.<\/a><\/p>\n

Trabaja tu autoestima<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

His behavior has affected your self-esteem. He\u2019s made you believe that you don’t deserve to be treated respectfully and that you don’t deserve love at all.<\/p>\n

Now it’s time to improve your self-esteem. You have to know that you are worthy of everything and that every other man would be more than happy to have a girl like you.<\/p>\n

La persona del espejo es tu mejor amiga. Habla con ella. Hazle cumplidos. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Comment on her looks and give her fashion advice whenever she’s getting ready to go out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dile lo guapa que es. Y cuando llore por \u00e9l, dile que ning\u00fan hombre es digno de sus l\u00e1grimas y que no merece la pena estropearse el r\u00edmel por \u00e9l.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f3mese un tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You have to be alone with your thoughts. You are aware that he doesn’t deserve you and you know that you should leave him.<\/p>\n

But that’s easier said than done, right?<\/p>\n

Don’t listen to other people and their advice. You shouldn’t even listen to your friends and family.<\/p>\n

It’s your life and you are the only one who can make the decision.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3mate un par de d\u00edas libres en tu trabajo y vete a alg\u00fan sitio donde puedas estar completamente solo.<\/p>\n

Un lugar donde puedas pensar en todo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Bring all the photos you have of you two. Turn off your phone and don’t answer it for anyone.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que es tu momento a solas, el momento de tomar la decisi\u00f3n final.<\/p>\n

Echa un vistazo al pasado. Cu\u00e1ntas veces has llorado hasta quedarte dormida por su culpa?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces te ha arruinado la noche porque ten\u00eda que ligar con otras chicas?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa hecho alguna locura para demostrarte cu\u00e1nto te quiere? \u00bfTe ha demostrado alguna vez que eres su m\u00e1xima prioridad?<\/p>\n

Piensa en todas estas cosas. Sopesa lo bueno y lo malo de tu relaci\u00f3n. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Toma la decisi\u00f3n final. Elige volver a quererte.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Piense en su futuro<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Now that you’re done with thinking about the past, take a look at your future.<\/p>\n

Imagina lo estupendo que ser\u00eda si por fin pudieras hacer todas esas cosas que te prohibi\u00f3.<\/p>\n

To wear all those dresses he didn’t like to see on you because he thought you were wearing them to seduce other men.<\/p>\n

You’re an intelligent and successful woman. Focus on your job. Work on yourself. Go out with your friends.<\/p>\n

Travel – because it was your favorite thing to do, but he wasn’t a fan of traveling so you didn’t do it while you were dating.<\/p>\n

Think about all those things you\u2019ve always wanted to do but he didn’t like them or didn’t allow you to do them.<\/p>\n

Once you\u2019ve broken up with him, you’ll be able to enjoy all those things.<\/p>\n

Escr\u00edbale una carta<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you’ll break with him via this letter. No. When the time comes, you’ll break with him in person.<\/p>\n

Writing a letter will help you to write down everything you\u2019ve felt over the years and everything he\u2019s made you feel with his actions.<\/p>\n

Si\u00e9ntete libre de escribir lo que creas que te ayudar\u00e1 a sentirte mejor. Escribe todo lo que tem\u00edas decirle porque te preocupaba que te dejara.<\/p>\n

Escribe lo triste que te hac\u00eda sentir cada vez que olvidaba tu cumplea\u00f1os o tu aniversario.<\/p>\n

How awful you felt every time your friends sent you a text telling you that they\u2019d seen him with some girls at a club.<\/p>\n

Write down your deepest feelings. Write that you still love him, but that you’ve made the decision to love yourself more.<\/p>\n

Y que el amor que sientes por \u00e9l ya no te impedir\u00e1 alcanzar tus sue\u00f1os y metas en la vida.<\/p>\n

Deshazte de sus cosas<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La mayor\u00eda de la gente dir\u00eda que deber\u00edas devolverle sus cosas junto con las que \u00e9l te dio a ti.<\/p>\n

But I say that you don’t have to take care of his stuff – just like he never cared about you.<\/p>\n

Getting rid of those things will be particularly difficult for you because that’s when you’ll understand that your relationship has come to an end.<\/p>\n

However, it’s something that you must do in order to properly move on with your life.<\/p>\n

Otherwise, his stuff will only be a reminder of him and the past, and it\u2019ll be painful every time you see something that belongs to him.<\/p>\n

Mete esas cosas en una caja y t\u00edralas o, mejor a\u00fan, qu\u00e9malas. Haz lo que te produzca m\u00e1s placer.<\/p>\n

Don’t force yourself<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve realized that he is wrong for you and that he doesn’t deserve you. I know that you want to break up with him and move on as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

There is no need to rush, though. You’ll move on but you need to give yourself time to heal properly first.<\/p>\n

You need time to think about everything so that you don’t let any man treat you less than you deserve ever again.<\/p>\n

Don’t let other people’s opinions confuse you and make you break up with him before you’re ready to do it.<\/p>\n

You should take all the time you need to make it less painful for yourself. Even though he doesn’t deserve it, you love him.<\/p>\n

Y eso es algo that can’t be changed overnight<\/a>No importa lo que digan los dem\u00e1s. Ve despacio. Ve paso a paso.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you break up with him before you’re ready, you’ll be the one who’s going to suffer.Love shouldn’t make us miserable.<\/p>\n

If it’s making you sad and if you’re doubting your partner’s feelings, then it’s not love. El verdadero amor debe hacerte sentir como si estuvieras en el cielo. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Deber\u00eda ser tu \u00e1ngel, siempre anim\u00e1ndote a ser mejor y nunca permiti\u00e9ndote sentirte mal contigo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Always know your worth and don’t let anyone make you forget it.<\/p>\n

Don’t waste time on people that don’t deserve you<\/a> porque cada segundo de tu vida es precioso.<\/p>\n

Dejar a una persona a la que quieres, independientemente de c\u00f3mo te trate, siempre es duro.<\/p>\n

But, it’s possible and it’s something you must do to leave space for something better to come.<\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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