{"id":62457,"date":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T09:06:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62457"},"modified":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T18:48:12","slug":"altibajos-emocionales-de-la-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/altibajos-emocionales-de-la-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"8 altibajos emocionales de una relaci\u00f3n casi amorosa"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>Al principio, te sientes emocionado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62470 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con smartphone en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando las cosas acaban de empezar te sientes excitado, igual que al principio de toda nueva relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>Su nombre aparece en tu tel\u00e9fono y sientes mariposas en el est\u00f3mago. Cada vez que te dicen algo, te sonrojas.<\/p>\n<p>Tu hombro rozando el suyo por accidente se siente como fuegos artificiales.<em>The chemistry between you is strong &#8211; it\u2019s like a constant electrical feeling. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Te sientes vivo y esperas que esa sensaci\u00f3n no desaparezca nunca.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Entonces, te sientes confundido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62471 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg\" alt=\"foto de primer plano de mujer\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/close-up-photo-of-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You were convinced that you were heading towards a real relationship, but suddenly you feel like he\u2019s sending you mixed signals.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer sure he cares about you as much as you care about him.<\/p>\n<p>It seems now like you\u2019ve been fooling yourself into thinking that one day you\u2019ll become a couple.<\/p>\n<p>You constantly try to figure out what\u2019s happening in his mind but it\u2019s all for nothing because one minute you feel like you have it all figured out and the next you\u2019re back to square one.<\/p>\n<p><em>They always have a way of doing something that keeps you on your toes, so you never really know where you\u2019re headed with them.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Ya no tienes paciencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62472 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con gafas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-eyeglasses-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you feel like you are still on the right track to becoming a real couple, and those days you\u2019re fine with the way things stand between you because you can see it all as a path to something better.<\/p>\n<p>Other days, you are really impatient for your \u2018almost\u2019 to make the damn move already.<\/p>\n<p>Est\u00e1s seguro de que les gustas y se sienten atra\u00eddos por ti, y est\u00e1s seguro de que les gusta pasar tiempo contigo. <em>\u00bfA qu\u00e9 esperan?<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>That\u2019s why you\u2019re constantly questioning yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62474 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con el pulgar en los labios\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-thumb-on-her-lips-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u00bfDeber\u00edas dar el primer paso? \u00bfEs ESO lo que est\u00e1n esperando?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they are just shy and want to wait and take things slowly and you\u2019re here blaming them for simply being the way they are. Hmm?<\/p>\n<h2>Te pones celoso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62475 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer abrazando a hombre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-hugging-man-5-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You see them flirting with other people and realize you have no right to be mad at them because you aren\u2019t committed in any way and you have no rights there.<\/p>\n<p>It makes you annoyed &#8211; to say the least &#8211; when they do that, but you aren\u2019t officially in a relationship so what can you do?<\/p>\n<p>They have no obligation to stay loyal to you, but that doesn\u2019t make you feel any better about things.<\/p>\n<p><em>It\u2019s starting to look like they have none of the obligations of a relationship, only the benefits of one.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Empiezas a asustarte<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62477 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top rosa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-pink-top-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to feel your emotions for this person getting stronger every day and you get really scared that they\u2019re going to hurt you.<\/p>\n<p>At the beginning, you had a huge crush on them and it was fun, but you weren\u2019t as involved as you are now and it was easier to just let it be an almost relationship.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re starting to fear that you\u2019ll leave this almost relationship with a broken heart, and you\u2019ll end up suffering over a relationship that was never even a real relationship.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ahora parece que hubiera sido mejor que nunca les hubieras entregado tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2>Est\u00e1s decepcionado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62478 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie contra una valla de madera\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-against-wooden-fence-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You imagined spending more time together, going places, meeting each other\u2019s friends and family but suddenly they\u2019re gone.<\/p>\n<p><em>Se siente super raro llorar una relaci\u00f3n que ni siquiera existi\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>En tu mente, las cosas estaban empezando a calentarse, pero en realidad ya hab\u00edan terminado contigo. S\u00ed, te sientes triste.<\/p>\n<p>Pero, sobre todo, te sientes decepcionado porque han cortado la relaci\u00f3n en el momento m\u00e1s emocionante de tu nuevo amor.<\/p>\n<h2>Finalmente, te sientes aliviado<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62479 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa verde sonriendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-green-shirt-smiling-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019ve had some time to think it over you actually feel relieved.<\/p>\n<p>Te sientes afortunado de que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-fea-verdad-sobre-superar-a-un-casi-chico\/\">la casi relaci\u00f3n ha terminado<\/a>porque, de todos modos, nunca fue un trato real.<\/p>\n<p><em>You feel like you\u2019ve gotten your wings back and you can fly off and find new love.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no longer stuck wondering how they feel and what they are going to do next.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora sabes que lo que necesitas es una relaci\u00f3n sincera con alguien que te quiera, se preocupe por ti y desee lo mismo que t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62483 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 altibajos emocionales de una relaci\u00f3n casi amorosa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At first, you feel excited When things are just starting you feel excited, the same way you do at the beginning of every new relationship. Their name appears on your phone and you get butterflies in your stomach. Every time they say something to you, you blush. Your shoulder brushing against his by accident feels&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62469,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/8-Emotional-Ups-And-Downs-Of-An-Almost-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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