{"id":62627,"date":"2020-04-22T12:24:46","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:24:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62627"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:52","slug":"5-preguntas-decisivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/5-preguntas-decisivas\/","title":{"rendered":"5 preguntas decisivas antes de darle una segunda oportunidad"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que rompisteis, has estado so\u00f1ando con esto.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been hoping that your ex will come crawling back, begging you to give him another chance.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly what\u2019s going on right now. The day has come: here he is, on your doorstep, asking you to take him back.<\/p>\n

However, instead of being thrilled, you feel clueless, confused and worried. You don\u2019t know what to do.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Despite the feelings you still have for this guy, you can\u2019t make up your mind.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not sure what the right thing is for you to do now.<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed una serie de preguntas decisivas antes de tomar una decisi\u00f3n final.<\/p>\n

1. Is it the first time he\u2019s made this mistake?<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de tomar ninguna decisi\u00f3n, hay que tener clara una cosa: \u00bfes la primera vez que ocurre algo as\u00ed?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO se ha convertido en algo habitual?<\/p>\n

Hay una gran diferencia entre estas dos situaciones.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: nobody is perfect. Whether we like to admit it or not, we all make choices we\u2019re not proud of.<\/p>\n

So, your boyfriend has the right to do the same. He\u2019s done something wrong and he\u2019s sincerely sorry for that.<\/p>\n

You might even forgive him for his wrongdoings if you believe that he won\u2019t repeat his errors.<\/p>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Por otra parte, si esto se ha convertido en una rutina para \u00e9l, una segunda oportunidad est\u00e1 fuera de discusi\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

If this man keeps on making the same mistakes over and over again and then ends up begging for forgiveness, it is clear that he\u2019ll continue with his behavior.<\/p>\n

En ese caso, no tiene ning\u00fan sentido volver con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

Porque si sigue perdon\u00e1ndole<\/a>, you\u2019re just giving him the green light to keep on breaking your heart.<\/p>\n

2. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9 quiero que vuelva?<\/h2>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

The next make or break question doesn\u2019t have a lot to do with your boyfriend-it is connected with you and your feelings.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 quieres que este hombre vuelva?<\/p>\n

Do you truly believe that he deserves a second chance? Do you sincerely think that he\u2019ll improve his ways?<\/p>\n

\u00bfO simplemente te da miedo estar solo?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPrefieres quedarte con \u00e9l, el que se ha convertido en tu zona de confort, que dar un paso hacia lo desconocido?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres que vuelva s\u00f3lo para demostrarte algo a ti misma? \u00bfPara demostrarte que puedes tenerlo cuando te apetezca?<\/p>\n

That he\u2019ll always try to come back to you, no matter what he does?<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Are you willing to take him back because you\u2019re scared of losing him?<\/p>\n

Are you doing it to keep him by your side, aware that you didn\u2019t think things through?<\/p>\n

\u00bfVe esto como una oportunidad para vengarse<\/a>?<\/p>\n

\u00bfQuieres atraerlo para que est\u00e9 contigo y fingir que todo es perfecto s\u00f3lo para poder vengarte?<\/p>\n

Answer each one of these questions as sincerely as possible. You don\u2019t have to give him the answers-just be honest with yourself.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m begging you: don\u2019t give your relationship another shot for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\n

3. \u00bfLe he perdonado?<\/h2>\n

\"Joven<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter what your ex did; whether he cheated on you, abused you, or hurt you in some other way.<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n es que te rompi\u00f3 el coraz\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He did you harm and it is natural that you can\u2019t pretend like nothing happened.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, por favor, preg\u00fantate lo siguiente: \u00bfrealmente he perdonado a este hombre?<\/p>\n

\"Pensando<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: nobody is forcing you to do so, especially if you\u2019re not ready.<\/p>\n

However, what\u2019s the point in rekindling your old romance if this issue will remain a problem between the two of you?<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, el perd\u00f3n es un proceso y lleva tiempo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, if you don\u2019t see yourself getting there and if you don\u2019t have any desire to eventually forgive him, you two getting back together will be in vain.<\/p>\n

4. \u00bfPodemos tener \u00e9xito?<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

Aqu\u00ed es donde debes ser completamente realista.<\/p>\n

Nada de idealizar, nada de romantizar las cosas: despreoc\u00fapate de tu coraz\u00f3n y ten una conversaci\u00f3n sincera con tu raz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

I know you love this guy. You wouldn\u2019t be having these dilemmas if you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

However, what you should be aware of is that sometimes love isn\u2019t enough.<\/p>\n

After all, you loved each other before this happened and that didn\u2019t work out so well.<\/p>\n

As\u00ed que tienes que ser sincero contigo mismo. De verdad crees que tu relaci\u00f3n funcionar\u00e1 si le das otra oportunidad?<\/p>\n

\"Hermosa<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, nadie puede predecir el futuro. Nunca se puede saber con certeza lo que va a ocurrir.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, se puede saber si ustedes dos tienen alguna posibilidad.<\/p>\n

Ver\u00e1s, nada de esta lucha es merece la pena<\/a> si vais a romper m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido de lo que volvisteis a estar juntos.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, trate de ahorrarse m\u00e1s desgracias y qu\u00edtese las gafas de color de rosa a tiempo.<\/p>\n

5. \u00bfHemos llegado a un acuerdo?<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

I guess you\u2019ve already had some talks regarding this matter with your partner. What was the final conclusion of all those conversations?<\/p>\n

\u00bfHa conseguido llegar a un compromiso? \u00bfHa encontrado un t\u00e9rmino medio?<\/p>\n

Ask yourself whether you\u2019ve reached an agreement on how your relationship will function in the future.<\/p>\n

Have you set some ground rules that you\u2019ll both have to stick to?<\/p>\n

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