{"id":62631,"date":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T15:32:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62631"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:23:50","slug":"haciendote-una-prioridad-cuando-yo-era-la-segunda-opcion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/haciendote-una-prioridad-cuando-yo-era-la-segunda-opcion\/","title":{"rendered":"Mi Error Fue Hacerte Una Prioridad Cuando Siempre Fui Tu Segunda Opci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"

Te quer\u00eda m\u00e1s de lo que me quer\u00eda a m\u00ed misma y lo \u00fanico que me importaba era que nunca me dejaras.<\/p>\n

I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love.<\/p>\n

Cada d\u00eda que pasaba hac\u00eda que mi amor por ti fuera m\u00e1s fuerte, a pesar de que nunca me diste motivos para amarte con tanta fuerza.<\/p>\n

I still can’t understand why people fall in love that much when it’s clear that the other side doesn’t feel the same for them.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

En nuestro caso, estaba m\u00e1s que claro que you didn\u2019t share the same feelings for me.<\/a><\/p>\n

My mother said that it’s a half love, a love that makes you blind and all you can see is that other person but not their actions.<\/p>\n

Dijo que todas las personas deben experimentar un amor as\u00ed una vez en la vida.Para m\u00ed, era una especie de fen\u00f3meno. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuanto m\u00e1s me maltratabas, m\u00e1s te amaba. Cuanto m\u00e1s desatend\u00edas mis necesidades, m\u00e1s priorizaba yo las tuyas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tu rechazo caus\u00f3 la obsesi\u00f3n que ten\u00eda por ti. Quiz\u00e1 te diste cuenta y empezaste a utilizarla. Usaste mi ingenuidad y mis sinceros sentimientos por ti.<\/p>\n

Consideraba m\u00edos a tus amigos y familiares y me alegraba cada vez que me invitabas a salir con ellos. Sigo en contacto con todos ellos.<\/p>\n

Tuve que rogarte que salieras con mis amigos y mi familia porque t\u00fa nunca quer\u00edas.<\/p>\n

And every time they’d invite us over or to go out, I had to make an excuse for why you didn’t show up again.I always had time for you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

T\u00fa y tus necesidades erais lo \u00fanico que importaba.Siempre estuve a tu lado cuando me necesitaste<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Pensaba que esa era la esencia de toda relaci\u00f3n sana, pero me equivocaba; nuestra relaci\u00f3n nunca fue sana.<\/p>\n

I’ve seen so many girls who poured themselves into a relationship. Girls who didn’t appreciate themselves enough to say stop to the man who didn’t deserve them.<\/p>\n

I always considered those girls stupid. And look what’s happening now. Karma knocked on my door and laughed so hard in my face.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I apologize now to all of those girls because I understand what made you stay with a man who didn’t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

El amor. Amor ciego, extra\u00f1o, malsano, incondicional, inexplicable.<\/p>\n

I’ll always remember my last birthday, when you stood me up once again and stabbed me right through my heart. It was one disappointment too many.<\/p>\n

I couldn’t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

Fue la noche en que algo se rompi\u00f3 en lo m\u00e1s profundo de mi ser. Aunque fue la noche m\u00e1s dura de mi vida, me hizo darme cuenta de que definitivamente no eres digno de mi amor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Esa noche cambi\u00f3 mi vida. Me di cuenta de que ten\u00eda que quitarte del trono y volver a ponerme yo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me di cuenta de que mi vida es un libro.<\/p>\n

I am the author of it and you shouldn’t be the main character anymore. Hell, you never deserved to be in it in the first place.<\/p>\n

However, I truly believe that God has his reasons for everything that’s happening. Maybe I needed this experience to serve me as a lesson.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tal vez necesitaba aprender de esta manera que Soy la persona m\u00e1s importante de mi vida<\/a> and that I shouldn’t let someone take that place ever again.<\/p>\n

Realizing and admitting that you’ll never be able to love me like I love you broke my heart into a million pieces.<\/p>\n

Trust me, I’m still trying to put them back together but now, it doesn’t hurt anymore.I look at our relationship as the lesson of my life.<\/p>\n

No importa cu\u00e1nto ames a otra persona, el primer amor de tu vida eres y siempre ser\u00e1s T\u00da y nunca debes traicionar ese amor.<\/p>\n

\"Mi<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I loved you more than I loved myself and the only thing that was important to me was that you would never leave me. I didn’t mind how you treated me or whether your love was strong enough, like mine was.That was an unexplainable kind of love. Every day that passed by made my love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":62635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62631","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Mistake-Was-Making-You-A-Priority-When-I-Was-Always-Your-Second-Choice-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=62631"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/62631\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/62635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=62631"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=62631"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=62631"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}