{"id":62754,"date":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T12:27:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62754"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:39:15","slug":"da-las-gracias-a-los-que-mas-dano-te-han-hecho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/da-las-gracias-a-los-que-mas-dano-te-han-hecho\/","title":{"rendered":"Por eso debes dar las gracias a quienes m\u00e1s te han herido"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cuando alguien te rompe el coraz\u00f3n, es natural que lo desprecies.<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfQu\u00e9 otra cosa podr\u00edas sentir hacia los que te hicieron da\u00f1o e intentaron destruirte?<\/p>\n<p>Esto se aplica especialmente a las personas m\u00e1s cercanas.<\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, son los que m\u00e1s cerca pueden acercarse a ti y los que m\u00e1s te afectan con sus movimientos.<\/p>\n<p>When someone you thought you could trust your life with backstabs you, you can\u2019t help but feel betrayed.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62763 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg\" alt=\"Triste mujer afroamericana sentada en la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"504\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-window-1-768x484.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Es la persona por la que te sacrificaste y diste lo mejor de ti, as\u00ed que es una reacci\u00f3n completamente normal por tu parte.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care whether we\u2019re talking about your ex-boyfriend who left you, about your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/friendship\/carta-chica-usado-mejor-amigo\/\">mejor amigo<\/a> que te utiliz\u00f3 o sobre un familiar que deber\u00eda haber estado pero nunca estuvo.<\/p>\n<p>La conclusi\u00f3n es que esa persona te hizo da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Te hicieron mucho da\u00f1o y dejaron secuelas imborrables en tu salud mental y emocional.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That is actually what triggers you the most\u2014these scars they left behind, after they walked away, without thinking about the consequences of their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62765 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg\" alt=\"Muchacha rubia triste en camisa negra que sostiene el coraz\u00f3n roto del papel\" width=\"800\" height=\"501\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-girl-holding-broken-heart-1-768x481.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La dolorosa verdad es que quien te hizo da\u00f1o tambi\u00e9n te cambi\u00f3 en cierto modo.<\/p>\n<p>Luchaste contra ello e intentaste detenerlo, pero algunas cosas simplemente estaban fuera de tu control.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Con cada desenga\u00f1o, la ni\u00f1a inocente que sol\u00edas ser se desvanec\u00eda m\u00e1s y m\u00e1s. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>S<\/strong><strong>desaparec\u00eda con cada l\u00e1grima que llorabas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Un d\u00eda, fue sustituida por la nueva t\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p>She was gone for good and there came along this overly careful woman who decided that the only way to protect her heart was to act as if she didn\u2019t have one.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62766 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg\" alt=\"Foto de primer plano en blanco y negro de una mujer segura de s\u00ed misma mirando hacia arriba\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/black-and-white-photo-of-woman-looking-upward-1-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Entonces, \u00bfqui\u00e9n puede juzgarte por odiar a los que te hicieron esto? \u00bfQui\u00e9n puede culparte por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/no-siempre-hay-que-perdonar\/\">no ser capaz de perdonar<\/a> them? I know I can\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sin embargo, aunque tienes pleno derecho a sentirte as\u00ed, d\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas estar agradecido a cada uno de tus asesinos espirituales.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You heard it right\u2014you don\u2019t have to love them, nor do you have to forgive them but if you\u2019re smart enough, you\u2019ll be thankful for everything they did.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you might have changed. Maybe you\u2019ve become a pessimistic person.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62768 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de hermosa mujer rubia con ojos azules\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/portrait-of-beautiful-blonde-woman-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tal vez <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/una-carta-a-la-chica-que-ya-no-cree-en-el-amor\/\">perdi\u00f3 la fe en el amor<\/a> and kindness. Maybe you don\u2019t see the good in people anymore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Al diablo, incluso puedes pensar que has perdido la chispa. Sin embargo, todo eso es temporal.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sin embargo, las lecciones que has recibido son para quedarse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Each one of them was painful and tough but trust me\u2014they\u2019re all worth it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cada persona que te ha hecho da\u00f1o era en realidad tu maestro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62769 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg\" alt=\"Joven solitaria sentada en un banco\" width=\"800\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-300x189.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-bench-768x483.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Estaban all\u00ed para ayudarte a aprender cosas nuevas sobre la vida y, lo que es m\u00e1s importante, sobre ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Todas esas personas malvadas ten\u00edan un prop\u00f3sito m\u00e1s profundo en tu vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They were there to help you differentiate between the ones who deserve a place in your life and the ones who don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>Estaban ah\u00ed para ayudarte a reconocer el mal y para que te dieras cuenta de que no todo el mundo tiene buenas intenciones contigo.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014<strong>dales las gracias por haberte convertido en la mujer que eres hoy.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62771 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg\" alt=\"Manos honding papel con mensaje de agradecimiento\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/hands-with-thank-you-message-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be real\u2014if it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the experience you do now.<\/p>\n<p>If it weren\u2019t for them, you wouldn\u2019t have had the strength or the inner power you possess now. You wouldn\u2019t have known how much you can take.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca te habr\u00edas dado cuenta de lo superviviente que eres.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t have known that you can defeat whatever life throws at you.<\/p>\n<p>Si nunca te hubieran hecho da\u00f1o, seguir\u00edas pensando que necesitas a todas esas personas t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-62772 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg\" alt=\"Joven mujer feliz mirando hacia arriba y sonriendo\" width=\"800\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-looking-up-1-768x480.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You would be convinced that you can\u2019t make it without them and that you are not capable enough to go through life on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly\u2014you should thank the ones who hurt you because they taught you the importance of prioritizing yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Te demostraron que ninguna relaci\u00f3n puede ser m\u00e1s importante que la que tienes contigo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que..,<strong> the next time you think about all these people, don\u2019t resent them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Instead, know that without the intention of doing so, they\u2019ve actually done you a favor. <\/strong><strong>Be grateful, for they\u2019ve helped you blossom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-62776 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Por qu\u00e9 debes dar las gracias a quienes m\u00e1s te han herido pinterest\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When someone breaks your heart, it\u2019s only natural that you despise them. What else could you feel toward the ones who hurt you and tried to destroy you? This especially goes for the people closest to you. After all, they are the ones who can approach you the nearest and the ones whose moves affect&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":62761,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-62754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/this-is-why-you-should-thank-the-ones-who-have-hurt-you-the-most.jpg",800,500,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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