{"id":62878,"date":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T09:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=62878"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:08:45","slug":"no-te-pierdas-sosteniendo-a-alguien-que-no-le-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-pierdas-sosteniendo-a-alguien-que-no-le-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"No te pierdas aferr\u00e1ndote a alguien que no te importa"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDon’t be confused between what people say you are and who you know you are.<\/strong><\/em>\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/em><\/p>\n

This quote opened my eyes and made me realize the fact that it\u2019s not my fault if he doesn\u2019t care. That is when I slowly started to let go.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, he probably seemed like every other guy you liked \u2013 someone who will meet the real you, your needs and ideas as they are, recognize your essence.<\/p>\n

Para la mayor\u00eda de las personas, no estar confundidos sobre qui\u00e9nes son, especialmente en este momento, puede ser todo un reto.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That alone is a huge obstacle. How can we expect someone to accept us as we are when we don\u2019t know who we are ourselves?<\/p>\n

Reconocer y satisfacer las necesidades de alguien a quien quieres y aprecias profundamente puede conducir f\u00e1cilmente a complacer sin sentido, bas\u00e1ndonos en nuestra propia necesidad de aprobaci\u00f3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

When that happens, that means you\u2019ve lost your own approval and things become clear.<\/p>\n

He does not see your effort; he does not see he\u2019s using you; he does not see you\u2019re not yourself\u2026 he simply does not care.<\/p>\n

When that happens, you need to know one thing: You cannot make him care.If it doesn\u2019t happen naturally, it simply won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

That is the moment I already mentioned \u2013 a moment to let go.<\/p>\n

Aunque puede ser doloroso y devastador, nunca debes dudar de ti misma, porque nunca fue culpa tuya.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Algunas cosas simplemente no est\u00e1n destinadas a durar, y una vez que terminan, eso no tiene nada que ver contigo.Trata de pensar de esta manera: S\u00f3lo hay un tiempo en esta vida.<\/p>\n

La duda sobre uno mismo es algo que suceder\u00e1 por s\u00ed solo, en muchos aspectos de tu vida, y el amor no deber\u00eda ser uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

Especially not because of one blind-street relationship and a guy who simply wasn\u2019t something you needed at the time.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tu misi\u00f3n en la vida es ser t\u00fa mismo y alcanzar todo tu potencial. Perderte a ti mismo significa adormecerte y perder tu prop\u00f3sito y tu felicidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Without purpose and happiness, meeting your potential is quite impossible.You shouldn\u2019t be quiet about what makes you an authentic human being.<\/p>\n

Siempre debes decir tu verdad y seguir a tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

This will surely make you vulnerable, but it will save you from pushing yourself to be someone you\u2019re not and living the life that\u2019s expected of you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019ll be vulnerable but you\u2019ll be at peace with yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Luckily, when you are sincere about your life, people often recognize that, so it\u2019s true that when you care for yourself, others will follow.<\/p>\n

La gente tiende a darle demasiadas vueltas a todo y a alterarse por las cosas m\u00e1s irrelevantes.<\/p>\n

Tal vez en lugar de preguntar Why doesn\u2019t he care for me?<\/em> intente preguntar Why don\u2019t I care for myself enough to take some action and make my life happier?<\/em><\/p>\n

There is a quote by Jung that says that \u201cthe privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u201d That\u2019s why I think that in search of love, you should first care about yourself and know yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Recognize your own wants and needs. Recognize the reason why someone\u2019s indifference is bothering you so much.What do we have to prove?<\/p>\n

\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 no estamos contentos con lo que somos? \u00bfNuestra dependencia de la aprobaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s dice m\u00e1s de nosotros que de ellos?<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo cuando nos dominemos a nosotros mismos y aprendamos a cuidarnos podremos preocuparnos por los dem\u00e1s y darles el amor que necesitan.<\/p>\n

\"modelo<\/p>\n

Qui\u00e9rete a ti mismo. S\u00e9 amable contigo mismo. Reconoce los sentimientos que surgen en ti. Desarrolla la autoempat\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El autocuidado no consiste s\u00f3lo en mimarse y comer lo adecuado, sino tambi\u00e9n en perdonarse a uno mismo por las cosas que no se pueden controlar. Se trata de dejar atr\u00e1s la verg\u00fcenza.<\/p>\n

Shame is a soul-eating feeling. Maybe it\u2019s even the reason why you care about someone not caring. You\u2019re ashamed of not being enough.<\/p>\n

But you are enough \u2013 always \u2013 and the shortest way to find that out is by caring for yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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