{"id":63025,"date":"2020-05-06T16:53:44","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:53:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63025"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:30","slug":"pareja-objetivos-matrimoniales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/pareja-objetivos-matrimoniales\/","title":{"rendered":"Objetivos matrimoniales: 15 cosas principales en las que deber\u00edan centrarse todas las parejas casadas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muchas personas piensan que todo ir\u00e1 sobre ruedas en su vida en el momento en que pronuncien sus votos matrimoniales.<\/p>\n

They assume that all the problems they had in the relationship are behind them now, once they say, \u201cI do.\u201d<\/p>\n

La verdad es algo distinta.<\/p>\n

De hecho, un matrimonio sano es un trabajo constante y requiere establecer objetivos matrimoniales, que son cruciales para el \u00e9xito de la relaci\u00f3n entre dos personas.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Los objetivos matrimoniales son b\u00e1sicamente algunas metas que os esforz\u00e1is por alcanzar en vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Es algo por lo que trabaj\u00e1is con fuerzas conjuntas, una forma de fortalecer vuestro matrimonio y algo que os inspira y motiva para seguir siempre adelante.<\/p>\n

What are these goals we’re talking about? How do you set goals in marriage?<\/p>\n

Siga leyendo y encuentre las respuestas a estas preguntas.<\/p>\n

15 objetivos realistas para un matrimonio sano<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. Esfuerzo<\/h2>\n

\"Marido<\/p>\n

Uno de los primeros objetivos matrimoniales que debes fijarte, si quieres que tu matrimonio tenga \u00e9xito, es decidirte a poner empe\u00f1o en construirlo.<\/p>\n

You need to understand one thing\u2014no healthy relationship can be built overnight and this especially goes for a romantic one.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, esto significa que tanto t\u00fa como tu pareja ten\u00e9is que poner el mismo empe\u00f1o en que vuestro matrimonio funcione.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, ten en cuenta que algunos d\u00edas, uno de los dos invertir\u00e1 m\u00e1s energ\u00eda mientras que habr\u00e1 momentos en los que la otra persona tirar\u00e1 de la mayor parte del peso.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that marriage is both about giving and receiving and this effort we\u2019re talking about has to go both ways for everything to make sense.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t be el \u00fanico que lo intenta<\/a>, nor can your partner be the only one who cares about your future\u2014otherwise you\u2019ll never make the best out of your marriage.<\/p>\n

2. Tiempo de calidad<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

You probably assume that you\u2019re done with dating the moment you say, \u201cI do,\u201d Well, think again because you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

Aunque tengas hijos, familia, trabajo diario, tareas dom\u00e9sticas y otros deberes, debes pasar tiempo de calidad con tu pareja.<\/p>\n

I know that you probably live busy lives and that you feel like you don\u2019t have a second of free time but trust me\u2014this marriage goal is crucial for your survival.<\/p>\n

Spare some time for just the two of you, without your children and without phones and pretend like you\u2019re still in a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Al menos una vez al mes, salir una vez a la semana fecha<\/a> like in the old days; it doesn\u2019t have to be a fancy, romantic, candlelit dinner if you\u2019re out of money\u2014it will be enough for the two of you to grab a cup of coffee on your own, without anyone disturbing you.<\/p>\n

Por desgracia, muchos matrimonios caen en la rutina y se olvidan de este objetivo.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, antes de que se den cuenta, dejan de ser lo que esencialmente son (parejas rom\u00e1nticas) y se convierten en nada m\u00e1s que copadres que luchan por financiar un hogar juntos.<\/p>\n

3. Compa\u00f1erismo<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget one crucial thing\u2014you and your other half are a team now.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re companions and everything you do, you should do it with joint forces.<\/p>\n

Of course, this doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re expected to lose your individuality altogether.<\/p>\n

Nadie te est\u00e1 diciendo que abandones a tus amigos, familia, aficiones o intereses, ni que dejes de ser la persona que has sido toda tu vida para convertirte s\u00f3lo en marido o mujer.<\/p>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, las cosas te resultar\u00e1n mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1ciles si empiezas a verte como parte de una pareja poderosa.<\/p>\n

The good news is that you\u2019re no longer alone in this world and that you have someone to back you up at all times.<\/p>\n

Esta es otra de las cosas que t\u00fa y tu pareja ten\u00e9is que valorar y trabajar.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, conlleva mucha responsabilidad porque desde el d\u00eda en que dices tus votos matrimoniales, tus actos dejan de afectarte s\u00f3lo a ti, pero tambi\u00e9n es un gran alivio que a partir de ese momento tengas un compa\u00f1ero de equipo.<\/p>\n

4. Respetar<\/h2>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

What most people forget is that there is not much point in loving each other if you don\u2019t share mutual respect, which is something you can\u2019t have a happy marriage without.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, no sois ni\u00f1os y sab\u00e9is lo que significa tratar a alguien con respeto, especialmente a tu c\u00f3nyuge.<\/p>\n

No, to set goals doesn\u2019t include you nodding your head to everything they say or that you have to blindly follow their lead; naturally, you\u2019re allowed to have an opinion of your own\u2014you just have to take theirs into consideration at all times as well.<\/p>\n

Aunque teng\u00e1is posturas diferentes sobre algo, no os insult\u00e9is ni os menospreci\u00e9is, sobre todo delante de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"Una<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, aprende a aceptar que no est\u00e1s de acuerdo.<\/p>\n

Also, it is crucial to respect each other\u2019s friends and families, desires, personal time, space and individuality.<\/p>\n

Another relationship goal you should strive for is respecting your wedding vows for as long as you\u2019re married\u2014not only having them in mind while you\u2019re newlyweds.<\/p>\n

It is remembering that you promised to be there for each other in both good and bad days, in sickness and health and that a break up is the last option you won\u2019t even take into consideration.<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t forget to have some self-respect along the way!<\/p>\n

5. Comunicaci\u00f3n saludable<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otra de las claves para un matrimonio feliz es, sin duda, una comunicaci\u00f3n sana, crucial para la salud de tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n

This is the person you share your life with and if you can\u2019t tell each other what you think and how you honestly feel, without holding anything back, what\u2019s the point of your relationship?<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re bothered by something, there is no ignoring or silent treatment.<\/p>\n

Remember that your significant other doesn\u2019t have the ability to read minds, so there is no theoretical possibility for them to know what\u2019s wrong unless you tell them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry\u2014happy couples argue as well, so it doesn\u2019t mean that your communication is poor if you have some issues.<\/p>\n

\"Un<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la diferencia es que ellos saben pelear. Cuando hay buena comunicaci\u00f3n, t\u00fa y tu c\u00f3nyuge aprend\u00e9is de vuestras discusiones.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll perfect the skill of accepting the other person\u2019s opinion, even if it differs from yours, you won\u2019t insult each other during your fights and you won\u2019t bring them down.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget\u2014it\u2019s always you two on one side and the problem on the other; it should never be you against each other.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, una comunicaci\u00f3n sana incluye escuchar lo que dice la otra persona.<\/p>\n

It means acknowledging their words and paying close attention to what they\u2019re telling you.<\/p>\n

6. Compromiso<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

As it was already stated, you\u2019re no longer alone in this world and as much benefit this brings, it also means that you can\u2019t do whatever the hell you want.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that your marriage should limit your freedom but as soon as you become a reci\u00e9n casados<\/a>, you can\u2019t go through life the way you feel like it, without taking the other person\u2019s well-being into consideration.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why compromise is one of the smart goals you should put an effort into achieving if you want to preserve the health of your marriage.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que se trata de una calle de doble sentido y que ambos ten\u00e9is que encontraros a mitad de camino si quer\u00e9is tener un matrimonio m\u00e1s s\u00f3lido.<\/p>\n

T\u00fa y tu pareja sois iguales; aqu\u00ed no hay papeles sumisos ni dominantes, y las opiniones y deseos de ambos cuentan por igual.<\/p>\n

Puesto que ambos tienen las mismas responsabilidades, deberes y derechos, deben tener la misma voz a la hora de tomar decisiones cruciales para la relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

7. Perd\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otro objetivo de relaci\u00f3n por el que deber\u00edas trabajar es sin duda perd\u00f3n<\/a>.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should allow your partner to treat you the way they want, while you should keep on forgiving them and acting like everything is in perfect order.<\/p>\n

Instead, tell them when something is wrong and when you\u2019re not okay with the way they\u2019ve been acting.<\/p>\n

However, setting goals in marriage doesn\u2019t include either of you holding grudges or being resentful for ages about something in the past.<\/p>\n

Si ocurre algo entre vosotros dos, habladlo y trabajad por el perd\u00f3n en lugar de permitir que este asunto se convierta en un trampol\u00edn hacia el fracaso de vuestro matrimonio.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t mention a breakup after your first mistake and don\u2019t even think about divorce.<\/p>\n

Naturally, there are some things you can\u2019t find an excuse for and nobody will blame you for respecting your deal-breakers but please, do your best to be as tolerant as possible.<\/p>\n

Tened en cuenta que ambos sois seres humanos de carne y hueso.<\/p>\n

You both make mistakes which you regret and you\u2019re both entitled to forgiveness.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, ten expectativas realistas pero claras de tu pareja.<\/p>\n

Intenta ponerte en su lugar y s\u00e9 comprensivo, aunque te hagan da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n

8. Agradecimiento<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to be eternally grateful to your spouse when they\u2019re acting the way a normal marital partner should act.<\/p>\n

No obstante, uno de los objetivos de la relaci\u00f3n<\/a> por el que deber\u00edas trabajar es, sin duda, el aprecio.<\/p>\n

Show your partner that you appreciate everything they\u2019re doing for your marriage and be thankful for the effort they put into setting goals for your future together.<\/p>\n

Show them that you appreciate their sacrifices and that you\u2019re more than proud of having them around.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t take their efforts for granted and put a smile on your face for every little thing they do for you.<\/p>\n

Of course, expect the same treatment back. Don\u2019t allow your spouse to behave like it\u2019s okay for you to move mountains for them, while they don\u2019t have to lift a finger.<\/p>\n

9. Intimidad<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

A pesar de lo que muchas parejas puedan pensar, la intimidad es mucho m\u00e1s que sexo y acci\u00f3n en el dormitorio, y es uno de los objetivos m\u00e1s importantes del matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, it\u2019s all about holding hands, having weekly date nights, looking each other deeply in the eyes while not saying a word, spending quality time together and knowing each other to the core.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, tener una vida sexual de alta calidad es un objetivo poderoso y algo por lo que deber\u00edas trabajar.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you though\u2014you won\u2019t have a relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> if it\u2019s only based on the physical aspects.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

No obstante, si quieres un matrimonio m\u00e1s s\u00f3lido, tu vida sexual tambi\u00e9n debe estar en orden.<\/p>\n

En el dormitorio no hay lugar para el ego\u00edsmo y es fundamental que ambos est\u00e9is satisfechos.<\/p>\n

Como con todo en la vida, encuentra un t\u00e9rmino medio.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do anything you\u2019re not comfortable doing but make sure you please your spouse\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, un objetivo inteligente es aumentar sus niveles de intimidad tambi\u00e9n en otros \u00e1mbitos.<\/p>\n

Con\u00e9ctate de distintas formas y haz todo lo posible por reforzar tu v\u00ednculo dentro y fuera del dormitorio.<\/p>\n

10. Fe<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

El objetivo m\u00e1s poderoso de todo matrimonio es la fe.<\/p>\n

Even if you don\u2019t believe in God in traditional terms, I\u2019m sure you do believe in something or someone to whom you pray and who you think can give you a hand when you\u2019re going through rough times.<\/p>\n

You and your spouse don\u2019t have to respect the same God but it is important if you\u2019re both united in praying for the success of your marriage with joint forces.<\/p>\n

Incluso cuando las cosas vayan cuesta abajo, ten fe en que conseguir\u00e1s que funcione, pase lo que pase.<\/p>\n

Besides, respect each other\u2019s beliefs. Remember\u2014God is all about love and it is insane to argue about religion, as long as you both want peace, understanding and compromise.<\/p>\n

11. Amistad<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Uno de los objetivos diarios por los que toda pareja tiene que trabajar constantemente es la amistad.<\/p>\n

Your partner is not only your lover\u2014they should be your mejor amigo<\/a> tambi\u00e9n.<\/p>\n

\u00bfSabes c\u00f3mo tratas a tu mejor amigo? Haces todo lo posible por comprenderlos, aceptar sus imperfecciones, estar a su lado en todo momento y no juzgarlos nunca.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n espera el mismo trato a cambio.<\/p>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

After all, this is your person\u2014the first person you go to when you\u2019re going through some trouble, the first one you tell all the bad and good news to and someone whose advice you always take into consideration and listen to.<\/p>\n

This is your confidant, the person you\u2019re not ashamed to show your darkest side, someone you\u2019re not scared of exposing your vulnerabilities to and a person you consider to be your family.<\/p>\n

Aunque debes mantener una vida social sana y las amistades que ten\u00edas antes de casarte, tu c\u00f3nyuge debe convertirse en tu amigo n\u00famero uno.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s de todo esto, debe ser la persona con la que m\u00e1s te guste pasar el tiempo, con la que te diviertas y junto a la que puedas ser t\u00fa mismo.<\/p>\n

12. Soporte<\/h2>\n

\"Primer<\/p>\n

Remember your wedding vows? How you both promised never to leave each other\u2019s side, no matter what?<\/p>\n

Eso incluye el apoyo incondicional.<\/p>\n

Establecer objetivos inteligentes en el matrimonio significa contar con tu c\u00f3nyuge para que te apoye cuando todos los dem\u00e1s te abandonan, para que est\u00e9 a tu lado en la salud y en la enfermedad y para que crea en ti incluso cuando pierdes la fe en ti mismo.<\/p>\n

Tu pareja debe ser la persona en la que puedas confiar, a la que puedas contarle tus secretos m\u00e1s profundos, a la que puedas confiarle tu vida y que nunca te deje colgado.<\/p>\n

They should be the wind beneath your wings, your biggest fan and ally, someone who pushes you forward and who doesn\u2019t let you give up.<\/p>\n

13. Aceptaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"Hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re setting your own goals for a successful marriage, please don\u2019t forget about accepting the other person for who they really are.<\/p>\n

Por supuesto, toda relaci\u00f3n, y especialmente algo tan serio como el matrimonio, exige adaptaci\u00f3n hasta cierto punto.<\/p>\n

However, it doesn\u2019t mean that either of you should change the essence of your personality just to please the other person.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fool yourself\u2014your love can\u2019t change someone and if you try modifying your partner or molding them to fit your standards, while deep down this is not what they want, you\u2019ll sentence both of you to a life of misery.<\/p>\n

\"Mujer<\/p>\n

You and your spouse are grown-ups. You\u2019re individuals with already formed personalities so you have no other choice but to completely accept each other, together with all of your flaws.<\/p>\n

Es importante tener expectativas realistas pero claras y normas<\/a> desde el primer d\u00eda.<\/p>\n

See whether you\u2019re compatible before getting married and see whether this is the person you can see yourself growing old next to.<\/p>\n

Si te das cuenta de lo contrario, puedes aceptar sus imperfecciones o alejarte a tiempo.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014nobody likes being parented and told what to do or how to behave themselves for you to like them more.<\/p>\n

14. Confianza<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Otro objetivo inteligente para tu matrimonio es la confianza mutua.<\/p>\n

This means that neither of you will doubt your partner\u2019s words, that you\u2019ll believe that they wouldn\u2019t cheat on you or betray you in any way possible and that there won\u2019t be some problemas de confianza<\/a> en tu matrimonio.<\/p>\n

Los celos tambi\u00e9n son un aspecto importante de la confianza.<\/p>\n

Yes, there is an amount of healthy jealousy in every romantic relationship but as soon as it turns into possessiveness, it\u2019s time to make some changes between you two.<\/p>\n

15. Amor<\/h2>\n

\"Pareja<\/p>\n

Finally, there is no point in achieving any of these realistic goals we\u2019ve talked about unless there is love.<\/p>\n

Usted y su c\u00f3nyuge deben amarse incondicionalmente y para siempre si esperan que su relaci\u00f3n funcione.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that love is the only marriage goal you should strive for because sadly, there are times when it\u2019s simply insuficiente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, es definitivamente crucial y sin ella, todo lo dem\u00e1s es en vano.<\/p>\n

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