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<\/p>\nCuando pienso en retrospectiva, me veo a m\u00ed misma como una chica ingenua que simplemente no sab\u00eda lo que le estaba pasando.<\/p>\n
Quiero volver a ese momento y darme un abrazo. Quiero proteger a esa ni\u00f1a del dolor que le espera.<\/p>\n
When I met you, I remember thinking you were the most perfect man I\u2019d ever met. Your timing was perfect and I was in awe of everything you did.<\/p>\n
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My fantasy about a man who would take me by the hand and love me for a lifetime was coming true. I couldn\u2019t get enough of you – the way you talked, walked, and called me yours\u2026 I was so in love with you.<\/p>\n
I was so in love with you that I didn\u2019t even notice when I started to make myself smaller to please you.Things started to go downhill slowly but surely and I failed to notice.<\/p>\n
Empezaste a dar por sentado mi amor. Usaste mi amor como excusa para hacer lo que te apetec\u00eda.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-sitting-deep-in-thoughts.jpg\")
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Cuando empec\u00e9 a darme cuenta de que me estabas utilizando, ya estaba muy hundida en el abandono y la falta de autoestima. Me hiciste creer que era menos que t\u00fa. Me hiciste pensar que sin ti no val\u00eda nada.<\/p>\n
Me convert\u00ed en prisionera de mi amor. Al menos de lo que yo cre\u00eda que era amor. Mirando hacia atr\u00e1s ahora entiendo que era miedo.<\/p>\n
El miedo a no defenderme. El miedo a que nada sea suficientemente bueno. El miedo a perderme.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-next-to-the-wall.jpg\")
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Te am\u00e9 tanto que puse todo mi valor en ti. Te cre\u00ed cuando dijiste todas esas cosas. En realidad cre\u00eda que sab\u00edas m\u00e1s de m\u00ed que yo misma.<\/p>\n
Me traicion\u00e9 a m\u00ed misma por el hombre que cre\u00eda conocer, el hombre que cre\u00eda necesitar. Romp\u00ed mi propio coraz\u00f3n am\u00e1ndote, intentando comprenderte y d\u00e1ndote una segunda oportunidad.<\/p>\n
I broke my heart when I started to believe that you were more valuable than me. You made me believe I couldn\u2019t make it on my own. You made me believe I needed you to feel like I was worthy.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/depressed-woman-laying-on-the-bed.jpg\")
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De ser una mujer feliz, me convert\u00ed en una mujer con el coraz\u00f3n roto. Me sent\u00ed tan vac\u00eda por dentro. Me sent\u00eda tan prisionera de mis propios sentimientos y t\u00fa siempre te asegurabas de empeorarlo a\u00fan m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Con tu falta de cuidado, minimizando mis sentimientos e ignorando mis necesidades, estabas infligiendo mi dolor.<\/p>\n
You didn\u2019t care for me, you only cared for yourself. You felt safe when you were controlling me.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-woman-standing-in-the-field-alone.jpg\")
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Cuando me di cuenta de que mi miseria se deb\u00eda a tu ego\u00edsmo y no a mi insuficiencia, por fin tuve fuerzas para seguir adelante. Me llev\u00f3 un tiempo, pero me hice lo bastante fuerte para dejarte atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Era tan dif\u00edcil creer que eras la persona que m\u00e1s da\u00f1o me hac\u00eda. Mi cerebro y mi coraz\u00f3n se negaban a aceptarlo.<\/p>\n
Ahora quiero que mi coraz\u00f3n vuelva a ser como era. Lo quiero entero y sano.<\/p>\n
![\"simp\u00e1tica](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/nice-young-woman-with-red-hair-posing.jpg\")
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I refuse to let my heart suffer for someone who didn\u2019t even love me, for someone who didn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t care about your apologies and I don\u2019t care about your feelings. It\u2019s too late. You had your chance and you blew it.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m starting things afresh. I\u2019m taking care of myself and my heart. I made a promise to myself that my heart is the most precious thing I have and I\u2019m not going to give it away unless someone truly deserves it.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/mindful-woman-sitting-on-the-hill-in-silence.jpg\")
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I\u2019m not going to fall for anyone who doesn\u2019t prove himself to be worthy of my love, someone who treats me like I don\u2019t have a mind of my own.<\/p>\n
I want someone who will fight for my love and care for me like I\u2019m the last girl on earth.<\/p>\n
Quiero a alguien que reconozca y admita mis sentimientos sin hacerme sentir loca.<\/p>\n
![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/happy-woman-with-dark-hair-looking-up.jpg\")
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Por \u00faltimo, quiero a alguien que me haga sentir segura para amar plenamente sin preocuparme de si mi amor ser\u00e1 correspondido.<\/p>\n
Until then I will love myself and I will heal myself, knowing I deserve to be loved as I am and I don\u2019t need a man to prove that.<\/p>\n
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