{"id":63158,"date":"2020-04-15T20:59:03","date_gmt":"2020-04-15T20:59:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63158"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:07","slug":"como-se-pierde-a-una-mujer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-se-pierde-a-una-mujer\/","title":{"rendered":"As\u00ed es como pierdes a una mujer que vio lo peor de ti y se qued\u00f3"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una cosa que siempre me ha hecho sentir orgullosa de m\u00ed misma es que soy una mujer a vida o muerte. Cuando amo, amo hasta los huesos. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m there for you through the good times and the bad times.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t count mistakes and I always find a way to make things better. My mind is open and my heart is big.<\/p>\n

\"hermosa<\/p>\n

I know how to forgive and I know how to see through your pain. I\u2019m a one of a kind woman and all of that wasn\u2019t enough to make you realize that you should have treated me better than you did.<\/p>\n

Te vi en tu peor momento. Te vi cuando estabas en lo m\u00e1s bajo, actuando como todo lo que tem\u00edas.<\/p>\n

I saw you when you acted exactly like you said you would never act. Maybe that\u2019s what you couldn\u2019t stand.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 te avergonzabas de ti mismo y te desquitabas conmigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, the saddest thing is that your problems aren\u2019t mine but I would have gladly helped you with them if you hadn\u2019t ruined it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You started to act so insecurely. I wasn\u2019t allowed to do anything without you. You started acting selfishly.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Everything you said became a manipulation tactic and you wouldn\u2019t let me breathe.<\/p>\n

On top of all that, you didn\u2019t even care to make me feel loved or cared for. You were possessive yet cold.<\/p>\n

I got tired of giving my best to a person who didn\u2019t deserve me. I knew that life wasn\u2019t about constantly meeting the needs of others but mutual understanding.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sab\u00eda que hab\u00eda algo m\u00e1s en la vida que verte cometer el mismo error una y otra vez sin cambiar nunca y sin darte cuenta de lo que yo hac\u00eda por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Siempre tuve problemas para dejar a la gente y esto fue lo m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil que tuve que hacer, pero lo hice.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t break my spirit so I still knew my worth. I knew that if I didn\u2019t leave you, I would end up broken and lost. And I\u2019m not that kind of woman.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not someone you can control, someone you can use as an emotional punching bag.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m very aware of myself and the things I can do and give. I\u2019m aware that I\u2019m rare. That\u2019s exactly why I know you will regret losing me once you realize I\u2019m gone forever.<\/p>\n

It takes me so much time to leave someone but once I\u2019m gone, I\u2019m gone forever. You have lost me.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

My heart is broken but my spirit is whole. I\u2019ll find a way to mend my heart but you will never find a way back to me.<\/p>\n

Nunca debiste pensar que tu debilidad estaba en tu dolor, sino en la forma en que dejaste que te controlara. Dejaste que tu miedo se convirtiera en tu inseguridad y luego dejaste que tu inseguridad matara nuestro amor.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t fear or control or walking on eggshells to stop yourself from triggering someone.<\/p>\n

\"bonita<\/p>\n

El amor tiene que ver con la honestidad, con la profundidad de los sentimientos y con ser vulnerable ante la persona amada.<\/p>\n

Vulnerability takes courage and you didn\u2019t have it. You let your bad side consume you and you sacrificed our love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I know you enough to know you won\u2019t change, so I needed to leave you. One day you will think of us and ask yourself how you failed to recognize the true love I was giving you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We could have healed together but you choose pain. I didn\u2019t. That\u2019s why I\u2019m here, writing this as I contemplate what was once our love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I hope you\u2019re not doing the same thing to someone else. I hope my love has taught you to face your demons, rather than blame others.<\/p>\n

Mientras tanto, reconozco la fuerza de mi alma. He aprendido a tener l\u00edmites. Por fin comprendo que no todo el mundo merece mi tiempo ni mi amor.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Aprend\u00ed que para que el amor tenga sentido, dos personas tienen que trabajar juntas e intercambiar energ\u00eda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love takes two and it\u2019s about reciprocity. <\/strong>Una vez que fui consciente de ello, mi coraz\u00f3n empez\u00f3 a sanar lentamente.<\/p>\n

Today I can proudly say that I\u2019m moving on because now I know I didn\u2019t lose you but you lost me.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"As\u00ed<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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