{"id":63479,"date":"2020-04-16T14:47:31","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T14:47:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=63479"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:52:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:52:30","slug":"no-te-sientas-culpable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-te-sientas-culpable\/","title":{"rendered":"No te sientas culpable por cortar a quien te dio las tijeras"},"content":{"rendered":"

A pesar de todo lo que este hombre te ha hecho, sigues cuestion\u00e1ndote tu decisi\u00f3n de echarlo de tu vida.<\/p>\n

A\u00fan te despiertas por la noche pregunt\u00e1ndote si hiciste lo correcto y si deber\u00edas haberle dado otra oportunidad.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a smart girl and you know he is not material novio<\/span><\/a>. Pero tal vez ustedes dos deber\u00edan haber seguido siendo amigos, si no otra cosa.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, siempre te necesit\u00f3. No paraba de decirte que eras su \u00e1ngel de la guarda y que nunca lo conseguir\u00eda sin ti a su lado.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, intent\u00f3 ponerse en contacto contigo despu\u00e9s de la ruptura. Sin embargo, t\u00fa estabas demasiado dolida para escucharle.<\/p>\n

Estabas demasiado enfadada y desolada para hablar con \u00e9l. En lugar de eso, colgaste el tel\u00e9fono y le bloqueaste en todas partes.<\/p>\n

\"chica<\/p>\n

So now that the resentment is gone, you\u2019re not sure whether you made the right choice.<\/p>\n

Now that the bitterness has passed, you can\u2019t help but wonder if you ended up being the bad guy in this story.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m going to have to ask you to stop right there. Remember all the pain this man caused you and all the hell he\u2019s put you through.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget about all the tears you cried for him. About all the times he broke your heart and all the harm he\u2019s done.<\/p>\n

Recuerda todas las segundas oportunidades que le diste<\/strong>? \u00bfRecuerdas todas las promesas que nunca cumpli\u00f3?<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here and remember how many times this guy has given you his word that he\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

\u00bfY cu\u00e1ntas veces has cre\u00eddo en sus mentiras y enga\u00f1os, s\u00f3lo para que resulte peor que nunca?<\/p>\n

For years, you kept putting effort into your relationship while he couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/p>\n

You loved him while he took you for granted, assuming that you\u2019ll spend the rest of your life waiting for him to come to his senses.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Todo este tiempo, t\u00fa eras el que luchaba contra los molinos de viento. El que mantuvo esta relaci\u00f3n con soporte vital.<\/strong><\/p>\n

El que le suplic\u00f3 que cambiara de actitud. El que le persigui\u00f3 mientras hu\u00eda.<\/p>\n

La que dej\u00f3 su vida en suspenso esperando a que \u00e9l hiciera por fin lo correcto. La que sigui\u00f3 conform\u00e1ndose con migajas de su atenci\u00f3n, cuando t\u00fa merec\u00edas mucho m\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

Despu\u00e9s de un tiempo, lo dejaste y te despediste definitivamente. Por primera vez, te elegiste a ti mismo antes que a este peque\u00f1o bastardo desagradecido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So, now you\u2019re telling me that you feel guilty for it? Well, I hate to be brutal, but you seem a bigger fool than I thought.<\/p>\n

D\u00e9jame decirte una cosa: You didn\u2019t walk away from this man because you wanted to.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t wake up one morning, determined to d\u00e9jalo<\/b><\/a> por un capricho tonto e infantil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

En cambio, ten\u00edas una gran raz\u00f3n para hacer todo esto.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t stop loving him all of a sudden nor did you replace him with someone new. You didn\u2019t use him in any way nor did you ever think of another man while he was present in your life.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Simplemente te cansaste. Tuviste suficiente, lo cual es perfectamente natural.<\/p>\n

Acu\u00e9rdate: You didn\u2019t abandon him. Instead, he was the one who dejarte ir<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The one who kept pushing you away with his behavior. The one who kept proving to you that he doesn\u2019t want you in his life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfqu\u00e9 deber\u00edas haber hecho exactamente? \u00bfPermitirle que siguiera abandon\u00e1ndote y volviendo cuando le diera la gana?<\/p>\n

\u00bfDeber\u00edas darle la oportunidad de seguir haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o? \u00bfDe reabrir tus heridas con cada mensaje o llamada?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00bfDeber\u00edas seguir sirvi\u00e9ndole de red de seguridad? \u00bfSeguir estando a su lado si alguna vez necesita orientaci\u00f3n o ayuda?<\/p>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

No, damn right you shouldn\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 te sientes culpable por haberle cortado cuando fue \u00e9l quien te estuvo dando la tijera todo el tiempo?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t you see that it was the only choice you had and that you saved yourself at the last minute?<\/p>\n

\"No<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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