Tenemos buena energ\u00eda con gente positiva<\/h2>\n
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Cuando conocemos a alguien por primera vez es muy dif\u00edcil desarrollar alg\u00fan tipo de buen rollo.<\/p>\n
The catch is that we feel a little bit nervous because we want others to like us but we are not quite sure what to say in that moment. That\u2019s why our energy depends on people that surround us.<\/p>\n
If we already know them and feel comfortable, we can truly be the life of the party. On the other hand, if we meet someone who we don\u2019t like (for some reason) we will withdraw to ourselves.<\/p>\n
Tenemos di\u00e1logos interiores<\/h2>\n
This is the thing: When we meet someone new, we constantly think about that person and try to find some common things that we could talk about. That\u2019s why we have inner dialogues about people in our lives.<\/p>\n
We are just trying to have a normal conversation so we spend hours wondering if we should say something or if it will maybe sound awkward. That\u2019s who we are and even if we want to change, unfortunately, we can\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Necesitamos tiempo a solas<\/h2>\n
No digo que odiemos a la gente, pero hay un momento del d\u00eda en el que queremos estar solos para recargar pilas. Es nuestra manera de sacudirnos el estr\u00e9s y pensar en nuestras vidas.<\/p>\n
Para todo introvertido extrovertido, esa parte del d\u00eda ser\u00e1 la m\u00e1s productiva porque por fin se dar\u00e1 cuenta de que las cosas no est\u00e1n tan mal como pensaba.<\/p>\n
It is like that moment when a light bulb goes off in your head and you finally realize that you don\u2019t want to give a fuck about problems anymore.<\/p>\n
Necesitamos tiempo para relajarnos<\/h2>\n
I know there are people who can fit in with every kind of company but we tend to be different. If we went to a barbecue at our friend\u2019s house and we met new people there, it would take some time for us to relax and start a conversation.<\/p>\n
In that silent period we will think about interesting things that we could say so others find us fun to talk to. I know this looks complicated but it really isn\u2019t, it is just our lives and we have already accepted it.<\/p>\n
La gente dice que somos encantadores<\/h2>\n
We are so charming so people often confuse us as extroverts. They don\u2019t know that it takes a hell of a lot of a time for us to relax and say something that makes sense.<\/p>\n
We are constantly having inner battles and we want to be more open but sometimes we don\u2019t manage to get where we want.<\/p>\n
Pero las sonrisas en nuestras caras son algunas de las cosas que atraen a tanta gente hacia nosotros y puedo decir que es nuestra arma secreta.<\/p>\n
We sometimes don\u2019t want to talk<\/h2>\n
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But that doesn\u2019t mean that we won\u2019t listen to you. Maybe we just had a bad day at work and we don\u2019t feel like talking at all.<\/p>\n
S\u00f3lo queremos estar solos y ordenar nuestros pensamientos. Cuando por fin nos reencontremos, volveremos a ser los mismos de siempre: personas divertidas y alegres con el coraz\u00f3n m\u00e1s grande que jam\u00e1s hayas visto.<\/p>\n
Si nos gustas, lo sabr\u00e1s<\/h2>\n
Hay ese brillo especial en nuestros ojos cuando miramos a alguien que nos gusta de verdad. Si nos gustas, te sonreiremos todo el tiempo y te haremos preguntas.<\/p>\n
On the other hand, if we are quiet then don\u2019t even bother to talk to us because all that you will get will be: talk to the hand!<\/p>\n
We can see what others can\u2019t<\/h2>\n
Es muy dif\u00edcil ver que alguien no est\u00e1 bien entre una multitud de gente. Pero para un introvertido extrovertido, eso es pan comido.<\/p>\n
Siempre reconocer\u00e1n esa pena en tus ojos o ese repliegue sobre ti mismo cuando la gente habla de algo que les ha dolido.<\/p>\n
Es como si tuvi\u00e9ramos una especie de sexto sentido, casi como el instinto de una madre preocupada por su hijo. Cosas as\u00ed nos hacen realmente especiales.<\/p>\n
A veces evitamos comunicarnos por tel\u00e9fono<\/h2>\n
If we are focused on something we will definitely avoid any communication, even if our friends call us. We simply want to dedicate ourselves to what we are doing at that time and we don\u2019t want anyone to interrupt us.<\/p>\n
When we finish what we are doing, we will find some time for our friends or family and compensate that time when we weren\u2019t available.<\/p>\n
Si mientes, lo sabremos<\/h2>\n
Don\u2019t try to deceive us because you will be busted. We have the ability to see even the smallest details in your talk or your behavior.<\/p>\n
A veces eso es bueno, pero otras nos preguntamos por qu\u00e9 tenemos que saberlo y verlo todo.<\/p>\n
Some things are better not to see or know, especially those bad ones. But, that\u2019s the way we are, so take it or leave it!<\/p>\n