{"id":6422,"date":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","date_gmt":"2017-10-06T09:44:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6422"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:47:59","slug":"6-razones-por-las-que-te-complicas-la-vida","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/6-razones-por-las-que-te-complicas-la-vida\/","title":{"rendered":"6 razones por las que te est\u00e1s complicando la vida m\u00e1s de lo necesario"},"content":{"rendered":"

Confucio dijo una vez: \"La vida es realmente sencilla, pero nos empe\u00f1amos en complicarla\".<\/p>\n

Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily basis, we tend to make even more complicated, with our minds becoming gradually disillusioned by negative external influences.<\/p>\n

We hesitate and question our instincts, we\u2019re afraid of stumbling and falling down when a new obstacle arises. Life is becoming harder and harder, and the only thing we\u2019re doing is losing touch with who we really are and what we really need. Acknowledging the main reasons why you\u2019re making your life harder than it has to be will be your first step in simplifying things and living a happier life.<\/p>\n

1. Te comparas con otras personas<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

La comparaci\u00f3n es el ladr\u00f3n de la alegr\u00eda. Tener un modelo a seguir en la vida que te ayude a desarrollarte y a superarte siempre es bueno, pero compararte con personas que crees que son mejores que t\u00fa no hace m\u00e1s que amargarte y provocarte envidia. La existencia de las redes sociales hace que esto sea a\u00fan m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil con todas esas formas de vida irreales, compartidas con todo el mundo con la mejor iluminaci\u00f3n y el mejor filtro.<\/p>\n

Not a single person in this world is the same, has the same life or chooses the exact same path in life, so don\u2019t compare yourself to other people; instead, comp\u00e1rate con tu versi\u00f3n actual y util\u00edzala para mejorar.<\/a><\/p>\n

2. Participas en el drama<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Start talking only about the good things in people, in life. Even if you don\u2019t feel like doing that – do it! Make yourself get used to that and slowly get out of all the drama circles around you. Imagine a life without gossip, verbal defamation.<\/p>\n

Encourage people around you to do the same, and those who don\u2019t support you in that can be ignored. Walk away from drama and incredible things will happen when you dist\u00e1nciate de toda esa negatividad<\/a> y a quienes la crean.<\/p>\n

3. You\u2019re too afraid<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

\"Chica<\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t take risks and let your fears make decisions for you. The list of fears an average grown-up has can go on forever, like fear of failure, or rejection, of other people\u2019s opinions, etc. Things like that will only hold you down and make you miss out on so many things in life.<\/p>\n

Recuerde que los miedos s\u00f3lo existen en tu mente<\/a>Y cuanto m\u00e1s creas en ello, m\u00e1s desaparecer\u00e1n tus miedos. Tendr\u00e1s m\u00e1s confianza en ti mismo, te arriesgar\u00e1s m\u00e1s y nunca dejar\u00e1s escapar una oportunidad.<\/p>\n

4. Te importa mucho lo que piensen los dem\u00e1s<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

People are talking behind your back? Don\u2019t worry about that – worry about the moment they stop. There will always be people who like you and people who don\u2019t; that\u2019s just how life works. The sooner you realize that and stop caring about it, the sooner you\u2019ll be happier and have better control over your life.<\/p>\n

5. Esperar una se\u00f1al<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Por desgracia, muchas personas esperan una se\u00f1al de Dios, o de alg\u00fan otro ser espiritual, antes de decidirse a tomar una decisi\u00f3n o dar un paso importante en sus vidas. Toma tu vida en tus manos, encuentra la forma de sacarle el m\u00e1ximo partido, porque es mejor ayudar a moldear el destino que dejarse gobernar por \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

6. Esperas que la vida sea siempre feliz<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

The world is a cruel place and full of suffering, heartbreaks, and loss. These things can affect your happiness, but you should not lose hope. Also having unrealistic expectations will make you end up disappointed. This doesn\u2019t mean you should set the bar low – you should still have high standards for yourself and how others treat you, but there’s always a line where those high standards become excessive.<\/p>\n

Life is about balance. \u2018In suffering you can find great strength, in heartbreak, you can find resilience, and in loss you can find a renewed appreciation for life\u2019.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Confucius once said, \u201cLife is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.\u201d Most of us complain how difficult and complicated life is, not realizing that we are the guilty ones. We\u2019re the ones making our lives harder. Part of all the work, duties and chores we have to deal with on a daily…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":6433,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/lua-valentia-210488.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}