{"id":64274,"date":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64274"},"modified":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T00:57:54","slug":"cada-dolor-de-perdida-cuenta-una-historia-de-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cada-dolor-de-perdida-cuenta-una-historia-de-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Cada dolor de p\u00e9rdida cuenta una historia de amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Permanecer vulnerable despu\u00e9s de haber sido herido es como ir a la batalla sin armadura.<\/p>\n<p>No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again&#8230;and I was hurt again.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64298\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-white-dress-squatting.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco en cuclillas cerca de un muro de hormig\u00f3n gris\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t regret it.<\/p>\n<p>El amor suele ir acompa\u00f1ado de dolor. El dolor est\u00e1 mal visto y la gente lo evita como a la peste. Pero siguen queriendo amor.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, pasar por el dolor significa elegir el amor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64277\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-top.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con top negro y pelo rubio cerca del campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>At one point, when I hadn\u2019t yet realized that, I cursed your name and I cursed love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Me maldije por caer en lo mismo una y otra vez.<\/p>\n<p>I spent my days in bed, crying. I felt nauseous when I didn\u2019t eat for days.<\/p>\n<p>My head swam with thoughts I couldn\u2019t say out loud. My heart was in pieces. <em>Me dol\u00eda.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64302\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-tank-top-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer en camiseta de tirantes gris triste en la cama abrazando sus piernas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00e1s tarde aprend\u00ed que el dolor emocional se manifiesta f\u00edsicamente para recordarnos que necesitamos curaci\u00f3n. Nuestros cuerpos son milagrosos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what happened. Time passed and I started to heal.<\/p>\n<p>Acept\u00e9 que la vida es desordenada y dif\u00edcil de entender.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64280\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-wearing-white-dress-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido blanco que la envuelve\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>But sometimes, at the moment when you\u2019re least expecting it little pieces start coming together and forming a coherent whole.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s when you start to connect the dots of your experiences and understand the answer to the question you\u2019ve asked so many times: <em>\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 yo?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>En ese momento tu dolor se llena de sentido y comprendes que hay ocasiones en las que el amor s\u00f3lo puede encontrarse a trav\u00e9s del dolor.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64281\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-in-autumn.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria en oto\u00f1o sentada cerca del lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Aunque aprend\u00ed sobre el dolor al marcharme, aprend\u00ed que el dolor puede ser m\u00e1s sutil.<\/p>\n<p>Pain can be uncertainty about the future, expectations we can\u2019t meet, unconscious trauma, a letdown.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, a trav\u00e9s del dolor, el amor quiere prepararnos. Quiere que ampliemos nuestra perspectiva y profundicemos en nuestra capacidad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64282\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/closeup-photo-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"primer plano de una mujer en un cuarto oscuro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>It teaches us we can\u2019t be defeated.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tanto el amor como el dolor nos ense\u00f1an que la vida se compone de cosas buenas y malas y que todo en la vida es una oportunidad para crecer hacia algo m\u00e1s grande o retroceder a la tierra.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depende de nuestra elecci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64284\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-leaning-at-the-table.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyada en la mesa con las manos en la barbilla\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Pasar por <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-dolor-te-mostrara-el-verdadero-significado-del-amor\/\">el dolor y sanar es comprender el verdadero significado del amor<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Love is unexpected and it doesn\u2019t know limits. Everyone has their own way of finding it.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why it\u2019s okay to search for the kind of love you need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64285\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-on-railings.jpg\" alt=\"mujer agarrada a la barandilla apoyada en color sepia\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s okay to search for a person who understands the way you love and need to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, las verdaderas cualidades del amor son siempre las mismas.<\/p>\n<p>True love doesn\u2019t hurt you on purpose. True love doesn\u2019t lie to you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64287\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beautiful-woman-with-hat.jpg\" alt=\"hermosa mujer con sombrero con hierba alta delante de ella\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>El amor verdadero te acepta a pesar de tus defectos. El amor verdadero ve m\u00e1s all\u00e1 de tu cuerpo.<\/p>\n<p>True love isn\u2019t scared when the thing goes wrong. True love accepts the feeling of pain and every other <em>imperfecto<\/em> emoci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s wise enough to know that perfect doesn\u2019t exist and imperfection is always a chance for growth.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64278\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-blonde-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mujer rubia solitaria con abrigo cabeza girando a la derecha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you meet the love you need, you\u2019ll know it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A man who gives you that love will make sure to choose you every day and won\u2019t make you question his feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca dejar\u00e1 de recordarte lo importante y valioso que eres.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64294\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-with-her-hand.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada con la mano en la mejilla cerca de las ventanas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Te cuidar\u00e1 y aumentar\u00e1 tu confianza s\u00f3lo porque le encanta verte feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Te respetar\u00e1 siempre y para siempre porque ve tu verdadero valor.<\/p>\n<p>En su mente y en su coraz\u00f3n, t\u00fa ser\u00e1s el \u00fanico al que vea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64296\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/lonely-woman-on-a-steel-boom.jpg\" alt=\"mujer solitaria en una puerta de pluma de acero cerca en el campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>Cuando eso ocurra, agradecer\u00e1s tu dolor y abrazar\u00e1s el amor reci\u00e9n descubierto.<\/p>\n<p>Everything that happened before will be just a shadow that vanishes when you\u2019re surrounded by light.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You\u2019ll smile because rather than let the pain turn your heart into something ugly you allowed it to blossom into love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-64307\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/EVERY-PAIN-OF-LOSS-TELLS-A-STORY-OF-LOVE-PINTEREST.jpg\" alt=\"CADA DOLOR DE P\u00c9RDIDA CUENTA UNA HISTORIA DE AMOR\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remaining vulnerable after being hurt feels like going into battle without any armor. No matter how good a fighter we are, we could still get hurt. But it\u2019s a risk we\u2019re willing to take knowing love is a basic need. That\u2019s what I did. I was hurt but I chose to love again&#8230;and I was&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64274"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64274\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}