{"id":64447,"date":"2020-04-25T23:12:52","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T23:12:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64447"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:50:42","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:50:42","slug":"cuanto-tiempo-se-tarda-en-enamorarse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cuanto-tiempo-se-tarda-en-enamorarse\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo se tarda en enamorarse? 7 factores que marcan la diferencia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde la antig\u00fcedad, se ha debatido si existe el amor a primera vista o si... amor verdadero<\/a> es algo que hay que alimentar antes de que crezca.<\/p>\n

Mientras que los rom\u00e1nticos afirman que supieron qui\u00e9n era su alma gemela desde el primer momento en que la vieron, otros discrepan.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Realists say that you have to get to know the core of someone’s personality before you can say that you really love them.<\/p>\n

Entonces, \u00bfcu\u00e1l es la verdad? \u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo se tarda en enamorarse?<\/p>\n

Estos son los factores m\u00e1s importantes que determinan el tiempo en el que pueden crecer los sentimientos por otra persona.<\/p>\n

1. Edad<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Una de las primeras cosas que determinan el tiempo medio para que alguien se enamore es, sin duda, su edad.<\/p>\n

En concreto, se ha demostrado cient\u00edficamente que las personas m\u00e1s j\u00f3venes tienden a desarrollar sentimientos rom\u00e1nticos y a mostrar signos de amor<\/a> mucho m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido que los adultos.<\/p>\n

\u00bfRecuerdas cuando eras ni\u00f1o? S\u00f3lo ten\u00edas que mirar a alguien guapo y ya estabas enamorado.<\/p>\n

De hecho, se ha enamorado perdidamente de un famoso que ha visto en la televisi\u00f3n o incluso se ha encaprichado de un personaje de ficci\u00f3n de su libro o serie favoritos.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Despite what people might say, you didn\u2019t just like these people. You dreamt and fantasized about them, which means you were in love with them. For that age, it was love!<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, la velocidad a la que crecen los sentimientos de amor m\u00e1s profundos hacia alguien cambia con el tiempo.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in high school and college, you\u2019re no longer a little kid but you still don\u2019t need a long period of time to become crazy over another person.<\/p>\n

Another important thing here is that when you’re younger, you don’t have the ability to differentiate between different types of love.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell whether you just like a person, if you’re in love with them, or if you feel real love for them.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When you are young the brain chemicals which cause romantic feelings go wild. The same happens with oxytocin and the other love hormones you still haven’t figured out how to control.<\/p>\n

Consequently, you can’t seem to notice the difference between physical attraction, infatuation and true love.<\/p>\n

In fact, you’re capable of falling in love the first time you see someone, without having to go on an actual first date.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it’s much easier for you to say: “Te quiero<\/a>” and to think that you feel it.<\/p>\n

A medida que creces, esas tres palabritas adquieren un significado m\u00e1s profundo y te vuelves m\u00e1s cuidadoso al pronunciarlas.<\/p>\n

Con el paso de los a\u00f1os, tu experiencia te convierte en una persona diferente, m\u00e1s sabia y cuidadosa.<\/p>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Consequently, you need much more time to say that you\u2019re truly in love with someone and to really feel that way.<\/p>\n

At this point of your life, romance stops being the only thing occupying your mind. You have other stuff to worry about so you don\u2019t spend as much energy on romantic love as you did before.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, tu nivel de exigencia aumenta con la edad. Necesitas mucho m\u00e1s que una cara bonita, una sonrisa bonita y un cuerpo bonito para enamorarte de alguien.<\/p>\n

You need time to get to know this person and to get to the bottom of their character before you can declare that you\u2019re in love.<\/p>\n

Ya no crees en el amor a primera vista, sino en la atracci\u00f3n a primera vista.<\/p>\n

2. Historia de vida amorosa<\/h2>\n

\"pareja<\/p>\n

Otra cosa relacionada con los plazos en los que te enamoras es tu vida amorosa y tu historial de relaciones.<\/p>\n

Aunque tus relaciones anteriores formen parte del pasado, siempre tendr\u00e1n un gran impacto en tu futuro.<\/p>\n

For example, if you\u2019ve never had a relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a>, it is more likely that you\u2019ll fall in love with someone who gives you a little bit of attention right away.<\/p>\n

You experience feelings you didn\u2019t even know existed. They overwhelm you to the point where you can\u2019t control them.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, si tienes alguna carga emocional, te resultar\u00e1 mucho m\u00e1s dif\u00edcil cultivar sentimientos verdaderos hacia otra persona.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re still hung up on your ex, without even being aware of it – or you need more time to recover from your past relationship.<\/p>\n

This is especially true if you\u2019ve been through a devastating breakup. You\u2019ve lost trust in people and you won\u2019t give just anyone access to your heart.<\/p>\n

On the contrary, you\u2019ll do everything in your power to prevent yourself from putting your feelings out there.<\/p>\n

Even if you begin falling in love, you\u2019ll hold yourself back and won\u2019t let these emotions develop any further.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve been heartbroken, you change and your dating patterns change. You become extra careful, you overthink things, and question your every move before acting on it.<\/p>\n

You’re miedo a volver a salir herido<\/a> y piensas que todo el mundo te tratar\u00e1 como lo hizo tu ex. Por lo tanto, la \u00fanica forma de evitarlo y mantenerte a salvo es cerrar tu coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty simple: you don\u2019t let your emotions loose and you never relaxed enough to even start falling in love. Instead, you put a guard up because it\u2019s the only way to protect yourself.<\/p>\n

You’re not alone in this one-many people who have emotional traumas caused by previous relationships actually run away at the first sign of feelings.<\/p>\n

Otra cosa importante aqu\u00ed es el n\u00famero de tus parejas rom\u00e1nticas y relaciones serias.<\/p>\n

According to many dating experts, the more partners you\u2019ve had, the lower the chance of you falling for someone new right away.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been through all of this too many times. The butterflies and the excitement don\u2019t make you high and you\u2019re no longer hooked on the feeling of being in love.<\/p>\n

3. Su car\u00e1cter<\/h2>\n

\"fotografia<\/p>\n

Dos personas pueden tener la misma edad y experiencias sentimentales similares, pero aun as\u00ed necesitar un tiempo diferente para enamorarse. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9?<\/p>\n

Well, if you\u2019re wondering how long does it take to fall in love, maybe you should look for the answer in your character.<\/p>\n

Todos tenemos personalidades diferentes que afectan a nuestros sentimientos e interacciones sociales, y esto incluye el romanticismo.<\/p>\n

La primera pregunta es: \u00bfest\u00e1 usted introvertido o extrovertido<\/a>? Let\u2019s disregard the love part for now and focus on how you behave around people in general?<\/p>\n

Are you someone who doesn\u2019t have trouble meeting new people? Do you make new friends with ease?<\/p>\n

\u00bfSe lleva bien con los desconocidos? \u00bfEres una persona extrovertida y divertida? \u00bfLe gusta experimentar?<\/p>\n

\"mujeres<\/p>\n

\u00bfO prefiere ce\u00f1irse a su rutina? \u00bfEst\u00e1 atrapado en su zona de confort y odia tener que salir de ella?<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tardas en relajarte por completo delante de un desconocido? \u00bfDejas entrar a la gente o eres reservado?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re someone who has trouble socializing, you\u2019ll certainly take longer to fall in love.<\/p>\n

If your idea of the perfect Saturday night is binge watching Netflix in the privacy of your own home, you\u2019re probably an introvert who needs ages to fall for someone and to let them in.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, todo esto reduce tus posibilidades incluso de conocer a alguien nuevo, por no hablar de enamorarte de \u00e9l.<\/p>\n

3. Su inteligencia emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cuando o\u00edmos la palabra inteligencia, pensamos en alguien listo, bueno con la ciencia, bien educado y sabio.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, hay distintos tipos de inteligencia y la inteligencia emocional es uno de ellos.<\/p>\n

Con un alto grado de desarrollo inteligencia emocional<\/a> means being in touch with your own feelings and understanding other people\u2019s emotions.<\/p>\n

Significa no huir de lo que sientes y no intentar reprimir tus emociones. Significa ser capaz de dar y recibir distintos tipos de amor, incluido el amor rom\u00e1ntico.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n incluye tener el sexto sentido cuando se trata de captar a todos los que te rodean y todo lo que ocurre en sus corazones.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Therefore, if you\u2019re emotionally intelligent, you\u2019re more likely to fall in love faster than the average.<\/p>\n

Or at least, you\u2019ll notice that something is going on and you’ll be able to process your emotions as soon as they appear.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re also able to catch how others feel about you. You notice when someone is hitting on you or when they start to catch feelings for you, even before they do.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when your emotional intelligence is not very well developed, you need more time to realize that you\u2019re actually falling in love.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t get the hints when the other person is offering you their love nor do you see the signs of love in yourself.<\/p>\n

Also, there is a difference between the people who follow their heart, no matter where it takes them and the ones who take their mind\u2019s lead. <\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La respuesta a la pregunta cu\u00e1nto se tarda en enamorarse tambi\u00e9n est\u00e1 estrechamente relacionada con el grupo al que perteneces.<\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong-it doesn’t mean that you’re incapable of loving just because your emotional intelligence is a bit lower. It’s just a part of who you are and sometimes, it can be a good thing.<\/p>\n

For example, if you\u2019re someone who goes after their heart\u2019s desires, you don\u2019t kill your feelings, even if you know that they\u2019re not right. Instead, you chase them and see where they take you.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you\u2019re a more reasonable person who falls in love with someone wrong, you\u2019ll do everything in your power to make those emotions go away ASAP.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t nurture them and you\u2019ll stop them from growing which eventually might help you stop yourself from falling in love.<\/p>\n

4. Sus opiniones sobre el amor<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de averiguar cu\u00e1nto tiempo se tarda en enamorarse, hay que hacer un poco de autorreflexi\u00f3n y contemplar nuestros puntos de vista sobre el amor.<\/p>\n

Let’s cut to the chase: Do you cree en el amor<\/a>? \u00bfO considera que no es m\u00e1s que una invenci\u00f3n comercializada sobre la que la gente se hace ilusiones?<\/p>\n

Una cosa es que te consideres una persona rom\u00e1ntica que tiene una gran fe en el amor. Las personas que ven el amor como lo m\u00e1s importante de la vida tienden a enamorarse con m\u00e1s frecuencia.<\/p>\n

Estas son las personas que necesitan amor rom\u00e1ntico para respirar y funcionar correctamente.<\/p>\n

The people who don\u2019t lose their faith in love even after numerous heartbreaks and who see it as this divine force which moves the entire Universe.<\/p>\n

\"silueta<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t even have to be aware of this but if you\u2019re subconsciously on a constant search for a partner, it is more likely that you will fall in love more often.<\/p>\n

\u00c9ste es especialmente el caso de quienes idealizan el amor rom\u00e1ntico. Este es el grupo que busca un cuento de hadas y que ve el amor verdadero como lo m\u00e1s poderoso que existe.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, you\u2019ll need more time to grow feelings for someone if you rock your single life.<\/p>\n

Disfrutas de tu situaci\u00f3n sentimental y piensas en el romanticismo como algo irrelevante para tu felicidad.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re independent and self-sufficient, so you\u2019re running away from the idea of having to share your life with someone else.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Therefore, you won\u2019t fall in love easily. In fact, even if you do, you\u2019ll refuse to accept the idea because it disrupts your balance. Another important thing here are your plans for the future.<\/p>\n

Do you see yourself as married with kids? Growing old next to your significant other? Or perhaps you wouldn\u2019t mind remaining single for the rest of your life? Being forever alone?<\/p>\n

You might not know this but you usually end up getting exactly what you want, even if we\u2019re talking about the desires you\u2019re not aware of.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the law of attraction: your thoughts shape your life more than you think. Basically, if you want to fall in love, it will probably happen to you sooner than you expect.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if this is something you\u2019re not ready for, you\u2019ll take ages to grow true feelings for someone new.<\/p>\n

5. G\u00e9nero<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Se ha demostrado cient\u00edficamente que el sexo tambi\u00e9n es uno de los factores que influyen en la velocidad a la que las personas se enamoran.<\/p>\n

A pesar de la opini\u00f3n popular, muchos terapeutas de relaciones afirman que los hombres se enamoran m\u00e1s r\u00e1pido que las mujeres, que en realidad necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para desarrollar sentimientos amorosos.<\/p>\n

When you come to think about this, you\u2019ll probably assume that it couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, se mire por donde se mire, las mujeres parecen ser las que m\u00e1s sufren en el amor y a las que m\u00e1s se les rompe el coraz\u00f3n<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

On the other hand, most men use every opportunity to get a higher score. They don\u2019t mind jumping from one relationship to another and from one bed to another.<\/p>\n

Well, the fact is that men fall in love quicker because they don’t overthink as much as women. In most cases, guys are led by their primal impulses and instincts.<\/p>\n

Por lo tanto, las sustancias qu\u00edmicas de su cerebro y las hormonas del amor tienen m\u00e1s posibilidades de apoderarse de ellos, mientras que las chicas son diferentes.<\/p>\n

Also, it’s easier for them to mistake the physical attraction and encaprichamiento<\/a> sienten cuando conocen a alguien por primera vez con amor.<\/p>\n

\"j\u00f3venes<\/p>\n

On the other hand, it’s unlikely for a girl to fall in love on the first date. Women tend to analyze and doubt everything before they put themselves out there.<\/p>\n

\u00bfEs esto amor verdadero? \u00bfEs el hombre adecuado para m\u00ed? Estas son todas las preguntas que necesitan respuesta antes de enamorarse.<\/p>\n

They need more reassurance and spend a longer amount of time second-guessing everything before admitting they’re in love.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, por t\u00e9rmino medio, las mujeres necesitan m\u00e1s tiempo para recuperarse de sus relaciones anteriores, por lo que tardan m\u00e1s en volver a enamorarse.<\/p>\n

6. La interacci\u00f3n con el objeto de su afecto<\/h2>\n

\"joven<\/p>\n

This factor is connected with the specific person you\u2019re falling in love with.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1ntas veces has conocido a alguien que te ha parecido guapo y atractivo? Te ha gustado e incluso has pensado que podr\u00eda ser amor a primera vista.<\/p>\n

However, you lose touch or the other person doesn\u2019t show the same amount of interest. So, your feelings start to die out.<\/p>\n

Sabiendo esto, es razonable que uno de los factores que influyen en la velocidad a la que te enamoras sea la respuesta que recibes de la otra persona.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the interaction and the contact you have with the object of your affection.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not the same if we\u2019re talking about a coworker you see every day or someone you see at a club two times a month.<\/p>\n

It is more likely that you\u2019ll fall in love faster with a friend you already know than with a stranger you\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

Tambi\u00e9n hay una diferencia entre tener una interacci\u00f3n cara a cara y hablar con alguien a trav\u00e9s de las redes sociales o conocerlo en un sitio de citas en l\u00ednea.<\/p>\n

\"pantalla<\/p>\n

It’s not the same if this person is physically present in your life or if they’re present on the wall of your social media profile.<\/p>\n

Cuando se trata de la respuesta que recibes de la otra persona, la mayor\u00eda de la gente se deja llevar por la atenci\u00f3n. Ven que el objeto de sus afectos les corresponde, as\u00ed que, naturalmente, se enamoran a\u00fan m\u00e1s de ellos.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, tambi\u00e9n hay a quien le gusta m\u00e1s que la otra persona se haga la dura. Lo ven como un reto y cuanto m\u00e1s se aplastar<\/a> corre, m\u00e1s quieren atraparlos.<\/p>\n

If this is something you can relate to, watch out because you might just fall heads over heels while you\u2019re busy playing these cat and mouse games.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1nto tiempo se tarda en enamorarse cient\u00edficamente?<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Many relationship therapists, including Dr. Gary Brown, claim there is no definite answer to the question \u201cHow long does it take to fall in love?\u201d We’re all different and we fall in love at a different pace.<\/p>\n

There is no such thing as a period of time or a time frame in which you have to fall in love in order to know it’s the real deal.<\/p>\n

Aunque algunas personas experimentan amor a primera vista<\/a>Algunos tardan meses o incluso a\u00f1os en desarrollar sentimientos m\u00e1s profundos de amor verdadero por alguien que siempre estuvo en su vida.<\/p>\n

\"Cu\u00e1nto<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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