Aunque digan que las mujeres son criaturas complicadas, entender a los hombres<\/a> a veces tambi\u00e9n puede ser un trabajo duro.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, honestamente hablando, la dificultad no es tan sorprendente teniendo en cuenta las diferencias f\u00edsicas entre ambos y la historia (significativamente diferente) de los sexos.<\/p>\n Despu\u00e9s de pasar una noche incre\u00edble con tu hombre, has notado como \u00e9l como que se apaga<\/i>? He becomes disinterested in having physical (or any) contact at all. This can be frustrating for any woman. So, what\u2019s actually going on?<\/p>\n Al parecer es<\/i> un qu\u00edmico apagado<\/i>. Following orgasm, men experience a refractory period \u2013 the recovery phase.<\/p>\n Las investigaciones demuestran que durante la eyaculaci\u00f3n los hombres liberan serotonina, oxitocina, vasopresina y la hormona prolactina.<\/p>\n La prolactina suprime la secreci\u00f3n de dopamina (necesaria para experimentar deseo y motivaci\u00f3n) y est\u00e1 relacionada con las sensaciones de somnolencia y satisfacci\u00f3n sexual.<\/p>\n In general, releasing said hormones lowers testosterone levels (which also drives romantic and sexual feelings). To simplify \u2013 it temporarily decreases a man\u2019s desire for sex.<\/p>\n Oxytocin (the bonding hormone) and vasopressin (both released during orgasm) are also connected to the feeling of sleepiness, contributing to the unaroused post-orgasm state. That\u2019s por qu\u00e9 los hombres se alejan<\/a> despu\u00e9s del sexo.<\/p>\n So, if you\u2019ve noticed that your man acts differently after sex, now you know the reason. You can have great sex and suddenly feel like he\u2019s not into you, so keep this in mind.<\/p>\n The bottom line is that if everything else in your relationship is normal, you don\u2019t need to worry. Just give your man some time to ‘recover’ and gather his own thoughts and feelings, and you’ll see that he’ll reach out and vienen a ti<\/a> \u00e9l mismo.<\/p>\n They do it only to satisfy their own physical needs, that’s they want to fool around a little bit and when they realize that the other side has started falling in love with them, they immediately distance themselves.<\/p>\n There are also some other possible reasons why guys become distant after intimacy, and you’ll find them all out only if you keep reading below.<\/p>\n They like the feeling of winning a woman\u2019s heart over other men and knowing a woman fell for them by being intimate with her. That\u2019s when the rush sometimes stops.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t necessarily mean he\u2019s not into you<\/a>, it\u2019s just that he proved something to himself and the initial excitement has waned.<\/p>\n Sin embargo, algunos hombres se alejan porque pierden completamente el inter\u00e9s despu\u00e9s de alcanzar su objetivo. Eso significa simplemente que nunca el<\/a> para ti.<\/p>\n When a man is attracted to you it\u2019s natural he thinks mostly about sex. Basically, he invests his time and energy in keeping you entertained and seducing you.<\/p>\n Consciously or subconsciously he expects something (and that\u2019s sex) in return. If he gets lo que quiere<\/a>...su curiosidad est\u00e1 satisfecha.<\/p>\n This is the reason why it\u2019s important to play the game a little bit longer and make him wait, slowly enamorarme de ti<\/a>e interesarse por otras cosas que no sean el sexo.<\/p>\n Eso seguramente har\u00e1 que quiera comprometerse de forma m\u00e1s seria y relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a> contigo.<\/p>\n For things to become more serious, he needs to know you as a person and like you. If you challenge him, chances are he will realize you\u2019re worth the work he\u2019s putting in.<\/p>\n Hacerle saber que intimar es algo que consideras especial har\u00e1 que todo sea a\u00fan m\u00e1s excepcional.<\/p>\n Atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica<\/a> es lo que los hombres o las mujeres sienten por el sexo opuesto bas\u00e1ndose puramente en la atracci\u00f3n f\u00edsica.<\/p>\n Non-physical attraction is an attraction to personality and all the things that don\u2019t include the body and physical attributes.<\/p>\n Believe it or not, men are interested in the non-physical side of things just like women, but what\u2019s different is their view on sex. Let me explain.<\/p>\n Cuando una mujer se interesa por un hombre a un nivel no f\u00edsico, lo m\u00e1s probable es que tambi\u00e9n se interese f\u00edsicamente y quiera acostarse con \u00e9l.<\/p>\n On the other hand, when she\u2019s turned off by a guy\u2019s personality \u2013 even though he\u2019s hot \u2013 she probably won\u2019t sleep with the guy.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not the same for men. It\u2019s common for men to sleep with women they\u2019re physically attracted to whether they are non-physically attracted to them o no<\/i>.<\/p>\n Resumiendo: el tipo se aleja<\/a> because he\u2019s only interested in sex and once he gets it there\u2019s nothing to make him stay.<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t like the girl\u2019s personality enough, he doesn\u2019t consider una relaci\u00f3n duradera<\/a>. This might hurt but it\u2019s a possible answer to the question \u201cwhy do guys distance themselves after intimacy?\u201d.<\/p>\n RELACIONADO: Si no le env\u00edas un mensaje, \u00e9l te lo enviar\u00e1 a ti: 20 razones por las que nunca env\u00eda mensajes primero<\/a><\/p>\n Busca pistas en sus mensajes de texto, en sus publicaciones en las redes sociales y en las cosas que dice.<\/p>\n \u00bfDe qu\u00e9 habla? \u00bfMenciona el sexo en la primera cita?<\/p>\n Otras cosas a las que debe prestar atenci\u00f3n son: si he\u2019s checking other girls<\/a> out when he thinks you\u2019re not looking, whether he really listens to what you\u2019re saying if he calls you on very late dates, and how he acts after you\u2019ve had sex for the first time.<\/p>\n Esta duele, pero a veces, los hombres est\u00e1n buscando espec\u00edficamente un enganche y nada m\u00e1s<\/a>.<\/p>\n Of course, the right thing to do would be to tell you this upfront, but this may mean no sex. That\u2019s how you know el tipo es un jugador.<\/a><\/p>\n Ve m\u00e1s despacio y espera a conoceros un poco mejor. A veces a los hombres les lleva m\u00e1s tiempo enamorarse o admitirse a s\u00ed mismos they\u2019re in love<\/a>.<\/p>\n If you\u2019ve only been together for only a short period of time, you may not have spent enough time together to make decisions that will affect your everyday life.<\/p>\n Esperad a conoceros mejor para tomar decisiones que os incluyan a los dos. Pasar tiempo juntos acabar\u00e1 por aclarar las cosas y estar\u00e9is seguros de si realmente le gustas<\/a> o no.<\/p>\n Maybe you really like him and want to share everything with him but think about whether it\u2019s too soon. Neediness is considered unattractive according to current social norms.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why jugando duro<\/a> es tan popular.<\/p>\n Why do men pull away when they detect clinginess? Clinginess can stem from a person\u2019s lack of other interests and hobbies.<\/p>\n You should never neglect your own life and totally commit your time to him, not even if he\u2019s a great guy who treats you the best way possible. Everyone should have their own space and time for themself.<\/p>\n Aferrarse tambi\u00e9n puede significar demasiado celoso<\/a> y falta de autoestima.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important to recognize that and work on yourself. Feeling independent is a great feeling that can build your self-esteem and make you more attractive.<\/p>\n It\u2019s reassuring when people can feel good on their own and care for themself without looking for somebody else to make the move or tell them what to do.<\/p>\n Tal vez tuvo una vida amorosa turbulenta y una mala ruptura<\/a> en el pasado. Tal vez tiene problemas que nunca abord\u00f3. We live in a society that encourages men to suppress their feelings so it\u2019s not surprising that men can be scared of emotions.<\/i><\/p>\n For men, sex is separate from being emotionally intimate. Being emotionally intimate isn\u2019t always easy. It reveals our weaknesses and shows us things we\u2019re maybe not ready to confront.<\/p>\n Algunos hombres son m\u00e1s conscientes de ello y pueden comunicar las cosas con claridad; otros son totalmente inconscientes y acaban actuando como gilipollas<\/a>. Sea como sea, nunca debes dejar que nadie te falte al respeto.<\/p>\n If he had a long-term relationship before you and didn’t give himself time to move on properly, it\u2019s better for you not to engage in a serious relationship with him too soon.<\/p>\n There\u2019s no relaci\u00f3n sana<\/a> without letting go of the fear of intimacy. If he\u2019s not able to do that, then it\u2019s better to move on or you\u2019ll end up heartbroken.<\/p>\n Relacionado: 12 se\u00f1ales de que se arrepiente de haberse acostado contigo (y qu\u00e9 hacer)<\/a><\/p>\n A veces hay factores externos que deben tenerse en cuenta, como por ejemplo si tu posible relaci\u00f3n ser\u00eda a distancia, o si tu bagaje cultural es muy diferente.<\/p>\n No todo el mundo est\u00e1 dispuesto a dar un vuelco a su vida tras pasar poco tiempo juntos.<\/p>\n As I said, men are conditioned to hide their feelings and strive to be as tough as possible and that doesn\u2019t include cuddling after sex and making you breakfast in bed.<\/p>\n There\u2019s a reason those gestures are considered romantic (are rare). Most men feel awkward thinking about doing something like that \u2013 even if they want to!<\/p>\n He’s probably falling in love with you and if it’s his first time, I think that it’s pretty normal that it scares the hell out of him. In his head, this means he won\u2019t be able to control his emotions and that can lead him to get hurt.<\/p>\n Este escenario puede explicar por qu\u00e9 los hombres se alejan y sus comportamiento evasivo<\/a>sobre todo si intuye que su al hombre le gustas de verdad<\/a>.<\/p>\n En primer lugar, debes saber que la paciencia es tu mayor aliada. Tienes que darle tiempo y espacio y dejar que \u00e9l acuda a ti primero.<\/p>\n S\u00e9 que la sola idea de perder tu <\/i>amado<\/i> puede ser desgarrador, pero tienes que creer en tu amor y esperar que el tiempo est\u00e9 de tu parte.<\/i> Tienes que ser fuerte y paciente para salvar tu propia salud emocional y mental.<\/p>\n Adem\u00e1s de ser paciente<\/a>, below are a few more short but efficient relationship advice on how to cope with your loved one’s pulling away.<\/p>\n If he doesn\u2019t, it\u2019s time for you para seguir adelante<\/a>. There\u2019s no reason why you should invest yourself in a guy who doesn\u2019t care enough.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t use an accusing tone of voice and try to not sound like you\u2019re attacking him. Maybe his answer will surprise you \u2013 you never know.<\/p>\n Live your life as you would without him. Go out and have fun, don\u2019t pay attention, and see what happens.<\/p>\n Importante <\/b>consejos sobre relaciones<\/b> ALERT: don’t ever normalize <\/b>comportamiento irrespetuoso<\/b><\/a> and before you decide to be intimate with someone ask yourself if you really want to do it, or whether you feel like it\u2019s something that\u2019s required of you.<\/b><\/p>\n Women should be able to have sex for enjoyment\u2019s sake and not as a way of proving something or conforming to the norm.<\/p>\n\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 cambian los chicos cuando te acuestas con ellos?<\/h2>\n
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Before we start dispensing dating advice and exploring possible reasons for guys’ odd behavior after they get physical with a girl, we should explain the chemical factor first. Sex changes a man\u2019s mind and, most of the time, they aren’t even aware of it.<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-leaning-on-wall-2.jpg\")
<\/p>\n\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 los hombres se vuelven distantes despu\u00e9s de la intimidad?<\/h2>\n
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There are many cases, though, when this chemical factor alone isn\u2019t enough to explain a man\u2019s behavior. Unfortunately, sometimes men pull away after being intimate with a woman because they didn’t want to start una relaci\u00f3n seria<\/a> con ella en primer lugar.<\/p>\nYa no siente el subid\u00f3n de la persecuci\u00f3n inicial (ha conseguido lo que quer\u00eda).<\/h3>\n
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A los hombres les gusta perseguir a las mujeres por varias razones. En primer lugar, les ayuda a determinar cu\u00e1nto les gusta realmente una mujer. Adem\u00e1s, disfrutan con la competitividad, el flirteo y el jugar a juegos<\/a> is fun for them, and it\u2019s good for their ego.<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-lying-on-concrete-1.jpg\")
<\/p>\nEst\u00e1 huyendo de una relaci\u00f3n comprometida<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s important to understand the difference between physical and non-physical attraction.<\/p>\n![\"mujer](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/couple-standing-outdoor-4.jpg\")
<\/p>\nNunca plane\u00f3 acostarse contigo m\u00e1s de una vez.<\/h3>\n
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Esto enlaza con la raz\u00f3n anterior. S\u00f3lo quer\u00eda una aventura de una noche<\/a>. \u00bfC\u00f3mo puede saberlo de antemano?<\/p>\nLas cosas van demasiado deprisa y eso le asusta.<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s possible that you\u2019re moving too fast for him. If you spent the night together and the next morning you cook him breakfast and start planning your weekend together \u2013 that might scare him away.<\/p>\nYou\u2019re acting overly attached<\/h3>\n
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El apego y la necesidad pueden ser para muchas personas<\/a>, especially for men. So, it’s better to put down the phone and skip his phone call from time to time.<\/p>\n![\"hombre](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-touching-his-hair.jpg\")
<\/p>\nHe\u2019s scared of intimacy<\/h3>\n
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It\u2019s not uncommon for men to be asustado<\/a> de enamorarse<\/a>. Hay muchas razones posibles por las que los hombres tienen miedo<\/a> para entrar en una relaci\u00f3n comprometida.<\/p>\nHe hasn\u2019t made up his mind yet<\/h3>\n
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If a guy distances himself after intimacy it doesn\u2019t always mean he\u2019s not into you<\/a> or something is wrong. Maybe it\u2019s just too soon for him to have decided whether le gustas<\/a> de esa manera o no.<\/p>\nHe\u2019s afraid of how much he loves you<\/h3>\n
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Vale, s\u00e9 que suena incre\u00edble y t\u00f3pico, pero es posible.<\/p>\n\u00bfQu\u00e9 hacer cuando se aleja?<\/h2>\n
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Just when you thought that it’s time to take your relationship to the next level, your man has started distancing himself. I know this can be pretty confusing, especially if this is the first time you feel that your man is alej\u00e1ndose<\/a>.<\/p>\nDale espacio<\/h3>\n
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D\u00e1ndole espacio evitas parecer necesitada y pones a prueba su verdadero inter\u00e9s por ti. Si realmente le gustas<\/a>...\u00e9l har\u00e1 el siguiente movimiento.<\/p>\nP\u00eddale su opini\u00f3n sincera<\/h3>\n
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If his behavior is really bugging you and you want to find out the truth, be open and direct and ask him why he\u2019s acting like that?<\/p>\nContinuar con el juego<\/h3>\n
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Si crees que la chispa sigue ah\u00ed, a pesar de su comportamiento, sigue jugando. Haz que te persiga<\/a>. Show him you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\nEn conjunto<\/h2>\n
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I hope I\u2019ve given you an answer to the question \u201cwhy do guys distance themselves after intimacy?\u201d and that now you know how to deal with it.<\/p>\n
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