{"id":64717,"date":"2020-04-25T22:14:33","date_gmt":"2020-04-25T22:14:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64717"},"modified":"2022-06-22T23:12:39","modified_gmt":"2022-06-22T23:12:39","slug":"como-iniciar-una-conversacion-en-tinder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/como-iniciar-una-conversacion-en-tinder\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n en Tinder y hacerlo bien"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019re wondering how to start a conversation on Tinder? You&#8217;re at the right place!<\/p>\n<p>Online dating sites have revolutionized the dating game. Dating apps like Tinder or Bumble are the new places to be and find your soulmate (or hookups if that&#8217;s your thing).<\/p>\n<p>After swiping right and getting matched, you feel a wave of satisfaction \u2013 yay! But after that comes the nerve-wracking part \u2013 you wonder what to write to your Tinder match.<\/p>\n<p>El primer mensaje puede ser decisivo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64725 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente sentada en el sof\u00e1 mientras sostiene un port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-sitting-on-the-sofa-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A good or bad outcome is often based on initial impressions, so you don&#8217;t want to mess it up. Conversation starters are such a big deal!<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, hay diferentes maneras de enfocar el primer movimiento. Depende de ti y de c\u00f3mo percibas a la otra persona.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re a funny person and you think your match will appreciate it, try go with something witty. If you think they&#8217;re more into flirty opening lines, start with something coquettish.<\/p>\n<p>A veces basta con saludar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65661 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con apple watch tocando iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-applewatch-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Whatever you choose to write, keep it honest and try to match the words with your personality or else you&#8217;re going to get caught up and end with an <em>unmatch<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you&#8217;re looking for some ideas on how to start a Tinder conversation, here&#8217;s a simple guide with very unobtrusive and interesting questions that can start up a good conversation and lead to a meet up in real life. And that&#8217;s what we want, right?<\/p>\n<h2>1. Empiece con un cumplido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64727 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer tumbada en el suelo mientras mira un smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-lying-on-the-floor-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s good to start simple and friendly. If you noticed something notable in your match&#8217;s pictures, try to bring that up in the first Tinder message.<\/p>\n<p>Do they have a photo of their dog or cat or maybe some beautiful location you haven&#8217;t seen before? Maybe a themed party or picture with food?<\/p>\n<p>Hazles un cumplido. A todo el mundo le gustan los cumplidos y saber que alguien le presta atenci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65663 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sonriente con iPad al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-woman-holding-iPad-768x537.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 That mountain photo is so amazing! Looks like it was a beautiful day, was it?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You have the cutest cat! It&#8217;s yours, right?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Saw your BandName shirt. I love them too! What&#8217;s your favorite song?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Wow! I love your second photo. Where was that taken? I want to go.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 That superhero look looks really good on you. Do you like comic book movies or was it just a Halloween thing?<\/p>\n<h2>2. Hacer una pregunta informal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64728 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer usando smartphone en color dorado\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-using-smartphone-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your Tinder match doesn&#8217;t have enough content on their profile, you obviously can&#8217;t be too specific. That doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t start things off with something good.<\/p>\n<p>Abre Tinder de forma informal y considerada.<\/p>\n<p>Ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey! How&#8217;s Monday treating you?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, what&#8217;s up? Planning to do anything fun this week?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, hope you&#8217;re having a happy Friday. How\u2019s it going so far?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 How are things going with you this week?<\/p>\n<h2>3. Insp\u00edrate en la informaci\u00f3n del perfil<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64731 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"tres mujeres riendo mientras miran el smartphone cerca del campo de flores\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/three-women-laughing-while-looking-at-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If nothing stands out or there&#8217;s not a ton on your match&#8217;s profile, you can comment on their location, education, or job, and then make follow-up questions inspired by their answers.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s enough just to start somewhere and then build up the convo from there.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65673 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con barba y traje negro sentado en un sof\u00e1 blanco\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/beard-man-in-black-suit-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Wow, never met anyone who works at JobName. You like your job?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I&#8217;ve heard of CompanyName. It seems like a cool place to work at! Is it?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey! I&#8217;m new to the area, have you lived here a while?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I see you&#8217;re from LocationName. How do you like it there?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Saw you went to the same school as my friend did! What year?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Empezar a coquetear<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64733 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa negra de pie mientras mira un smartphone con un vaso en la mano izquierda\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-black-shirt-standing-while-looking-at-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If there&#8217;s any place where it&#8217;s desirable to be flirty, it&#8217;s Tinder, but, of course, everything should be done tastefully.<\/p>\n<p>The opening message can be a pickup line \u2013 just make sure it&#8217;s not too much or cheesy because that can be a turn-off. You really don&#8217;t want that. Instead, be subtle yet be a tease.<\/p>\n<p>Ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 I&#8217;ve had a crush on you for 2 hours.<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Is your personality as angelic as your hair?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Believe in love at first swipe?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 You&#8217;ve got the best smile on Tinder. What makes it come out the most?<\/p>\n<h2>5. Una pregunta aleatoria, interesante y atractiva<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64735 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"smartphone blanco rodeado de iconos de notificaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/white-smartphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Si notas que tu pareja es el tipo de chica o chico que tiene buen sentido del humor, prueba con un inicio de conversaci\u00f3n en Tinder m\u00e1s relajado.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re definitely going to make a good first impression with something like that rather than a bland and boring question.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65672 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con abrigo marr\u00f3n sosteniendo un iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-brown-coat-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ejemplos:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Hey, I was wondering where can I get the best fried chicken in town?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Are you more of a Marvel or DC type, and if you&#8217;re more DC \u2013 why?!<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 On a scale of one to America, how free are you tonight?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What do I have to do to get on your drunk dial list?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What\u2019s your favorite Keanu Reeves movie?<\/p>\n<h2>6. Enviar un GIF<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64738 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sonriente con mochila sosteniendo smartphone en el bosque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/smiling-man-with-backpack-holding-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re feeling uninspired, just send them a funny GIF and make them lol. Try to choose something relevant based on their preferences or maybe a funny remark on online dating.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody likes GIFs and everybody uses them. It&#8217;s proven that GIFs boost your response rate by 30% and that ensuing conversation lasts longer than average.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64740 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa blanca tumbado sobre hierba verde mientras usa un smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-lying-on-green-grass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s some good news because it means you don&#8217;t even have to come up with a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/los-mejores-abridores-de-tinder\/\">L\u00ednea de apertura de una conversaci\u00f3n de Tinder<\/a>. \u00a1Bonus!<\/p>\n<p>Aparte de estas gu\u00edas de preguntas, aqu\u00ed tienes algunas normas y consejos generales y pr\u00e1cticos que debes seguir cuando se trata de Tinder y de asegurarte de que haces bien el swipe.<\/p>\n<h2>Mant\u00e9ngase alejado de <em>Hola<\/em>.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65664 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con chaqueta de punto gris hablando por tel\u00e9fono mientras sostiene un iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-gray-cardigan-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the most boring thing you can do. And no, an emoji won&#8217;t help you either.<\/p>\n<p>Hay tantas opciones y formas de entablar una conversaci\u00f3n interesante con una chica o un chico que te gusta, que nunca debes optar por una d\u00e9bil <em>Hola<\/em> o hi o cualquier otra versi\u00f3n de lo mismo.<\/p>\n<p>Hey is considered lazy and unengaged. When you just type one greeting word, that means you&#8217;re letting your match come up with a question and do all the work. That&#8217;s not very attractive.<\/p>\n<p>Your match may feel like you&#8217;re not really interested. If you&#8217;re not really interested, what&#8217;s the point?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure we can all do better than that. If you want that first date, show it.<\/p>\n<h2>Haga preguntas que todo el mundo quiera responder.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64742 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en silla al aire libre mientras usa smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s in human nature to love exploring ourselves and feeling special and understood. Ever wondered why online quizzes are so popular?<\/p>\n<p>A la gente le encanta poder relacionarse con algo.<\/p>\n<p>Tambi\u00e9n les gusta mostrar su singularidad sin miedo a parecer egoc\u00e9ntricos.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes utilizar este rasgo en tu beneficio y hacer las preguntas m\u00e1s interesantes. Pueden ser divertidas o espec\u00edficas de alg\u00fan modo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64743 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con vestido negro sentada en lazy bag mientras usa smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-black-dress-sitting-on-lazy-bag-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lee sus biograf\u00edas de Tinder y busca en su perfil para saber m\u00e1s sobre ellos.<\/p>\n<p>After that, think about the things that might be interesting to them. Make a guess about their favorite genre of movies or music \u2013 maybe even ask them what they are?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s something many people are passionate about. It&#8217;s also a way to evoke emotion and make a connection on an emotional level.<\/p>\n<h2>Que sea breve.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65665 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa blanca sosteniendo un iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Conversation starters don&#8217;t have to be long by any means. In fact, it&#8217;s better if they are shorter. Writing long questions can feel too serious or like you&#8217;re trying too hard.<\/p>\n<p>Que sean breves y atractivas. Presta atenci\u00f3n a sus respuestas y basa en ellas tu siguiente pregunta.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how to start a conversation on Tinder that will get you somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>When you&#8217;re on your first date there&#8217;s going to be enough time to talk about everything you want to say. Until then, just keep questions interesting and short \u2013 and keep \u2018em coming!<\/p>\n<h2>Don\u2019t make them feel awkward.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64744 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con abrigo gris usando un smartphone\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-gray-coat-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be that screenshot they will send to their friend with question marks above their heads. No! Avoid sending risky messages at the start. Take time to not make them feel awkward.<\/p>\n<p>You always need to be respectful. Everything can be done tastefully. Don&#8217;t ask questions that are too personal, don&#8217;t start conversations by saying their name, and don&#8217;t be offensive.<\/p>\n<p>Piensa en tu mensaje y en su impacto en un desconocido. \u00bfTe gustar\u00eda que te preguntaran eso?<\/p>\n<h2>Demuestra que est\u00e1s interesado.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64745 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con jersey de cuello alto naranja sosteniendo smartphone negro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-orange-turtleneck-sweater-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Make sure you read their whole Tinder profile and then make sure to be prepared for good conversation. If you want to get their phone number, you have to show some effort. Don&#8217;t stop writing after one line of <em>jaja<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Si te gustan, mant\u00e9n la conversaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>There are many people on Tinder and it&#8217;s a very competitive place. If you see something you want, make sure to keep it and eventually turn in into something more \u2013 because if you don&#8217;t, somebody else will.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65666 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa negra usando ordenador\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-black-t-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t put emphasis on their looks. Make them feel more comfortable and ask them to talk about their interests or something they experienced.<\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo, el lugar donde se hizo la foto o algo parecido.<\/p>\n<h2>Evita copiar.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64747 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug-.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sosteniendo una taza de cristal sentada junto a una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-glass-mug--768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Everything that\u2019s been said here isn&#8217;t for mere copy-pasting \u2013 it&#8217;s just inspiration for your own version. Make every question personalized. Don&#8217;t copy because they will know.<\/p>\n<p>There are probably tons of guys of girls who think just like you. You don&#8217;t want to be the 10th person who sent them the same opening line. That&#8217;s a hard no.<\/p>\n<p>Inventa tu propia frase y haz que se sientan especiales.<\/p>\n<h2>Provoque una respuesta emocional sin ser demasiado personal.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64748 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con su\u00e9ter rojo sosteniendo un m\u00f3vil blanco sentada junto a una mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-red-sweater-holding-white-cellphone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you make your Tinder match feel something when they read your question, that means you made an instant connection. It&#8217;s more likely they&#8217;re going to take time when replying.<\/p>\n<p>Preg\u00fantales por su postre favorito, su programa de televisi\u00f3n o sus vacaciones ideales. A todo el mundo le gusta pensar en eso. Autom\u00e1ticamente les trae recuerdos felices.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda lo que aprendas de ellos y util\u00edzalo m\u00e1s adelante como referencia.<\/p>\n<h2>S\u00e9 quien eres.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65668 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en una silla mientras usa el iPad\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-chair-5-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One of the most important things! Don&#8217;t fake anything. Be authentic. Don&#8217;t change your answers and yourself just to impress a person you don&#8217;t even know.<\/p>\n<p>What for? If they&#8217;re right for you, they\u2019ll want to see the real you.<\/p>\n<p>If you see they&#8217;re interested in something you&#8217;re not, don&#8217;t start the conversation on that topic.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no point in talking about something you&#8217;re not so familiar with or don&#8217;t care for. Try to ask questions and find something you both are interested in.<\/p>\n<h2><strong>Don&#8217;t overthink<\/strong> y<strong> pulsa enviar.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64751 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1.jpg\" alt=\"mujer mordiendo un l\u00e1piz sentada en una silla frente al ordenador\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-biting-pencil-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to be careful and thoughtful, but overthinking is something else. There&#8217;s no need to be that nervous when it comes to online dating.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody on Tinder is obviously there for similar reasons, so you&#8217;re not different from anybody else. Don&#8217;t take everything so seriously, relax instead. Relax and have a good time. That&#8217;s what Tinder&#8217;s for!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65669 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camiseta blanca de cuello redondo y gafas de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-crew-neck-t-shirt-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s okay to get rejected, it&#8217;s even okay to be ghosted. If someone doesn\u2019t answer your message, don&#8217;t take it personally.<\/p>\n<p>After all, they don&#8217;t even know you and you don&#8217;t know the reason they didn&#8217;t answer.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e9jalo correr, pulsa enviar y divi\u00e9rtete.<\/p>\n<h2>Intenta ser paciente.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64752 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg\" alt=\"mujer sentada en el sof\u00e1 mientras usa el port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-sitting-on-the-couch-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you hit the send button, sit back and forget about it. It&#8217;s important to be patient in this kind of situation. There are a million reasons your match isn&#8217;t answering right away.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe they&#8217;re in the middle of something, maybe they&#8217;re having a bad week, or maybe they don&#8217;t open the app that much. Who knows?<\/p>\n<p>The thing is, you can&#8217;t control any of it, so why think about it? Be patient and do what you think is best.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64753 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con smartphone y vaso sentado al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-holding-smartphone-and-drinking-glass-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also, don&#8217;t go and send more questions after the initial unanswered question, it&#8217;s more likely to stay unanswered that way.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de entablar conversaci\u00f3n, si notas que a tu pareja le gusta responder a las preguntas significativas, puedes intentar optar por este tipo de preguntas que enamoran.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m talking about the kind of questions you ask to get to know a person on a deeper level.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66146 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con camisa blanca usando la computadora de la tableta mientras que se sienta al aire libre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-in-white-shirt-using-tablet-computer-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por ejemplo:<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 Which <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/letras-de-canciones-para-los-pies-de-foto\/\">letra de canci\u00f3n<\/a> \u00bfha tenido el mayor impacto en usted?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What\u2019s the most childish thing you still love to do?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What bad habit have you managed to break?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What couple do you look up to?<\/p>\n<p>\u2022 What would constitute a perfect day for you?<\/p>\n<p>Si le gustan este tipo de preguntas, eche un vistazo a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/relationship\/100-preguntas-hombre-conocer-mejor\/\">esta lista<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64754 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone.jpg\" alt=\"una persona sostiene un iPhone mientras utiliza una aplicaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/person-holding-iPhone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Al fin y al cabo, las conversaciones de Tinder no son tan distintas de las de la vida real. Se aplica el mismo proceso.<\/p>\n<p>En primer lugar, tienes que establecer una interacci\u00f3n inicial con un saludo y una pregunta o frase para ligar relevante, y luego seguir haciendo preguntas en funci\u00f3n de sus respuestas. Hay que ser respetuoso y mostrar inter\u00e9s por lo que dicen.<\/p>\n<p>Some people will like you, others won&#8217;t bother \u2013 you shouldn&#8217;t be stressed about it. A quarter of the users said they\u2019ve been ghosted in the past, while a fifth said they\u2019ve ghosted another individual.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-65670 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con camisa gris usando smartphone en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-in-grey-shirt-using-smartphone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s how the app is made and everyone is different anyway. However, if they like you, ask them meaningful questions to make them more comfortable and open up.<\/p>\n<p>For some people dating apps can be overwhelming. The whole concept of swiping left or right is unacceptable to some. And that&#8217;s okay too.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing someone&#8217;s picture isn&#8217;t enough to capture the whole person, since you&#8217;re looking only at their physical looks.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-66136 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater.jpg\" alt=\"hombre con jersey verde usando ordenador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-wearing-green-sweater-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There are many invisible elements of attractiveness, like the tone of someone\u2019s voice, how often they make eye contact, the way they move and laugh. This means that a chance for real connection still depends on a physical date and chemistry.<\/p>\n<p>Everything that has been said here can change your life or just be fun, it&#8217;s for you to decide. Either way, you&#8217;ll need to know how to start a conversation on Tinder and this is how you do it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-64763 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo iniciar una conversaci\u00f3n en Tinder y hacerlo bien\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So you\u2019re wondering how to start a conversation on Tinder? You&#8217;re at the right place! Online dating sites have revolutionized the dating game. Dating apps like Tinder or Bumble are the new places to be and find your soulmate (or hookups if that&#8217;s your thing). After swiping right and getting matched, you feel a wave&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":64718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29640],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-64717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-seducing-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29640,"label":"seducing women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-To-Start-A-Conversation-On-Tinder-And-Do-It-Right.jpg",800,537,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29640,"name":"seducing women","slug":"seducing-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29640,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Seducing women requires a unique set of skills and mastering lots of dating tips. 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