{"id":64961,"date":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-21T22:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=64961"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:54:31","slug":"chica-acostumbrada-a-las-despedidas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/chica-acostumbrada-a-las-despedidas\/","title":{"rendered":"A la chica que se acostumbr\u00f3 a las despedidas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que tienes uso de raz\u00f3n, la gente te ha abandonado de una forma u otra.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always the same; as soon as you  <\/span>baje la guardia<\/span><\/a> y empiezas a creer a alguien, siempre te demuestran que te equivocas.<\/p>\n

As soon as you get used to someone\u2019s presence, they make sure to show you it was the biggest mistake you could have made. Because people always leave and there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te dejan por otra persona o porque nunca se preocuparon lo suficiente por ti.<\/strong> They forget that you ever existed while you\u2019re stuck with your memories.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s been like this ever since you can remember, with your family, friends and, finally, with men. Sooner or later, everyone told you their final goodbye.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know why but everyone you ever loved abandoned you at one point in your life.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Te dejaron solo para que lucharas contra tus demonios y nadie cumpli\u00f3 su promesa de quedarse a tu lado para siempre.<\/p>\n

Al principio, estabas convencido de que t\u00fa eras el problema. Deb\u00edas de estar haciendo algo para ahuyentar a todo el mundo.<\/p>\n

Te sent\u00edas culpable y segu\u00edas buscando una explicaci\u00f3n. Why couldn\u2019t you be good enough for someone to stay?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

What\u2019s wrong with you? Why do people walk away from you?<\/p>\n

Luego, al cabo de un tiempo, te acostumbrabas. Esto era especialmente cierto en el caso de los chicos; nunca permit\u00edas que te enga\u00f1aran haci\u00e9ndote creer sus falsas promesas.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que todos tus romances eran temporal<\/b><\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que llegar\u00eda un d\u00eda en que cada uno de tus novios te dar\u00eda la espalda y te dejar\u00eda igual que hicieron todos los anteriores.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edas que tu felicidad siempre tuvo fecha de caducidad<\/strong>. As\u00ed que lo disfrutaste mientras dur\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, al mismo tiempo, siempre estabas alerta. Por muy bien que fueran las cosas con alguien, nunca te permit\u00edas relajarte demasiado.<\/p>\n

Al fin y al cabo, el final siempre estaba cerca. Era mucho mejor esperarlo que dejar que te pillara desprevenido.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Well, even though all of this sounds sad and it definitely did change the essence of your being, let me tell you that it\u2019s not so bad being the girl who got used to goodbyes.<\/p>\n

No eres consciente de lo fuerte que te ha hecho todo esto. Todas las personas que te han importado te han abandonado en alg\u00fan momento, as\u00ed que \u00bfqu\u00e9 es exactamente lo que podr\u00eda hacerte da\u00f1o ahora?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s imaginable for you to always get heartbroken by some unimportant guy who goes through your life with you. But basically, it is impossible for anyone\u2019s departure to destroy you.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Yes, you\u2019re still hurt by your losses. However, you know that no matter who you lose, you\u2019ll always keep on living.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Getting used to goodbyes made you completely independent. It helped you realize that you don\u2019t need anyone and especially not a man to survive this harsh world.<\/p>\n

It turned you into a girl who doesn\u2019t take crap from anyone. After all, when you\u2019re aware that you can make it without your partner perfectly well, why would you put up with him?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

As\u00ed, en lugar de conformarse con menos<\/span><\/a>, you became the one who said goodbye. The one who didn\u2019t stick around and the one who left when she was not treated right.<\/p>\n

Deber\u00edas estar orgulloso de ti mismo por esto. Todas esas personas horribles al menos te sirvieron por alguna raz\u00f3n. Te ense\u00f1aron a no tener miedo a las despedidas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to give you a different perspective on things. I\u2019m here to promise you that you don\u2019t have to get used to departures any longer.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to give you hope that one of these days, someone special will walk into your life. When he does, he\u2019ll never walk out of it again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to tell you that when you least expect it, you\u2019ll meet a man who will never leave your side. A man who will love you, no matter what.<\/p>\n

This man\u2019s love won\u2019t be temporary. It won\u2019t have an expiration date and it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

I promise you one thing: When this man comes, he\u2019ll come to stay.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"A<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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