{"id":65091,"date":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T07:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65091"},"modified":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T11:02:47","slug":"deja-de-luchar-por-amor-empieza-a-luchar-por-ti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/deja-de-luchar-por-amor-empieza-a-luchar-por-ti\/","title":{"rendered":"Deja de luchar por amor, empieza a luchar por ti mismo"},"content":{"rendered":"

No voy a mentirte y decirte que el amor rom\u00e1ntico deber\u00eda ser lo \u00faltimo en lo que pensaras.<\/p>\n

Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being.<\/p>\n

Le guste o no admitirlo, una relaci\u00f3n sentimental sana puede mejorar significativamente su calidad de vida.<\/p>\n

Puede hacerte m\u00e1s feliz y m\u00e1s contento.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should chase it at all costs.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean you should make it the centre of your universe or that you should disregard all of your other successes just because you don\u2019t have a happy love life.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should fight for it, at the risk of destroying yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Because at the end of the day, it\u2019s always better to lose a romance than to lose yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not trying to claim that a mature relationship doesn\u2019t require time, patience, and energy.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, hay que trabajarlo. Algunos incluso dicen que hay que luchar por el amor verdadero y que requiere muchas batallas para ganarlo.<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, it is one thing to put effort into making your relationship function, it\u2019s another to put your entire life on hold just to prevent it from tearing apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Esto se aplica especialmente si tu novio no es tu aliado y socio criminal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If he is the one you\u2019re fighting against and your biggest opponent.<\/p>\n

En ese caso, deja de luchar por amor<\/a> y empieza a luchar por ti<\/strong>. Because you\u2019re the one who matters more than anything.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not selfish to understand that the relationship you have with yourself is more important than any relationship you have with someone else, including your romantic partner.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Deja de hacer sacrificios para salvar a este hombre.<\/p>\n

Accept that your efforts are in vain because he doesn\u2019t want to be saved and that you can\u2019t be the one to rescue him.<\/p>\n

En lugar de eso, una vez que veas c\u00f3mo van las cosas, corre por tu vida.<\/p>\n

S\u00e1lvate a ti mismo, antes de que sea demasiado tarde para hacer nada y antes de que te rompas sin remedio.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Stop chasing him and accept that sadly, he doesn\u2019t want to be caught.<\/p>\n

Stop wasting your precious time and youth on this man who clearly isn\u2019t capable of giving you what you need and want.<\/p>\n

Deja de conformarte con migajas de su atenci\u00f3n porque at the end of the day, you\u2019re not actually luchando por su amor<\/a> \u2013 you\u2019re begging for it<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Not only that: you\u2019re also losing your dignity and pride along the way. So en lugar de perseguir a un hombre, empieza a perseguir tus ambiciones y sue\u00f1os<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Redirect all of your energy towards your goals and don\u2019t give up until you accomplish each one of them.<\/p>\n

Deja de ponerle a \u00e9l en primer lugar. Acepta el hecho de que tu relaci\u00f3n es una prioridad s\u00f3lo para ti, mientras que para \u00e9l siempre es lo segundo.<\/p>\n

Understand that you\u2019re dealing with a selfish jerk who only thinks of his needs and couldn\u2019t care less about your feelings.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Deja de pensar que tu futuro es igual al futuro de tu relaci\u00f3n. Deja de vincular tu felicidad en general a la felicidad en el amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, una relaci\u00f3n sana puede mejorar tu calidad de vida.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice having someone \u2013 someone who loves you no matter what and someone to hold your back.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t be happy while you\u2019re single.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you have to fulfill certain society standards and that once you do, everything in your life will magically fall into place.<\/p>\n

Guess what: it won\u2019t! If you’re miserable when single, you\u2019ll be even more miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Your problems won\u2019t go away the moment your romance starts to function and your life won\u2019t suddenly start to make sense in that second.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

So, please stop being obsessed with finding the perfect match and a flawless romantic relationship because it won\u2019t bring you the changes you expect.<\/p>\n

Instead, work on the relationship you have with yourself and make it as amazing as possible since that\u2019s the one that matters the most.<\/p>\n

Lo m\u00e1s importante: empieza a quererte y respetarte m\u00e1s. Porque nadie lo har\u00e1 en tu nombre.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Deja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I won\u2019t lie and tell you that romantic love should be the last thing on your mind. Instead, I\u2019ll be honest and admit that it\u2019s important for every human being. Whether you like to admit it or not, a healthy romantic relationship can significantly improve the quality of your life. It can make you happier…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":65104,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Stop-Fighting-For-Love-Start-Fighting-For-Yourself-.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65091","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65091"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65091\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65091"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65091"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65091"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}