{"id":65176,"date":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T11:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65176"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:24:15","slug":"cansado-de-estar-soltero-consejos-para-disfrutar-de-la-solteria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cansado-de-estar-soltero-consejos-para-disfrutar-de-la-solteria\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCansado de ser soltero? 10 consejos para disfrutar de la solter\u00eda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Las bonitas fotos de parejas felices en las redes sociales, las pel\u00edculas rom\u00e1nticas y la presi\u00f3n de tus amigos \u00edntimos y familiares con respecto a tu situaci\u00f3n de soltero contribuyen a que te sientas cansado de ser soltero<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Hagas lo que hagas o vayas donde vayas, cada peque\u00f1a cosa empieza a recordarte tu solter\u00eda. Y te cansas de ello.<\/p>\n

Te cansas de todos esos recordatorios de mierda de que las \u00fanicas personas que son verdaderamente felices son las que tienen relaciones rom\u00e1nticas.<\/p>\n

And even though you know that’s not true, you still get irritated about your single life and you wish things were different.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

But I’ll tell you one thing: El estado civil no es una medida de la felicidad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just because you’re not in a relationship (yet), it doesn’t mean you should feel tired or lonely or excluded from society.<\/p>\n

The only reason why you’re still single at the moment is that you’re ought to be. Each person has their own unique path and being single is a part of your journey!<\/p>\n

Whenever you’re feeling tired of being single, here are 10 things to help you understand and embrace your single life:<\/p>\n

1. Don’t lose hope<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Toneladas de helado, sesiones de celos imaginarios hacia las parejas, sentirte solo y cansado de tu solter\u00eda<\/em>. This is probably how you’ve been feeling lately, right?<\/p>\n

And that’s more than okay! It’s totally fine to feel shitty from time to time, even when you have no valid reason for that.<\/p>\n

It’s totally okay to lose hope from time to time because you’re surrounded by all those happy couples and worried that you’ll never find the One.<\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

However, it’s not okay to feel like that every single day of your life. You shouldn’t lose hope no matter how shitty you feel about being single.<\/p>\n

Instead, you should open your eyes and realize that this is not a curse and you’re not missing anything in your life. Everything that happens in our life is in tune with time.<\/p>\n

Every single one of us has our own unique timeline and you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be at the moment!<\/p>\n

2. There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

We’re often unaware of this one but you know what they say: Todo sucede por una raz\u00f3n<\/strong><\/em><\/a>. Puedes negarlo, ignorarlo y no creer en ello, pero seguir\u00e1 siendo cierto.<\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason why you’re single at the moment and those reasons vary from working on yourself to focusing on your career.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you’ve neglected your passions, which made you feel like you’re missing something in your life.<\/p>\n

All these things can make you feel unfulfilled to the extent of thinking that the only reason why you’re feeling the way you’re feeling is because you’re still single.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1s convencido de que, cuando conozcas a tu media naranja, por fin te sentir\u00e1s libre y completo.<\/p>\n

S\u00ed, lo har\u00e1s, pero s\u00f3lo cuando t\u00fa mismo ya est\u00e9s completo sin ellos.<\/p>\n

Being single is the right time to address all your issues and work on yourself because the only time you’ll be able to love others and be in a happy relationship is when you learn to love yourself first!<\/p>\n

3. It\u2019s better to be single than with the wrong person<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

One of my good friends recently complained to me that she\u2019ll never meet a buen chico<\/a> porque todos los chicos buenos probablemente ya est\u00e1n cogidos.<\/p>\n

Por eso, est\u00e1 convencida de que acabar\u00e1 teniendo una relaci\u00f3n con una persona de mierda.<\/p>\n

Y mi respuesta fue: Why do you even worry about that? Remember that it’s better to be single than with the wrong person!<\/em><\/p>\n

Las personas que est\u00e1n cansadas de estar solteras a menudo olvidan el hecho de que estar soltero es diez veces mejor que estar con la persona equivocada.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfY qu\u00e9 si todo el mundo a tu alrededor tiene a alguien? \u00bfY qu\u00e9 si todos tus amigos y familiares tienen una relaci\u00f3n feliz o est\u00e1n casados?<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you won’t meet your special one someday and this doesn’t mean you should enter a relationship with just anyone just for the title of being in a relationship.<\/p>\n

It’s better to be single and happy than miserable in a relationship.<\/p>\n

4. En lugar de estresarte por salir con otros, empieza a salir contigo mismo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

If you’re tired of being single but also tired of dating, you shouldn’t force yourself. Instead, you should start dating yourself!<\/p>\n

Now, you’re probably wondering how one can date themselves when dating is a concept that includes two people. Well, it’s not (I mean, not necessarily).<\/p>\n

Puedes salir contigo mismo igual que sales con los dem\u00e1s, pero lo haces solo.<\/p>\n

Este es tambi\u00e9n un aspecto importante de tu salud mental, porque salir contigo mismo significa aprender a amar el tiempo que pasas contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Puedes ir a un restaurante, al cine, a tomar algo, de paseo o de picnic contigo mismo. En lugar de estresarte por salir con otros, deber\u00edas hacer cosas contigo mismo.<\/p>\n

Pasar tiempo a solas y hacer cosas a solas tambi\u00e9n son partes importantes del autocuidado.<\/p>\n

Once you learn to enjoy spending time with yourself, you’ll never even think about dating others (at least, for the time being).<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t lower your standards when meeting new people<\/h2>\n

\"amigos<\/p>\n

Even if you’re not feeling stressed out about dating, you still need to remember one thing and that is: Nunca bajes el list\u00f3n, pase lo que pase.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si crees que la \u00fanica forma de conocer a gente con la que tener una relaci\u00f3n es bajando el list\u00f3n, pi\u00e9nsatelo otra vez.<\/p>\n

Maybe this will help you to enter a relationship but will you be truly happy once you lower your standards? I don’t think so.<\/p>\n

You’re probably familiar with the existing and new dating apps like Tinder that have made online dating a must if you\u2019re single (but have also increased the chances of meeting toxic people).<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

When going on a date for the first time with someone you just met, keep in mind to preserve your standard levels. Don’t find excuses for their shitty behavior or personality.<\/p>\n

Por muy molestas que sean las primeras citas, bajar el list\u00f3n es una receta segura para el desastre. Algunos de los mejores consejos sobre citas para todos los solteros son los siguientes:<\/p>\n

Stay consistent with yourself and maintain your standards because that’s the only sure path to true happiness!<\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Qu\u00e9date soltero hasta que consigas estos 10 objetivos vitales<\/a><\/p>\n

6. Aprender a disfrutar de tu propia compa\u00f1\u00eda es la receta para no sentirte solo<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Being alone and feeling lonely have become two interconnected terms lately but they don’t really have to be. Being alone has nothing to do with sentirse solo<\/a> \u00a1y todo est\u00e1 en tu cabeza!<\/p>\n

Just because you\u2019re a single woman or man, this doesn\u2019t mean you should feel lonely.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, the reason why you’re feeling lonely is that you haven’t learned to enjoy spending time with yourself.<\/p>\n

That’s why you’re convinced that the only way to not feel lonely is to be with someone in a relationship. But the truth is otherwise.<\/p>\n

El amor propio es la fuerza m\u00e1s poderosa del universo y un asesino de la soledad.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Once you learn to love yourself and enjoy your own company, you’ll see that all this time, the key to happiness was buried within you.<\/p>\n

You will no longer feel this void in your soul and you’ll understand that it is possible to be alone and not to feel lonely. After all, every single one of us came into the world alone.<\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that we don’t need any other human being but it means that we’re perfectly capable of doing things on our own and enjoying our own company.<\/p>\n

Significa que tenemos la capacidad de ser felices mientras esperamos lo correcto.<\/p>\n

7. Expresa tus pasiones y pasa tiempo con las personas adecuadas<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

Otro asesino de la soledad es la pasi\u00f3n. Aprender a expresar tus pasiones te ayudar\u00e1 a sintonizar contigo mismo y a olvidarte de tu solter\u00eda.<\/p>\n

Instead of only watching Netflix, now is the time to work on expressing yourself. It\u2019s time to ask yourself what it is that makes you feel alive and happy.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1les son las actividades que llenan tu coraz\u00f3n de calor e inspiraci\u00f3n? \u00bfLe gusta dibujar, cantar, cocinar, bailar o crear arte?<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Whatever it is, if it’s something that makes you happy while doing it, then it’s your passion and you should focus on doing it as much as you can.<\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, debes pasar tiempo con las personas adecuadas; con las que te quieren y te comprenden.<\/p>\n

Instead of only focusing on what’s missing in your life, focus on embracing what you already have!<\/p>\n

8. Encuentra el lado positivo de tu vida<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Cada vez que pienso en el positivismo, recuerdo inmediatamente esta poderosa cita de The Silver Linings Playbook de Matthew Quick<\/em>:<\/p>\n

“You know what? EXCELSIOR, EXCELSIOR! It means you know what I’m gonna do, I’m gonna take all this negativity and use it as fuel and I’m gonna find a silver lining, that\u2019s what I’m gonna do. And that’s no bullshit. That’s no bullshit. That takes work and that’s the truth.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Encontrar un resquicio de esperanza significa encontrar un aspecto positivo en cada situaci\u00f3n. As\u00ed que utiliza todo ese cansancio de la solter\u00eda como combustible para encontrar un lado positivo.<\/p>\n

I also suggest watching this amazing movie or reading the book (if you haven’t yet).<\/p>\n

9. En lugar de centrarse en encontrar al Elegido<\/a>centrarse en vivir el momento<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Vivir el momento es una de las cosas m\u00e1s inspiradoras que puedes hacer por ti mismo y por los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Instead of focusing on chasing what you don’t have (yet), focus on living in the moment and appreciating what’s in front of you.<\/p>\n

Life is a miracle. Just because you’re still single, this doesn’t mean you should feel less worthy or you should be persistent in finding the One at any cost.<\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

La vida es un verdadero milagro y vivir el momento es la \u00fanica manera de vivir la vida al m\u00e1ximo.<\/p>\n

After a year or more, you’ll laugh to yourself at all the things that bothered you now.<\/p>\n

You’ll realize that being single and disfrutar de la vida<\/a> es uno de los mayores regalos, \u00a1si lo aceptas como tal!<\/p>\n

10. Ten paciencia<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

And the most important tip: Stay patient! Remember what we said about the timeline and that everything happens for a reason? Keep that one in mind because it’s the only truth.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you’re tired of being single, you need to stay patient!<\/p>\n

If you do things on impulse, you’ll risk being unhappy. But if you stay patient, time will reward you.<\/p>\n

Recuerda que lo bueno se hace esperar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

No matter how clich\u00e9d it sounds, your love life will flourish and you\u2019ll find your loved one when you least expect it.<\/p>\n

You cannot know when it will happen or how but you know that it will. And when it does, you’ll be happy that you waited. So, wait and believe!<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: 11 razones por las que soy feliz siendo soltera (y por las que t\u00fa tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edas serlo)<\/a><\/p>\n

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