{"id":65480,"date":"2020-04-27T11:56:44","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T11:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=65480"},"modified":"2022-11-22T11:57:13","modified_gmt":"2022-11-22T11:57:13","slug":"que-significa-que-un-chico-te-ignore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/que-significa-que-un-chico-te-ignore\/","title":{"rendered":"Qu\u00e9 significa que un chico te ignore y 5 cosas que debes hacer al respecto"},"content":{"rendered":"

We’ve all been there: You like a guy, it appears that he likes you back, and everything is going perfectly. <\/span><\/p>\n

Then all of a sudden, it’s like he starts avoiding you without any specific reason.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando un <\/span>el tipo te ignora<\/span>, it doesn’t have to necessarily mean that he’s totally ghosted you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe he hasn\u2019t disappeared from your life, but you notice that something is off.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

He hasn\u2019t dumped you, but he\u2019s not <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> como \u00e9l tampoco. <\/span><\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t calling you out on dates and doesn’t show any initiative whatsoever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Incluso cuando intentas acercarte a \u00e9l, te da la <\/span>hombro fr\u00edo<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Le escribes p\u00e1rrafos y todo lo que obtienes son respuestas cortas, como OK, <\/span>LOL,<\/span> o una cara sonriente.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

On one hand, you don’t want to be too pushy. One the other, you also need answers. So, what is the right thing to do?<\/span><\/p>\n

Pues bien, para afrontar correctamente esta situaci\u00f3n, en primer lugar hay que entender qu\u00e9 significa que un <\/span>el tipo te ignora<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He\u2019s lost interest<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

The worst thing about a guy ignoring you is the fact that he hasn\u2019t been like this since day one.<\/span><\/p>\n

De hecho, cuando se reuni\u00f3 con \u00e9l para <\/span>la primera vez<\/span> y al principio de vuestra relaci\u00f3n de noviazgo, este hombre segu\u00eda <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> y llam\u00e1ndote todo el tiempo.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Una noche, todo fue sobre ruedas y el <\/span>d\u00eda siguiente<\/span>se detuvo <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> usted, dej\u00f3 de responder a su <\/span>mensajes de texto,<\/span> e incluso empez\u00f3 a ignorarte en <\/span>redes sociales<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Now that he\u2019s suddenly changed, you don\u2019t know what to think. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break it to you, but there is a possibility that he\u2019s simply <\/span>perdido inter\u00e9s<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez s\u00f3lo intentaba meterse en tus pantalones y cuando consigui\u00f3 arrastrarte a la cama, ya no ocupas el <\/span>primer puesto<\/span> en su vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Or maybe he\u2019s realized that he\u2019s won you over and got into your heart, so you\u2019ve become instantly boring.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It is also possible that he\u2019s simply stopped liking you, without any <\/span>verdadera raz\u00f3n<\/span>. He was so into you at first, but as time went on, he saw that you\u2019re not the one for him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that hearing this hurts. However, you need to remember that he didn\u2019t make any vows and he didn\u2019t guarantee that he\u2019ll love you for the rest of your life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He thinks you\u2019re needy<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Otro <\/span>verdadera raz\u00f3n<\/span> un tipo puede estar d\u00e1ndote la <\/span>hombro fr\u00edo<\/span> es<\/span> su <\/span>comportamiento apegado<\/span><\/a>. You\u2019re head over heels for this man and you want to spend every second of your free time with him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Whenever you two aren\u2019t together, you have the need to text him or talk to him over the phone. But there\u2019s a great chance that all of it has become too much for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Instead of growing even fonder of you, you chased him away. Now that he\u2019s gotten the impression that you\u2019re too available, he thinks of you as desperate.<\/span><\/p>\n

This man is also scared that you\u2019re trying to cage him, so he has no other option but to ignore you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Adem\u00e1s, ten en cuenta que no todo el mundo tiene los mismos est\u00e1ndares en lo que se refiere a la cantidad de comunicaci\u00f3n en una relaci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

For him, it might be enough to talk to you fewer times a week and you\u2019re suffocating him when you want more.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s seeing someone else<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He aqu\u00ed otra cruda verdad: en la mayor\u00eda de los casos, cuando un hombre no te presta suficiente atenci\u00f3n, significa que otra persona la est\u00e1 recibiendo en su lugar.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Si no tiene <\/span>gran inter\u00e9s<\/span> en ti, lo m\u00e1s probable es que est\u00e9 interesado en otra persona.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The fact is that this guy might be with another girl behind your back, so he doesn\u2019t have enough time to keep in touch with you the way he used to.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

La cuesti\u00f3n importante aqu\u00ed es si <\/span>vosotros dos sois exclusivos<\/span><\/a> or you\u2019re just in the <\/span>fases iniciales<\/span> de las citas. Si la primera hip\u00f3tesis es cierta, se trata sin duda de enga\u00f1o.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you haven\u2019t labelled things yet, I hate to break it to you, but he has the right to explore other options.<\/span><\/p>\n

It is up to you to decide whether this is something you\u2019ll accept and patiently wait for him to choose you, or realize that <\/span>it’s time to move on<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that he is in a committed relationship with another girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

Puede que haya conocido a alguien nuevo y est\u00e9 en el <\/span>fases iniciales<\/span> de conocerla, pero se niega a cortar todos los lazos contigo hasta que est\u00e9 seguro de que tiene una oportunidad con este nuevo proyecto.<\/span><\/p>\n

En <\/span>lo \u00faltimo<\/span> lo que quiere es que le dejen colgado en ambos lados.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

O incluso puede que piense que es capaz de hacer malabarismos con los dos a la vez.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

En cualquier caso, es algo que deber\u00edas plantearte.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Quiere jugar<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

This one is pretty common as well: The man we\u2019re talking about is <\/span>jugar a juegos de citas<\/span><\/a> with you in the hopes that you\u2019ll fall even harder for him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando alguien te ignora sin motivo<\/span>, they know you\u2019ll think about him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll spend a lot of time trying to dissect his intentions (which you\u2019re doing at this moment), so he\u2019ll be present in your heart and mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Besides, this approach helps him test your feelings. He wants to see whether you\u2019ll be completely indifferent toward his behavior or fight for his love and intention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Another thing he is trying to get to the bottom of is your personality. He wants to figure out whether he can manipulate you easily or you\u2019re the type of girl who won\u2019t fall for his games.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

5. He doesn\u2019t know what he wants<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a strong, grown up woman who never has doubts about who and what you want in your <\/span>propia vida<\/span>. Sin embargo, no todo el mundo es como t\u00fa.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Tienes que enfrentarte al hecho de que hay algunos hombres por ah\u00ed que son ni\u00f1os inmaduros, a pesar de su edad. Y puede que tu novio sea uno de ellos.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Este <\/span>el tipo te ignora<\/span> because he doesn\u2019t have a clue what he wants from his <\/span>propia vida<\/span> y actuando as\u00ed, est\u00e1 ganando tiempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

He made some promises he can\u2019t keep, so now he chickened out and expects everything to be magically solved.<\/span><\/p>\n

O tal vez \u00e9l es en realidad <\/span>enamorarse<\/span> contigo pero tiene miedo de sus emociones?<\/span><\/p>\n

Cuando un chico te ignora pero le gustas<\/span><\/a>en realidad te est\u00e1 alejando de \u00e9l antes de dejarte entrar completamente en su coraz\u00f3n.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Either way, he can\u2019t choose between being in a committed relationship with you and living the life of a bachelor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Aunque <\/span>quiere romper<\/span><\/a> with you, he doesn\u2019t have the courage to do it face to face.<\/span><\/p>\n

He is the kind of guy who doesn\u2019t know how to take charge and responsibility for his actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

Es demasiado d\u00e9bil para tomar decisiones y, en su lugar, se deja llevar por la corriente y espera a ver ad\u00f3nde le lleva.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s up to you to see whether you\u2019re ready to waste any more of your precious time on someone who can\u2019t make up his mind about you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s really busy<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re <\/span>enamorarse<\/span>, it\u2019s perfectly natural to go through different scenarios in your head. <\/span><\/p>\n

You overthink all the possibilities and in most cases, you\u2019re pessimistic about everything that\u2019s going on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Pero quiero que sepas que realmente existe la posibilidad de que este tipo est\u00e9 demasiado ocupado en este momento.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"dos<\/p>\n

Maybe he has a lot on his mind or is stressed out because of work, school, friends, or family, so he simply doesn\u2019t have time to reach out to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Por supuesto, esto no es excusa si esto no es <\/span>la primera vez<\/span> algo as\u00ed ha sucedido.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing if a <\/span>el tipo te ignora<\/span> durante un tiempo y completamente diferente si tiene la costumbre de hacerlo sin darte una explicaci\u00f3n adecuada.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

7. It\u2019s something you did<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

I know that you would like to hear that this situation is entirely your boyfriend\u2019s fault. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sin embargo, \u00bfha considerado alguna vez otra posibilidad?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfExiste la m\u00e1s m\u00ednima posibilidad de que hayas hecho algo para provocar su comportamiento? <\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe you hurt him or insulted him, or he\u2019s paying you back for ignoring him in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, aunque as\u00ed sea, no es la manera de resolver sus problemas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si le molesta algo que has hecho o dicho, deber\u00eda tom\u00e1rselo como un adulto y hablar las cosas.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Passive-aggressive behavior and silent treatment won\u2019t bring any good. Besides, they can be signs of this guy\u2019s immaturity and his inability to face his problems.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. He\u2019s just not that into you<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest. If you want to have someone in your life, you\u2019ll do everything in your power to keep him there. So, why do you think that men are any different?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If a guy is truly in love with you, he\u2019ll always make time to reach out. <\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll never be too busy to see you. He\u2019ll never leave you hanging and wondering what went wrong.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Todo lo dem\u00e1s son excusas vac\u00edas y <\/span>signo inequ\u00edvoco<\/span> that you’re not as important to him as he is to you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Therefore, it\u2019s time to face the bitter reality: This guy is just not that into you. <\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, it\u2019s totally irrelevant if he lost interest along the way, never had any <\/span>gran inter\u00e9s<\/span>...est\u00e1 jugando, etc\u00e9tera.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

La conclusi\u00f3n es que <\/span>he doesn\u2019t care<\/span><\/a> suficiente. <\/span><\/p>\n

He is attracted to you and he likes you in some way, but you don\u2019t take <\/span>primer puesto<\/span> in his life and that\u2019s something you\u2019ll just have to figure out <\/span>c\u00f3mo actuar<\/span> con.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e9ase tambi\u00e9n: Cu\u00e1l es la mejor respuesta cuando alguien te ignora: 88 ejemplos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

5 cosas que hacer cuando un chico te ignora<\/h2>\n

1. Replantea tu relaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Antes de averiguar <\/span>c\u00f3mo actuar<\/span> con un chico que te ignora, en primer lugar tienes que reconsiderar toda tu relaci\u00f3n e intentar averiguar por qu\u00e9 est\u00e1 ocurriendo todo esto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t make a scene and a big fuss about him giving you the <\/span>hombro fr\u00edo<\/span> if you conclude that he\u2019s just been too busy and this hasn\u2019t been going on for long.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

La segunda cuesti\u00f3n es si merece la pena. \u00bfEs alguien por quien quieres luchar o simplemente lo dejar\u00e1s en paz y te dar\u00e1s cuenta... <\/span>it’s time to move on<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

\u00bfTe ves a su lado en el <\/span>futuro pr\u00f3ximo<\/span> or know you wouldn’t miss him the <\/span>d\u00eda siguiente<\/span> after he’s gone? <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfExisten algunas <\/span>se\u00f1ales claras<\/span> que vuestra relaci\u00f3n podr\u00eda funcionar?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfHas hecho algo que haya provocado su comportamiento? \u00bfO est\u00e1 actuando as\u00ed de la nada?<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, it\u2019s important to be honest about why you\u2019re upset that he\u2019s ignoring you. Is this your ego talking or do you really care for him?<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Cambie de medio de comunicaci\u00f3n<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

After you\u2019ve answered all of your questions and decided that you want to make peace with this man, it\u2019s time to take action.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seg\u00fan la mayor\u00eda <\/span>consejos de citas<\/span>lo primero que deber\u00edas hacer es replantearte cambiar de medio de comunicaci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> todo el tiempo sin obtener una respuesta adecuada, \u00bfes posible que no sea un gran fan de <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span>? <\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez ser\u00eda mejor que intentaras hacer un <\/span>llamada telef\u00f3nica<\/span> y hablando con \u00e9l.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

On the other hand, if it\u2019s the other way around, keep in mind that some <\/span>chicos t\u00edmidos<\/span><\/a> don’t like <\/span>llamadas telef\u00f3nicas<\/span>sobre todo al principio de una relaci\u00f3n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tal vez prefiere <\/span>mensajes de texto<\/span> because it gives him more time to think about what he\u2019ll write.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Si nada de esto funciona, intente llamar a esto <\/span>chico t\u00edmido<\/span> a una cita y comprobar su <\/span>lenguaje corporal<\/span> se\u00f1ales. Algunas personas funcionan mucho mejor cara a cara.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t be too pushy\u2026<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Decidas lo que decidas hacer, lo importante aqu\u00ed es no ser demasiado insistente. S\u00e9 que quieres llegar al fondo del asunto, pero la contundencia no es el camino.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you pressure him too hard, you\u2019ll just get a counterproductive effect. You\u2019ll send him a message that you\u2019re a girl with <\/span>autoestima<\/span> problemas que ans\u00eda su atenci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll assume that he can treat you the way he wants, without you doing anything about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll appear desperate, <\/span>necesitado<\/span><\/a>y demasiado obsesionado con tu <\/span>vida amorosa,<\/span> y que es el <\/span>lo \u00faltimo<\/span> a cualquier chico le gusta.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es darle tiempo. Por mucho que quieras respuestas, intenta que sea \u00e9l quien se ponga en contacto contigo primero.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, he\u2019s the one who started this ignoring practice, so it\u2019s up to him to make the <\/span>primer paso<\/span>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to be careful about your reaction when he finally does reach out. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t act like you\u2019ve been dying to hear from him or that you\u2019ve spent all of this time patiently waiting for him to have the decency to call you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, don\u2019t <\/span>jugar<\/span> either. That way, you\u2019ll both end up trapped in a never-ending circle of manipulation, mixed signals, and chaos.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

4. \u2026but call him out on his actions<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Sin embargo, todos <\/span>consejos de citas<\/span> te dir\u00e1 que definitivamente llames a este tipo por sus acciones. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pretend that you haven\u2019t noticed his behavior just because you want to appear like a tough, <\/span>chica sin coraz\u00f3n<\/span><\/a> who can\u2019t be harmed so easily.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a part of this relationship and you have the right to demand some explanations.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Show him that you know your worth and expect the same from him. Be direct and ask him to tell you what\u2019s wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

That said, don\u2019t make a drama about it. Try having a mature, productive conversation that will help you resolve your dilemmas.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Mantente ocupado<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Por \u00faltimo, lo m\u00e1s importante que debe hacer cuando un <\/span>el tipo te ignora<\/span> es no poner toda tu atenci\u00f3n s\u00f3lo en esa situaci\u00f3n.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If you do, you\u2019ll fall into despair and won\u2019t be able to stop yourself from contacting him. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll lose control over your emotions and might end up doing some things you\u2019ll regret later on.<\/span><\/p>\n

As\u00ed que, en lugar de dejar toda tu vida en suspenso mientras esperas a que \u00e9l te tienda la mano o <\/span>decidirse<\/span><\/a>Mantente ocupado.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Utiliza este periodo de no contacto para trabajar en tu <\/span>autoestima<\/span> y date cuenta de que ning\u00fan hombre es digno de tus l\u00e1grimas.<\/span><\/p>\n

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