{"id":6701,"date":"2020-02-12T10:33:49","date_gmt":"2020-02-12T10:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6701"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:12:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:12:45","slug":"8-razones-que-provocan-el-fin-de-una-relacion-duradera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-razones-que-provocan-el-fin-de-una-relacion-duradera\/","title":{"rendered":"8 razones que provocan el fin de una relaci\u00f3n duradera"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\"\u00bfPor qu\u00e9 tantas relaciones duraderas acaban en ruptura?\" \"\u00bfEs por el tiempo, porque duraron tanto?\" \"\u00bfC\u00f3mo se puede desamar a alguien a quien se ama?\".<\/p>\n<p>These questions puzzled me as I saw so many long-term relationships ending and so few of them succeeding. I couldn&#8217;t help but investigate why. I had long and thorough conversations. These are the reasons I got:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">El amor se convirti\u00f3 en costumbre.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108224\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373.jpg\" alt=\"La chica le susurra algo al o\u00eddo al joven\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Girl-whispers-something-in-the-ear-of-young-man-e1603883845373-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You just get used to that person and can&#8217;t imagine not having them around. Love just faded away like it did to some of the old married couples.<\/p>\n<p>De repente te das cuenta de que te quedas porque ya has dedicado demasiado tiempo y esfuerzo a esa persona.<\/p>\n<p>Has compartido mucho. Te asustan los cambios, as\u00ed que te quedas. Pero llega un momento en que tienes que decidir si quieres pasar el resto de tu vida con alguien a quien est\u00e1s acostumbrado.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Love vs. &#8216;In love&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-108226\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178.jpg\" alt=\"Una pareja de enamorados est\u00e1 sentada en el tejado de la casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Loving-couple-is-sitting-on-the-roof-of-the-house-e1603883933178-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Cuando dos personas <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/10-difference-love-someone-loving-someone\/795160\" rel=\"noopener\">se aman pero olvidan c\u00f3mo estar enamorados.<\/a> You know they are good\u2014they are worth it, part of you doesn&#8217;t want it to end, but it&#8217;s just not working.<\/p>\n<p>You love them as you love your family but nothing more. The passion is gone and you don&#8217;t want to continue without it.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Empezar demasiado joven.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108227\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483.jpg\" alt=\"chica guapa cerca del lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/beautiful-girl-near-the-lake-e1603884037483-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t know who you are when you are alone because you spent most of your adult life with that person and you are starting to miss you. You feel lost and trapped.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cambiando.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108228\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464.jpg\" alt=\"una joven y un hombre sentados uno frente al otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-girl-and-a-man-sitting-facing-away-from-each-other-e1603884122464-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You outgrow one another in every sense of the word. You simply become incompatible because you are not the same person you were when you started the relationship. You want different things now and it just doesn&#8217;t seem like you are on the same page anymore.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Falta de compromiso.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108229\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338.jpg\" alt=\"joven pareja en conflicto en el parque\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/young-couple-being-in-a-conflict-in-the-park-e1603884165338-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Over the course of the years, people change and they fight a lot because of it. When the relationship feels more like the war zone and you are never at ease, it&#8217;s time to leave.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Presi\u00f3n familiar.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108238\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544.jpg\" alt=\"Una pareja joven visita a su madre anciana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-couple-visited-elderly-mother-e1603884499544-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The person you are with becomes an integral part of your family\u2014they attend family reunions, weddings, they go out on a casual coffee get together.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s generally a good thing. But if the only reason you are staying in a relationship is not to disappoint your family members, you are not doing anyone a favor. That&#8217;s not the right reason to be in a relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Hacer trampas.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668.jpg\" alt=\"mujer triste porque su amante la ignora\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/woman-sad-because-of-her-lover-is-ignoring-her-e1603884366668-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Simplemente se enamoraron de otra persona y fueron lo suficientemente ego\u00edstas como para analizarlo antes de poner fin a una relaci\u00f3n en la que ya estaban. O quer\u00edan seguir en una relaci\u00f3n y tener a alguien al lado.<\/p>\n<p>So disrespectful. But it&#8217;s better to end a long-term relationship than to get married, have kids, and than realize what is happening.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">M\u00e1scaras abajo.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108231\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950.jpg\" alt=\"Mujer joven y solitaria en un banco del parque\" width=\"799\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950.jpg 799w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Young-lonely-woman-on-bench-in-park-e1603884307950-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 799px) 100vw, 799px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La gente se cansa de fingir, as\u00ed que en alg\u00fan momento sale lo peor de ellos. Hay todo tipo de casos, desde abusos f\u00edsicos a mentales de cualquier tipo.<\/p>\n<p>Deber\u00edas estar agradecido de que revelaran su verdadera cara, por mucho que les costara, y dar gracias a Dios por haberte librado de ellos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108435\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"8 razones que provocan el fin de una relaci\u00f3n duradera\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Why do so many long-term relationships end in breakup?\u2019 \u2018Is it because of time, because they lasted for so long?\u2019 \u2018How can you unlove somebody you love?\u2019 These questions puzzled me as I saw so many long-term relationships ending and so few of them succeeding. I couldn&#8217;t help but investigate why. I had long and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":108239,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6701","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/8-Reasons-That-Cause-A-Long-Term-Relationship-To-End.jpg",1000,645,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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