{"id":67022,"date":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-05T14:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67022"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:26:07","slug":"cosas-que-aterrorizan-a-los-hombres-en-una-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-aterrorizan-a-los-hombres-en-una-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cosas que aterrorizan a los hombres en una relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Todos los hombres tienen ciertos temores a la hora de relacionarse, aunque no siempre est\u00e9n dispuestos a admitirlos.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes they\u2019re not even aware of the exact reason they are blocked from moving on further in their relationships, but they can feel there\u2019s something stopping them from committing to one girl.<\/p>\n<p>Echa un vistazo a estas diez cosas que asustan a los hombres tan profundamente, que podr\u00edan no estar dispuestos a buscar relaciones verdaderas en absoluto.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Perderse<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67026\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sits-near-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado cerca de la ventana con ropa formal de oficina\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sits-near-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sits-near-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-sits-near-the-window-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, relationships take a lot of our free time.<\/p>\n<p>Los hombres temen que, al pasar mucho tiempo con sus novias, no tengan tiempo suficiente para dedicarse a sus aficiones e intereses.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00eda a d\u00eda, esto puede dar lugar (en sus mentes) a perderse por completo. B\u00e1sicamente, tienen miedo de que su relaci\u00f3n con una chica se convierta en la mayor parte de su personalidad.<\/p>\n<h2>2. No respetar el c\u00f3digo de los hermanos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67027\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-guys-with-bro-code.jpg\" alt=\"dos chicos con codigo de hermano llevando y bebiendo botellas en una fiesta de barbacoa\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-guys-with-bro-code.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-guys-with-bro-code-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-guys-with-bro-code-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/two-guys-with-bro-code-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto es importante. Los chicos tienen una reputaci\u00f3n que mantener. Una de las reglas m\u00e1s importantes del c\u00f3digo de los hermanos es que los chicos deben elegir a sus amigos antes que a las chicas en todo momento.<\/p>\n<p>When one particular girl becomes important to them and they actually prefer spending time with her over his buddies, this doesn\u2019t go unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p>His friends will begin calling him out for this, and even though they\u2019re probably only joking and messing with him, he still might be scared of what they actually think of him now.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Compromiso y apego emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67030\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-a-picture.png\" alt=\"hombre mirando una foto con vino y cigarrillo en la mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-a-picture.png 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-a-picture-300x202.png 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-a-picture-768x516.png 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-looking-at-a-picture-760x510.png 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some guys are incredibly afraid of commitment. Even those who aren\u2019t in the red zone of commitment fears aren\u2019t completely insensitive to this one.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen miedo de comprometerse con cualquier chica y encari\u00f1arse emocionalmente. Este miedo conecta con el miedo a salir herido al final.<\/p>\n<p>This is the strongest in those men who have been hurt in the past and don\u2019t want to go through the same again.<\/p>\n<p>They prefer having many relationships in which they don\u2019t have the time to get overly connected to the girl, and therefore lower their chances of getting their heartbroken.<\/p>\n<h2>4.(Perder contra) la competencia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67035\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-holding-his-head.jpg\" alt=\"hombre triste con la cabeza apoyada en el cristal de la ventana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-holding-his-head.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-holding-his-head-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sad-man-holding-his-head-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men are afraid of rejection. They are even more afraid of rejection that\u2019s connected to the girl picking someone else over them.<\/p>\n<p>This \u201ccompetition\u201d they are afraid of maybe completely fictional and have nothing to do with reality.<\/p>\n<p>Their jealousy and insecurities might get them to think a girl is choosing others over him, and this scares them \u2013 a lot.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Moverse demasiado lento o demasiado r\u00e1pido<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-68641\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-near-the-garden.jpg\" alt=\"hombre sentado cerca del jard\u00edn mirando fijamente a una mujer borrosamente alejada de \u00e9l\" width=\"800\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-near-the-garden.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-near-the-garden-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/man-sitting-near-the-garden-768x492.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Moving too slow may cause a guy to wonder if he\u2019s good enough. He may start having doubts whether the girl simply doesn\u2019t like him enough to move forward in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>En cuanto a lo de ir demasiado r\u00e1pido, suele deberse a que no est\u00e1n preparados para comprometerse o pasar al siguiente nivel de la relaci\u00f3n (mudarse, intercambiar las llaves de casa, casarse).<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cwhere is this relationship going\u201d talk freaks them out and they aren\u2019t ready for it to go anywhere.<\/p>\n<h2>6. No le gustan sus amigos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67045\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/four-people-having-tea.jpg\" alt=\"cuatro personas tomando t\u00e9 o caf\u00e9 dentro de un comedor\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/four-people-having-tea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/four-people-having-tea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/four-people-having-tea-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Men are afraid of their girlfriends having friends they don\u2019t like. The truth is, each one of us is tied to our friends, sometimes even more than family.<\/p>\n<p>Acudimos a ellos en busca de consejo, empezamos a comportarnos como ellos y compartimos con ellos muchos intereses y comportamientos.<\/p>\n<p>If he doesn\u2019t like the girl\u2019s friends, he might be afraid that she is a different kind of person then he imagined her to be, or might turn into one of those people he dislikes.<\/p>\n<h2>7. No tener intereses comunes<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67049\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-2.jpg\" alt=\"discutiendo hombre y mujer en fondo de pared de color rosa y azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-2-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-2-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/arguing-man-and-woman-2-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Los chicos tienen miedo de no tener nada de qu\u00e9 hablar con las chicas o de no tener nada que hacer juntos.<\/p>\n<p>If a girl\u2019s interests are way too different from his, he will immediately imagine having no ways to spend his time with her.<\/p>\n<p>A guy also afraid of getting pushed to pursue her interests instead of his \u2013 something no guy wants to do.<\/p>\n<h2>8. La relaci\u00f3n se desmorona<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67052\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/devastated-man-and-woman.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer devastados llorando y poco distantes el uno del otro\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/devastated-man-and-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/devastated-man-and-woman-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/devastated-man-and-woman-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/devastated-man-and-woman-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>El tiempo pasa. La relaci\u00f3n que una vez fue estupenda resulta imposible de continuar. Se hace da\u00f1o.<\/p>\n<p>Yup, that\u2019s right, it all basically ties to guys\u2019 fear of being hurt in the end. They hate the thought of investing themselves and their emotions into something that\u2019s going to go to waste.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Conocer a sus padres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67054\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-facing-parents.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer frente a los padres dentro de la casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-facing-parents.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-facing-parents-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-facing-parents-768x516.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-facing-parents-760x510.jpg 760w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This one is obvious. They are afraid of meeting the girl\u2019s parents. There\u2019s this pressure to impress the girl\u2019s friends and family, but most importantly parents.<\/p>\n<p>They are scared that they won\u2019t come off great and that the girl\u2019s parents dislike of them will mean the girl will start to find faults in them too.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Cambiar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67059\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-man-with-bonnet.jpg\" alt=\"hombre barbudo con gorro mirando a trav\u00e9s de las ventanas redondas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-man-with-bonnet.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-man-with-bonnet-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/bearded-man-with-bonnet-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>En \u00faltima instancia, tienen miedo al cambio. Cada relaci\u00f3n trae cambios a tu vida, te des cuenta o no.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re not talking about girls trying to change guys on purpose, but rather the common course of every relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Some guys hate the thought of their lives being different then what they are. They have their little rituals and the ways they want to go through the day, and changing this doesn\u2019t seem appealing to them.<\/p>\n<p>Tienen que aceptar la idea de que el cambio es necesario y, de hecho, bueno para ellos, y encontrar a la chica por la que merece la pena cambiar de vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-67076\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"10 cosas que aterrorizan a los hombres en una relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are some common fears every guy has when it comes to relationships, even though they aren\u2019t always willing to admit them. Sometimes they\u2019re not even aware of the exact reason they are blocked from moving on further in their relationships, but they can feel there\u2019s something stopping them from committing to one girl. Take&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":67060,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/10-Things-Men-Are-Terrified-Of-When-In-A-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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