{"id":6746,"date":"2020-05-13T08:35:48","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T08:35:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6746"},"modified":"2022-01-21T11:45:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T11:45:47","slug":"no-culpes-a-las-llamadas-borracho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/no-culpes-a-las-llamadas-borracho\/","title":{"rendered":"No la culpes cuando te llame borracho"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>She would\u2019ve never called you sober. <\/b>She could never have made herself send you that text she just typed while she was sober. Her fingers write it, her heart desperately wants to send it, but her mind and her pride won&#8217;t let her do it.<\/p>\n<p>Whenever you cross her mind while she\u2019s sober, she successfully fights you. Each time you show up as an uninvited guest, she sees you off because she\u2019s strong enough while she\u2019s sober.<\/p>\n<p>Te empuja al fondo de su mente y te deja permanecer all\u00ed todo el tiempo que pueda retenerte.<\/p>\n<p><b>She fights you and she doesn\u2019t allow herself to feel you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>She doesn\u2019t allow her sober self to ever think of you. <\/b>She doesn\u2019t allow herself to feel you and she tries so hard to put you in the past where you actually belong.<\/p>\n<p>But once her sobriety leaves, once a few beers mixed with a few shots of tequila kick in, she can\u2019t be held responsible for her actions.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/chica-fuerte-largo\/\"><b>Ha sido demasiado fuerte durante demasiado tiempo<\/b>. &nbsp;<\/a>Ha luchado con u\u00f1as y dientes consigo misma, quiere no quererte, quiere olvidarte y s\u00f3lo quiere seguir adelante.<\/p>\n<p>Quiere vivir la vida que se merece, sin la carga de esperar a alguien que quiz\u00e1 nunca llegue. Pero todo esto se desvanece en cuanto su razonamiento se nubla un poco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brunette-sitting-at-the-table-and-holding-a-bottle-while-pouring-wine.jpg\" alt=\"morena sentada a la mesa y sosteniendo una botella mientras sirve vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brunette-sitting-at-the-table-and-holding-a-bottle-while-pouring-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brunette-sitting-at-the-table-and-holding-a-bottle-while-pouring-wine-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/brunette-sitting-at-the-table-and-holding-a-bottle-while-pouring-wine-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Porque s\u00ed,<b> once she isn\u2019t sober anymore, her mind arguments start.<\/b> Empieza a cuestionarse si su separaci\u00f3n fue una buena idea.<\/p>\n<p>She can\u2019t escape the feeling that she could\u2019ve done something more and that if she had, you two could\u2019ve made it work out.<\/p>\n<p>She starts questioning your words, like when you said that she wasn\u2019t the one for you or that you weren\u2019t good enough for her or that you two were not right for each other.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>If she wasn\u2019t the one for you, how come she was able to bring you to your knees?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If you weren\u2019t the one for her, how come she hates the idea of being free?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>If you weren\u2019t right for each other, why have you been through what you\u2019ve been through?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>All that she is sober, she stops being when she\u2019s drunk. <\/b>Deja de ser fuerte.<\/p>\n<p>She stops being rational. She starts listening to her heart and she dents her own pride. And then she\u2019s all yours again. And then you\u2019re more than present in her life.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se toma unas copas m\u00e1s para olvidarte, pero lo \u00fanico que olvida es su orgullo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-90497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/drunk-woman-in-bathroom-with-glass-of-wine.jpg\" alt=\"mujer borracha en el ba\u00f1o con un vaso de vino\" width=\"800\" height=\"544\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/drunk-woman-in-bathroom-with-glass-of-wine.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/drunk-woman-in-bathroom-with-glass-of-wine-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/drunk-woman-in-bathroom-with-glass-of-wine-768x522.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So when her drunk fingers and her drunk mind let her heart take the lead, when she calls you or texts you, she\u2019ll fight it as much as she can, but just in case she can\u2019t\u2026<\/p>\n<p>In case she calls you drunk, don\u2019t hold her responsible for it. Her love isn\u2019t water under the bridge yet.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00fan te siente, a\u00fan te desea y a\u00fan espera que no tenerte sea s\u00f3lo un mal sue\u00f1o que acabar\u00e1 en cualquier momento.<\/p>\n<p>When she calls you drunk, don\u2019t hold her responsible for it. You are the one responsible for all her pain, for all her sleepless nights, for all her unrequited love, so why should you blame her for one missed call or one unreturned message?<\/p>\n<p><b>You know, at the end of the day, no matter what happens, you have been been and you\u2019ll always be her everything\u2026 <\/b><\/p>\n<p>She might get up every morning ready to make the best of the day, she might make everything work for her, she might have other men falling at her feet, but you\u2019ll always be the one <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/8-cosas-que-hacer-cuando-bebes-y-marcas\/\">she calls when she\u2019s drunk<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-90493 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"No la culpes cuando te llame borracho\" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She would\u2019ve never called you sober. She could never have made herself send you that text she just typed while she was sober. Her fingers write it, her heart desperately wants to send it, but her mind and her pride won&#8217;t let her do it. Whenever you cross her mind while she\u2019s sober, she successfully&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":90494,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6746","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Don\u2019t-Blame-Her-When-She-Calls-You-Drunk.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6746","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6746"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6746\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}