{"id":67657,"date":"2020-05-06T16:13:05","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:13:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67657"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:08:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:08:50","slug":"el-bloqueo-puede-hacer-o-deshacer-la-relacion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/el-bloqueo-puede-hacer-o-deshacer-la-relacion\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3mo el bloqueo puede hacer o deshacer su relaci\u00f3n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>El distanciamiento social dificulta el mantenimiento de nuestras relaciones, \u00bfme equivoco?<\/p>\n<p>Nos introduce en un mundo totalmente distinto, en el que las necesidades, deseos y anhelos de cada uno de nosotros cambian de repente, lo que pone en jaque nuestra vida cotidiana.<\/p>\n<p>Nos da tiempo para cuestionarnos todo sobre nuestras vidas, especialmente nuestras relaciones.<\/p>\n<p>Hay ciertas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-lista-de-comprobacion-de-pareja-que-podria-hacer-o-deshacer-su-relacion\/\">cosas que pueden pasar y que pueden hacer o romper tu relaci\u00f3n<\/a>dependiendo de lo fuerte que fuera al principio.<\/p>\n<h2>Puedes encontrar formas m\u00e1s sanas de discutir o no<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67676 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados juntos junto a la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-together-1-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s be honest, lockdown will bring out the best and the worst in all of us. While arguing is usually a big part of every romantic relationship, there are only a few couples who actually do it right.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re living together, being together for too long and all the time will get you arguing even more. You\u2019ll both be on edge and every little thing will tick you off.<\/p>\n<p>A similar scenario happens if you don\u2019t live together and are suddenly constantly apart because of the lockdown. Not meeting up enough in person might also cause you to fight more.<\/p>\n<p>Encontrar la manera de resolver tus conflictos de forma inteligente y respetuosa har\u00e1 que tu relaci\u00f3n sea m\u00e1s fuerte.<\/p>\n<p>Si todas las peleas sacan lo peor de ti y te hacen golpear por debajo del cintur\u00f3n, es casi seguro que esta situaci\u00f3n romper\u00e1 vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<h2>Por fin podr\u00e1s resolver todos los problemas que estabas barriendo debajo de la alfombra o que te agobiaban<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67672 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados junto a la cama mientras el hombre sirve caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-beside-bed-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At the beginning of a relationship, things seem perfect. A little time into the relationship, you start recognizing some flaws of your partner and issues that you decide to keep silent about because you don\u2019t want to be pushy or too critical.<\/p>\n<p>A medida que la relaci\u00f3n avanza, esos problemas crecen o se acumulan muchos m\u00e1s peque\u00f1os hasta crear una cierta telara\u00f1a de la que parece demasiado complicado salir.<\/p>\n<p>Mientras est\u00e1is encerrados, puede que finalmente decid\u00e1is dedicar tiempo y energ\u00eda a intentar resolver todos estos problemas, lo que puede ayudaros a construir una conexi\u00f3n m\u00e1s fuerte y crear una base m\u00e1s s\u00f3lida para el futuro desarrollo de vuestra relaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n<p>If you or your partner can\u2019t find it in you to finally discuss everything that\u2019s been bugging you for a while then I\u2019m afraid you\u2019re going to get overwhelmed by them and your relationship won\u2019t be able to make it.<\/p>\n<h2>Puede que por fin tenga tiempo suficiente para hablar o que se d\u00e9 cuenta de que no tiene nada de qu\u00e9 hablar.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67674 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer sentados en la cama abrazados almohada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-sitting-on-the-bed-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vuestras vidas antes del distanciamiento social pueden haber sido muy ajetreadas y encontrar tiempo para el otro puede haber sido una tarea realmente dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora tienes tiempo de sobra para hacer todo lo que quer\u00edas, como abrazarte, sentarte en el sof\u00e1 o mantener largas conversaciones que duran toda la noche.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re apart, it can all boil down to talking about, well, anything and everything. Talking more will mean getting to know each other better.<\/p>\n<p>Por supuesto, esto profundizar\u00e1 vuestra conexi\u00f3n y os har\u00e1 m\u00e1s fuertes que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s only one problem here&#8230; What if there\u2019s nothing to talk about? You might realize you have very few similar interests, ideas or attitudes about life, or even very little interest to actually talk to your partner.<\/p>\n<p>If this doesn\u2019t break your relationship, I don\u2019t know what will.<\/p>\n<h2>You can realize how well-balanced your relationship is or realize you\u2019re doing all the work<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67678 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"mujer apoyando la cabeza en la cama durante el d\u00eda\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-resting-her-head-on-bed-768x518.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Esto se aplica sobre todo a las parejas que viven juntas. En la vida cotidiana, los dos vais a trabajar y nadie sabe cu\u00e1nto tiempo pas\u00e1is realmente trabajando y cu\u00e1ntas de sus quejas de cansancio son quejas por nada.<\/p>\n<p>Now, in lockdown, you\u2019re both likely working from home and can see just how much time your jobs actually take.<\/p>\n<p>Puede hacer que los dos miembros de la pareja se den cuenta de lo equilibrada que es su vida cotidiana y de si ambos realizan pr\u00e1cticamente la misma cantidad de trabajo (como las tareas dom\u00e9sticas).<\/p>\n<p>If you notice that your partner has been overly complaining about how drained they are from work while you thought you had it much easier at your job so were doing more at home, you\u2019ll start to grow resentment over all the household work they\u2019ve been letting you do for them all this time.<\/p>\n<h2>Pod\u00e9is profundizar en vuestra amistad o daros cuenta de que, para empezar, nunca fuisteis verdaderos amigos.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67682 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games.jpg\" alt=\"hombre y mujer jugando a videojuegos sentados en la cama\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/man-and-woman-playing-video-games-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Tener a todo el mundo en este estado desordenado en el que se encuentra actualmente puede hacer que aprecies m\u00e1s que nunca tener a tu pareja a tu lado.<\/p>\n<p>Sus palabras reconfortantes y sus abrazos cari\u00f1osos pueden marcar la diferencia entre caer en la desesperaci\u00f3n y sentirse positivo ante el desenlace.<\/p>\n<p>Pueden demostrarte lo buenos amigos que realmente son para ti y cu\u00e1nta de tu fuerza proviene de tenerlos en tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Por otro lado, si tener a tu pareja a tu lado no significa nada para ti y no puede hacer absolutamente nada para que te sientas mejor como cualquier amigo de verdad, puede hacer que te des cuenta de que vosotros dos ni siquiera formasteis vuestra relaci\u00f3n sobre la amistad y esto puede hacer que te cuestiones todo lo que tienes con ellos.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67689 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"C\u00f3mo el bloqueo puede hacer o deshacer su relaci\u00f3n\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social distancing makes it hard to maintain our relationships, am I right? It brings us into this whole different world of suddenly changed needs, wants and desires each of us has, putting a hold on our regular, everyday lives. It gives us time to question everything about our lives, especially our relationships. There are certain&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":67661,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/How-Lockdown-Can-Make-Or-Break-Your-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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