{"id":67795,"date":"2020-05-08T16:07:12","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T16:07:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=67795"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:15:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:15:36","slug":"practicar-el-distanciamiento-social","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/practicar-el-distanciamiento-social\/","title":{"rendered":"Practica el distanciamiento social con quienes nunca te merecieron de todos modos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mires donde mires, todo el mundo se\u00f1ala la importancia del distanciamiento social.<\/p>\n<p>They tell you that it\u2019s crucial for you to keep as far away from people as possible because that\u2019s the only way to save your own as well as others\u2019 lives.<\/p>\n<p>But I\u2019m not here to talk to you about this. I\u2019m not here to help you get through the lockdown or inspire you to do something with your life during this time.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, estoy aqu\u00ed para hablar de <strong>distanciamiento social independientemente del virus<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Aqu\u00ed para contarte <strong>la importancia de distanciarte de quienes nunca merecieron estar cerca de ti en primer lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Para variar, deja de dar acceso a los que siguen haci\u00e9ndote da\u00f1o. Los que te hacen da\u00f1o y te amargan la vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67804 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-beside-the-door.jpg\" alt=\"mujer de pie junto a la puerta de un edificio rojo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-beside-the-door.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-beside-the-door-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-standing-beside-the-door-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t care if we\u2019re talking about your emotional partner, about someone you think of as your best friend, or even one of your closest family members, be it your parents or siblings.<\/p>\n<p>Forget about feeling guilty, because you don\u2019t owe anyone anything. Don\u2019t let your history with someone prevent you from making the right choice.<\/p>\n<p>Stop thinking about how you kicking them out of your life would make these people feel. After all, they don\u2019t think about the consequences of their actions when they treat you like shit, do they now?<\/p>\n<p>Stop worrying whether they\u2019ll make it without you. You\u2019re no one\u2019s guardian angel and it\u2019s not your job to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/her\/caring\/la-chica-tiene-que-dejar-de-intentar-salvar-a-la-gente-toxica\/\">salvar a los dem\u00e1s<\/a>, especially those who clearly don\u2019t want to be saved.<\/p>\n<p>As\u00ed que, por favor, empieza a centrarte en ti mismo. <strong>It\u2019s not selfish to get rid of everyone who is upsetting your inner peace.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not selfish to move away from those who are doing everything they can to put you down. Those who are holding you back from reaching your full potential.<\/p>\n<p>The people who keep on telling you that you\u2019re not enough.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Corte <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/fake-love\/toxic-relationship\/5-cosas-que-la-gente-toxica-destruye\/\">gente t\u00f3xica<\/a> off doesn\u2019t make you an awful person.<\/strong> Instead, it means that you\u2019re a woman who loves herself more than she loves others \u2013 and that is exactly how things should be.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67802 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-short-hair.jpg\" alt=\"mujer pelirroja de pelo corto de pie junto a la puerta\" width=\"800\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-short-hair.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-short-hair-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-red-short-hair-768x514.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Escaping from everyone who plays with your head and heart doesn\u2019t make you a horrible person.<\/p>\n<p>Acu\u00e9rdate: <strong>Abandoning those who don\u2019t love you back the way they should, don\u2019t respect you, and don\u2019t appreciate your sacrifices is an act of self-care.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is nothing bad in distancing yourself from their negative energy and bad vibe. In fact, it is probably the best thing you\u2019ll ever do for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get one thing clear: Whoever is not treating you the way <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/love\/el-amor-no-se-merece\/\">te mereces<\/a> needs to be cut out as soon as possible. Whoever is taking advantage of you in any way whatsoever shouldn\u2019t have that privilege anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Ahora es el momento de <strong>aprende la importancia de anteponerte a ti mismo<\/strong>. The importance of not allowing others to have an effect on your happiness and not letting anyone who doesn\u2019t deserve you be a part of your life.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time for you to learn how to love yourself before expecting someone else to do it. To learn how to respect and appreciate yourself.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s right now that you have to finally realize how much you deserve, and that settling for less is not an option.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-67800 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-long-brown-hair-2.jpg\" alt=\"mujer con pelo largo casta\u00f1o sosteniendo una rama con hoja\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-long-brown-hair-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-long-brown-hair-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/woman-with-long-brown-hair-2-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Por lo tanto, <strong>incluso cuando pase este autoaislamiento, siga practicando el distanciamiento social<\/strong>. Don\u2019t build high walls around you, but be cautious about who you give access to your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Be careful who gets the entrance pass into your life. Be wary about the ones you\u2019ll let close to you.<\/p>\n<p>Despu\u00e9s de todo, <strong>if this lockdown has taught you anything, it\u2019s that you don\u2019t actually need that many people to get through rough waters<\/strong>. A pesar de lo que hayas podido pensar, lo cierto es que puedes hacerlo t\u00fa solo sin problemas.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re capable of facing life\u2019s difficulties without anyone holding your hand. Therefore, you certainly don\u2019t need someone to shoot you in the foot on your path to progress.<\/p>\n<p>Recuerda: siempre es mejor estar solo que mal acompa\u00f1ado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-68446 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-Pinterest-.jpg\" alt=\"Practica el distanciamiento social con quienes nunca te merecieron de todos modos\" width=\"800\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-Pinterest-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-Pinterest--200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-Pinterest--683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-Pinterest--768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wherever you look around, everyone is pointing out the importance of social distancing. They tell you that it\u2019s crucial for you to keep as far away from people as possible because that\u2019s the only way to save your own as well as others\u2019 lives. But I\u2019m not here to talk to you about this. I\u2019m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":70015,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67795","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/Practice-Social-Distancing-From-The-Ones-Who-Never-Deserved-You-Anyway-.jpg",800,536,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67795","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67795"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67795\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67795"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67795"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67795"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}