{"id":68016,"date":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T16:49:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=68016"},"modified":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-20T23:15:30","slug":"cosas-que-debes-dejar-de-hacer-cosas-que-debes-empezar-a-hacer-si-buscas-el-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/cosas-que-debes-dejar-de-hacer-cosas-que-debes-empezar-a-hacer-si-buscas-el-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cosas que debes dejar de hacer y 4 cosas que debes empezar a hacer si est\u00e1s buscando el amor"},"content":{"rendered":"

STOP<\/h2>\n

1. …choosing the guy you know is unavailable<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Este es un patr\u00f3n de autosabotaje que siguen muchas mujeres.<\/span><\/p>\n

No matter the reason for him being unavailable, don\u2019t choose him. If you can see he\u2019s emotionally distanced, stop pursuing a relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he\u2019s one of the boys who are open about never wanting to get married or have a committed relationship – don\u2019t let yourself fall for him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that you constantly lose interest in guys who were unavailable and then become available – work on this issue.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …looking for romance and look for partnership instead<\/h2>\n

\"hombre<\/p>\n

There is a certain type of guy or a certain type of situation that will probably attract you if you\u2019re looking for romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

If your thoughts and ideas of love consist of incredibly romantic, passionate scenarios – you might be on the wrong track.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re searching for love<\/a>El amor debe dejar de equipararse al romance y empezar a verse como una relaci\u00f3n de pareja. Esto cambiar\u00e1 tu percepci\u00f3n y afectar\u00e1 a la forma en que eliges a tus posibles parejas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you know you\u2019re looking for a person who will become your partner and be there for you for better or for worse, you\u2019ll think twice when you\u2019re choosing the one to be with.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …focusing on your phone so much<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Seriously, adjust your focus elsewhere. While there\u2019s a chance you\u2019ll find love online, the old fashioned ways work better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, if you\u2019re constantly following different people\u2019s lives, it might seem to you that their love lives are amazing.<\/span><\/p>\n

It may seem to you like they\u2019re continuously celebrating their love and enjoying every single moment of their romance and this can give you false expectations.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, stop following other people\u2019s lives and trying to recreate other people\u2019s love stories. Instead, get up, go out, and try to create your own, unique story.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …thinking the perfect relationship won\u2019t require work<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Talking about false expectations, movies and books might have given you the idea that true love requires no work. Well, that\u2019s false.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aunque el amor verdadero es sencillo y puedes sentir la conexi\u00f3n con tu alma gemela, las relaciones siempre requieren trabajo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You spend so much time with someone and share so much it\u2019s impossible for it to always go perfectly.<\/span><\/p>\n

Also, people change with time and the relationship changes with them. Both partners need to be equally ready to compromise and get used to each other and each other\u2019s needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00ed, esto significa que debes dejar de esperar que todo funcione a la perfecci\u00f3n todo el tiempo, y dejar de desperdiciar buenas relaciones s\u00f3lo porque surja un peque\u00f1o problema. <\/span><\/p>\n

INICIO<\/h2>\n

1. …enjoying time on your own<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tienes que aprender a amar estar solo antes de encontrar a la persona con la que compartir tu vida. Disfruta de tu tiempo a solas. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t enjoy your own company, you can\u2019t really expect anyone else to, either.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are many benefits to being single and you should take advantage of all of them, because once you find your soulmate you\u2019ll be taken forever.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. …building up your confidence<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Tener confianza en uno mismo es importante para tu bienestar y tambi\u00e9n atrae a otras personas. Piensa en tus mejores rasgos y recu\u00e9rdatelos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Si hay cosas que mejorar, hazlas. Haz todo lo que te haga sentir incre\u00edble contigo mismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to become aware of your own worth so others don\u2019t make you think you\u2019re worth less than you actually are.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. …understanding your own needs<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Before you enter a relationship and while you\u2019re still searching for love you should use that time to think about your actual wants and needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

What is it you\u2019re looking for in a partner? What are some things he simply needs to be\/do? What are some things he should never do?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00bfQu\u00e9 tipo de persona puede satisfacer sus necesidades? <\/span><\/p>\n

Profundiza en tu mente, piensa en tus relaciones pasadas y en d\u00f3nde fueron mal y decide de qu\u00e9 manera necesitas ser amado y qu\u00e9 tipo de persona puede darte el tipo de amor que mereces.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. …going to places people with the same interests as you go to<\/h2>\n

\"mujer<\/p>\n

Los polos opuestos se atraen, pero tener intereses comunes tambi\u00e9n fortalece una relaci\u00f3n. Tambi\u00e9n facilita el inicio de una relaci\u00f3n, porque te da algo de lo que hablar y con lo que conectar.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have any particular interests (and everyone does), go to places where you\u2019ll find people with those same interests. If you like books – visit libraries, if you like tennis – go play on a public court, you see where I\u2019m going with this?<\/span><\/p>\n

Acudir a lugares donde puedas encontrar personas que se parezcan a ti de un modo u otro te dar\u00e1 la oportunidad de entablar una relaci\u00f3n con alguien que podr\u00e1 comprenderte.<\/span><\/p>\n

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