We don\u2019t want to know our loved one or our friend isn\u2019t as good of a person as we imagine them to be.<\/p>\n
Todos somos v\u00edctimas de nuestra propia mente y del ego que juega con nosotros, haci\u00e9ndonos creer que todo lo que percibimos como cierto es absolutamente cierto.<\/p>\n
Lleva a\u00f1os, muchos, conocer de verdad a alguien.<\/p>\n
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A veces, nos encontramos en un momento de nuestra vida en el que necesitamos bondad. Conocemos a una persona y necesitamos que sea buena y de repente lo es.<\/p>\n
Necesitamos que un chico sea nuestra alma gemela y nos hacemos creer que lo es. Necesitamos tener un amigo de verdad y la persona m\u00e1s conveniente de nuestra vida se convierte en eso en nuestra mente.<\/p>\n
We recognize in people the things we\u2019re desperately searching for.<\/p>\n
Sometimes, we see people as we are, not as they are, because that\u2019s the only way we know.<\/strong><\/p>\n People don\u2019t have to persuade us to see them a certain way. We choose how we see them anyway.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why those among us who are the best possible people they can be get easily deceived. They get hurt by people because they suppose everyone is as good as they are.<\/p>\n Por desgracia, no todo el mundo te tratar\u00e1 como t\u00fa les trates a ellos. There are some times when there\u2019s so much more to know that isn\u2019t tied to our direct experiences with them.<\/strong><\/p>\n Some people are so much more or so much less than we give them credit for. We create our image of a person based on the experiences we\u2019ve had with them.<\/p>\n Luckily, or sadly, depending on your point of view, the experiences they share with us aren\u2019t their only experiences in life. This is why it takes so much time to know someone.<\/p>\n Tenemos que pasar mucho tiempo con ellos para repasar todas nuestras historias y tener la oportunidad de vivir muchas experiencias diferentes juntos.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the only way to truly get to know someone.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t trust your opinion of someone if you have just met them. Yes, there are instincts and there is intuition but before you follow them, ask yourself if your \u2018intuition\u2019 is telling you what you want to hear. Because our mind works in wondrous ways.<\/p>\n A veces, vemos a una persona como algo que puede ser y no como algo que realmente es.<\/strong><\/p>\n A menudo en la vida, vemos a las personas a trav\u00e9s de este prisma de su potencial y sus posibilidades. Para ser brutales, muy pocas personas alcanzan todo su potencial.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s say you\u2019re in a relationship. Your boyfriend has some wonderful traits but also many flaws which, in the future, he can correct if he\u2019d only try to.<\/p>\n You just know he has it in him to be the most gentle, loving guy there is. The truth is, you\u2019re looking at him through your \u2018unachieved potential\u2019 goggles and chances are he\u2019s never ever going to change.<\/p>\n Lo m\u00e1s maravilloso de todo es que, a veces, las personas pueden sorprendernos con lo incre\u00edbles que son.<\/strong><\/p>\n You might have met those people when they were at their lowest or maybe you were at your lowest and didn\u2019t see things clearly.<\/p>\n Yes, some people in your life are going to prove themselves to be so amazing that you won\u2019t believe it. You\u2019ll wonder how you didn\u2019t see them as those lovely persons before.<\/p>\n That\u2019s just it, we\u2019re not always able to create a completely true image of someone in our mind.<\/p>\n Rod\u00e9ate de gente que te haga sentir bien, gente honesta y amable y espera lo mejor.<\/strong><\/p>\n The truth is, we\u2019re all on this crazy ride together and the best we can do is love each other and hope things work out for us.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Yes, I know what\u2019s going through your mind right now: \u2018\u2019Of course, people aren\u2019t always who we think they are. Everyone has a limited perception.\u2019\u2019 Bear with me though. Has it ever happened to you to lose a friend over something they did that you thought to be impossible for them to do? 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