{"id":6813,"date":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6813"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:34:31","slug":"la-belleza-de-estar-roto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/la-belleza-de-estar-roto\/","title":{"rendered":"La belleza de estar roto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>We\u2019re all a bit broken, aren\u2019t we?<\/strong> And we\u2019re still beautiful human beings who deserve to see that there is more to life than things and people who broke us. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/caseygueren\/breakups-suck?utm_term=.vmJ7mlwXO#.qyXlj9GYM\" rel=\"noopener\">Cuando te rompan<\/a>, the story doesn\u2019t end. It\u2019s where your story starts, in fact.<\/p>\n<p>When you get broken, and it usually happens when you trust somebody with your whole heart, you feel like it\u2019s the end of the world. You repeatedly say how you can\u2019t do it anymore and you question the meaning of everything.<\/p>\n<p>All you have inside are dark thoughts because there isn\u2019t space for happiness when you get broken. There is only dark and dark is so damn scary when you\u2019re broken.<\/p>\n<p>Once you\u2019re left alone in the dark room, all that you\u2019ve been through, all the demons start flooding your mind, whether in the form of a person or your insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>And there isn\u2019t anything you can do other than to let it overwhelm you. That\u2019s why you feel like you\u2019re choking. No matter how hard you swim, you\u2019re still sinking.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121280 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down.jpg\" alt=\"la mujer se sienta en una silla con la cabeza gacha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/the-woman-sits-in-a-chair-with-her-head-down-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>I wish there was a magic wand to heal broken people, but there isn\u2019t<\/strong>. Y cualquier consejo que te d\u00e9 puede no ser aplicable. La \u00fanica constante que cura el quebrantamiento es el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>Necesitas tiempo para curarte. Necesitas tiempo para procesar lo que te ha ocurrido. Necesitas tiempo para poder pensar con claridad sobre lo que pasaste exactamente y necesitas tiempo para poder envolver tu mente alrededor de las lecciones que aprendiste una vez que te rompiste. Hay tanta belleza ah\u00ed con el tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>See, you loved and you got broken and that\u2019s fucking heroic if you ask me.<\/strong> Despite knowing that there are bad people who\u2019ll take your heart and squeeze the life out of it with their bare hands before your own eyes, you still did it.<\/p>\n<p>Amaste a pesar de saberlo mejor y te rompieron. Te quedaste con <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/nunca-dejo-moretones-cuerpo-corazon\/\">un coraz\u00f3n lleno de grietas<\/a>ojos llenos de l\u00e1grimas y la cabeza llena de miedos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Despite your demons, you get up every morning and you fight through the day like only you can. You fight each new day that tries to break you again. You might be broken, but you\u2019re still a warrior, you\u2019re still a hero.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121282 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer se sienta en el suelo junto a la ventana y bebe caf\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-sits-on-the-floor-by-the-window-and-drinks-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thehopeline.com\/35-getting-over-a-broken-heart-part-4\" rel=\"noopener\">El lado feo de estar roto<\/a> is that the world doesn\u2019t stop for you. But that\u2019s also the beauty of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When you get broken, you hit rock bottom, but you don\u2019t have to stay there.<\/strong> Justo ah\u00ed, en el fondo, tienes la oportunidad de empezar de nuevo. Tienes la oportunidad de iniciar tu viaje hacia la cima y asegurarte de que esta vez lo haces bien.<\/p>\n<p>When you get broken, you become an empty shell. But eventually, if you decide to fight it, you can create the new beautiful pearl. You can be everything you\u2019ve never been.<\/p>\n<p>Puedes aprender a ver el mundo con otros ojos y que los trozos rotos pueden a\u00f1adir m\u00e1s valor a tu vida si aprendes a utilizarlos. Despu\u00e9s de romperse, el dolor es inevitable, pero cu\u00e1nto sufras depende de ti.<\/p>\n<p>The more you allow yourself to feel, the quicker you\u2019ll get over it. Just try to look at it as one episode of your life &#8211; the whole show doesn\u2019t need to be about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121284 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer con el pelo rubio y encrespado junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-woman-with-blond-frizzy-hair-stands-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>When you get broken, your love gets broken, too. But what you don\u2019t know is that once broken, you will always be able to love harder than before. Once you\u2019ve been in the dark, you learn to appreciate everything that shines.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Acabas amando de nuevo, acabas teniendo a otras personas para llenar las grietas que una persona caus\u00f3. Acabas cas\u00e1ndote con alguien maravilloso que promete amarte para siempre. Acabas teniendo hijos y poni\u00e9ndote al d\u00eda con la vida que te abandon\u00f3 cuando te rompieron.<\/p>\n<p>Cada d\u00eda est\u00e1s un poco menos roto, porque cada vez que alguien te quiere, tus grietas se llenan de amor dorado. Y cada vez que alguien que no es la persona que te rompi\u00f3 decide verter m\u00e1s amor en tu coraz\u00f3n roto, \u00e9ste acaba siendo m\u00e1s hermoso y brillante que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Never-broken hearts don\u2019t shine like broken ones, because there are no cracks to pour love into. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/mariem-sherif\/2017\/02\/your-brokenness-is-beautiful\/\" rel=\"noopener\">And that\u2019s the most beautiful part about it.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Duerme en paz. Lo diste todo. Amaste con el coraz\u00f3n. Tu coraz\u00f3n magullado es s\u00f3lo una se\u00f1al de que viviste y amaste sin contenerte. No mucha gente tiene valor para eso.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121281 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"La belleza de estar roto\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019re all a bit broken, aren\u2019t we? And we\u2019re still beautiful human beings who deserve to see that there is more to life than things and people who broke us. When you get broken, the story doesn\u2019t end. It\u2019s where your story starts, in fact. When you get broken, and it usually happens when you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121279,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/The-Beauty-Of-Being-Broken-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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