{"id":6818,"date":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","date_gmt":"2020-10-13T14:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6818"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:29:54","slug":"letter-guy-let-right-girl-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/letter-guy-let-right-girl-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta al hombre que dej\u00f3 marchar a la chica adecuada"},"content":{"rendered":"

No lo entiendes, \u00bfverdad?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Usted todav\u00eda no es consciente del hecho de que dejaste ir a la chica que era la correcta.<\/a> La que pod\u00edas presentar a tus padres y la que no te avergonzaba mostrar en p\u00fablico. Ya ves, era una mujer a la que amar.<\/p>\n

Pero fuiste tan ciego para ver lo que ten\u00edas a tu lado. Y ahora, deber\u00edas pagar por tus pecados. Deber\u00edas pagar por todo el dolor que le causaste a la derecha.<\/p>\n

You were selfish enough to forbid her to smile when you were sad, as you didn\u2019t want to see that she was having a good time without you.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3lo pensabas en ti y en tus necesidades.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

And her? Like any woman in love, she blindly listened to all that you had to say. She respected all your decisions, even if she didn\u2019t like them. She suffered to prove to you how big her love was.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t even want to fight for her. Instead of that, you were fighting with her.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Every single day was a battle without an end. And every time it broke her heart to pieces. She couldn\u2019t understand that a man who she loved so much could hurt her so tremendously. She couldn\u2019t understand that you had the power to ruin her day by saying only a sentence.<\/p>\n

Tus malas palabras le rompieron el coraz\u00f3n pero ella segu\u00eda en pie, fingiendo que todo iba bien, mientras ella se desmoronaba por dentro.<\/a><\/p>\n

When I stop and think now, I don\u2019t get how a man can be so stupid and blind.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t he see that the woman next to him accepted all his imperfections and that she is still there?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Why doesn\u2019t he respect a woman like that? That is the least he can do. But no! His fucking ego doesn\u2019t let him do it. That\u2019s why he hurt her, pushed her to the boundary of losing her mind, just like you did to her. Did you think it would change something if you hurt her? Did you think she would finally be a puppet in your hands while you were the master puppet, making her do everything that you wanted?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have a clue what you were thinking but one thing is for sure – you shouldn\u2019t have let the right one go.<\/a><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que ahora te sientes mal por ello. S\u00e9 que hay pensamientos que siguen viniendo cuando te tumbas en tu cama solo. Y te preguntas si podr\u00eda haber habido otra forma de acabar con todo.<\/p>\n

\u00bfPodr\u00eda haber sido diferente?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

You see, it could have been way different if you\u2019d had the guts to love her sincerely. But since you are fucked up, you can\u2019t love anyone without hurting them.<\/p>\n

Y deber\u00edas hab\u00e9rselo dicho a ella. Deber\u00edas haberle dicho que no estabas preparado para una chica perfecta, como lo estaba ella. Y estaba muy claro que ella te amaba con todo su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

She showed you that so many times while you just neglected her, because you took her for granted, thinking that she would stay no matter what you did. You see, you were wrong. A good woman is always aware of her worth and she won\u2019t settle for less than she deserves.<\/p>\n

Ahora, despu\u00e9s de tantos a\u00f1os sin ella, sigues sufriendo, intentando encontrar el amor en lugares oscuros.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Usted busca mujeres para aventuras de una noche, pero debe saber que nunca le querr\u00e1n como ella. Ahora, hay otro hombre en su vida, el que no la da por sentada. El que es el adecuado para ella.<\/p>\n

El que es su amante, amigo y alma gemela al mismo tiempo.<\/a> And no, she doesn\u2019t think about you anymore. She decided to leave the past where it belongs.Yo<\/em><\/strong>Puedes echarla de menos, pero nunca volver\u00e1 con quien la abandon\u00f3.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

You can call but she will never pick up. You can fall apart but she won\u2019t see it, because she finally realized that you were never enough for her. She realized that you couldn\u2019t give her all that love and affection that she desperately needed.<\/p>\n

Ahora, s\u00e9 un hombre de verdad y sobrelleva el dolor. S\u00f3lo por un segundo, siente lo mismo que ella sinti\u00f3 cuando la dejaste rota y sola. Y llora como ella. Nadie ver\u00e1 tus l\u00e1grimas, pero al menos aprender\u00e1s c\u00f3mo no tratar a una mujer que te quiere. Y un d\u00eda, cuando finalmente sigas adelante, espero que seas capaz de perdonarte a ti mismo por toda esa mierda que le hiciste.<\/p>\n

Because, darling, you can bet that she won\u2019t!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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You don\u2019t get it, do you? You are still not aware of the fact that you let go of the girl who was the right one. The one you could introduce to your parents and the one who you were not ashamed to show in public. You see, she was a woman to love. But…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":123554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6818","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Let-The-Right-Girl-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6818"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6818\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123554"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6818"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6818"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6818"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}