{"id":6823,"date":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T14:48:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6823"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:46:35","slug":"las-amistades-no-duran-una-temporada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/las-amistades-no-duran-una-temporada\/","title":{"rendered":"Algunas amistades no est\u00e1n hechas para durar m\u00e1s de una temporada en la vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/judith-johnson\/when-your-partner-becomes_b_6542624.html\" rel=\"noopener\"> alguien que estaba tan cerca de ti es ahora un extra\u00f1o<\/a>. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever.<\/p>\n<p>Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something difficult we need to cope with and let go of.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you and your childhood friend grow up to be two completely different individuals who can\u2019t get along so well anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Hanging out and talking isn\u2019t as easy as it used to be. Once you might\u2019ve had a lot of things in common, a variety of different topics. Now the conversation is forced and you have a lot of moments of awkward silence.<\/p>\n<p>You often meet new friends in school, in your studies, at work or near to where you live. Your timetables are similar and it\u2019s convenient and easy for you guys to spend time together. When things change, friendship changes too.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You drift apart because it\u2019s not so convenient to spend time together anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2015\/10\/how-friendships-change-over-time-in-adulthood\/411466\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Ahora hay que ajustar los horarios y sacar tiempo para los amigos.<\/a> Aqu\u00ed es donde ves si ella era s\u00f3lo una conveniencia y no una verdadera amiga.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111989 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una rubia triste se sienta junto a la ventana\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-blonde-sits-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, if she was a true friend, you would make an effort, you would stay in touch and give the best of you to make it work. If not, then it\u2019s just not worth crying over.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las relaciones tambi\u00e9n pueden interponerse en el camino de la amistad.<\/strong> Cuando algunos de nuestros amigos se enamoran, deciden pasar todo su tiempo con su media naranja, por lo que tienden a perderte de vista.<\/p>\n<p>They just don\u2019t have the time, unless they are having troubles in their relationship.<\/p>\n<p>En esa situaci\u00f3n, volver\u00e1n arrastr\u00e1ndose hacia ti, porque no tienen un hombro sobre el que llorar como el tuyo. Esta situaci\u00f3n envejece muy pronto. Te sientes como si te estuvieran utilizando y la amistad est\u00e1 destinada a terminar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There are times when you don\u2019t really know the people you are friends with.<\/strong> Muestran su verdadera cara despu\u00e9s de un tiempo.<\/p>\n<p>O descubres que tienen dos caras y nunca puedes llegar a conocerlos de verdad. Les has confiado todo y te han traicionado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111990 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg\" alt=\"una mujer triste sentada junto al mar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/a-sad-woman-sitting-by-the-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though you might feel like the biggest fool, you weren\u2019t just good friends in this case. They were meant to be in your life to teach you a lesson and make you grow. Be grateful for the experience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Las amistades necesitan trabajo.<\/strong> Friends aren\u2019t the ones who are there only when it\u2019s convenient or when they have nothing better to do. They will find the time and make an effort and they will expect the same from you.<\/p>\n<p><em>Los amigos est\u00e1n ah\u00ed en las dificultades y el dolor. Est\u00e1n ah\u00ed en tu dicha y felicidad. Est\u00e1n ah\u00ed para compartirlo todo contigo. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/holly-riordan\/2017\/10\/even-though-we-go-weeks-without-seeing-each-other-youre-still-my-best-friend\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Si no es as\u00ed, entonces nunca fueron tus verdaderos <\/a><\/em>amigos<em> para empezar.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Never regret any of your past friendships. Don\u2019t burden yourself with what you could\u2019ve, should\u2019ve, would\u2019ve done to change things or make a friendship last.<\/p>\n<p>Algunas personas no est\u00e1n destinadas a estar contigo hasta el final de tus d\u00edas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Se supon\u00eda que deb\u00edan estar ah\u00ed como una temporada pasajera en tu vida y nada m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> S\u00f3lo si tienes la suerte suficiente encontrar\u00e1s al menos un amigo que estar\u00e1 ah\u00ed durante todas tus temporadas y tendr\u00e9is una amistad que durar\u00e1 un <\/strong>de por vida.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111992 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Algunas amistades no est\u00e1n hechas para durar m\u00e1s de una temporada en la vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s funny how someone who was so close to you is a stranger now. That happens to a lot of friendships because they aren\u2019t meant to last forever. Even though the ending of a relationship and a friendship are two different things, ending a friendship can be just as devastating and heartbreaking. And it\u2019s something&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":111987,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/Some-Friendships-Arent-Meant-To-Last-More-Than-One-Season-Of-Your-Life-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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