{"id":6835,"date":"2020-07-16T10:17:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T10:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=6835"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:02:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:02:50","slug":"letter-girl-cuida-de-todos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/letter-girl-cuida-de-todos\/","title":{"rendered":"Carta a la chica que cuida de todos menos de s\u00ed misma"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querida,<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e9 que est\u00e1s dando lo mejor de ti para satisfacer a todas las personas que te rodean. Pero en todo ese l\u00edo, est\u00e1s olvidando para cuidarte.<\/a> As\u00ed que para un segundo y respira.<\/p>\n

Your life mission is not to save the world, so don\u2019t do it, okay? Take some time for yourself only and enjoy the things that you didn\u2019t have time to do for a while. Listen to your favorite song or go to the movies with your friends. But don\u2019t let other people\u2019s problems affect you so badly.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to save all of them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If they want to, they can change their own lives. So, just leave them to handle their problems alone. Because you can\u2019t carry all their problems on your shoulders. If you continue doing that, you will burn out. And then you won\u2019t be good to yourself or to your friends.<\/p>\n

Tal vez est\u00e1s haciendo todo eso para alejarte de tus propios problemas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque es mucho m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil dar consejos que recibirlos y seguirlos en tu propia vida. Tal vez seas tan centrado en los dem\u00e1s<\/a> que te olvides de tus propios problemas y pienses que de alg\u00fan modo, como por arte de magia, desaparecer\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Quiz\u00e1 sea s\u00f3lo tu forma de lidiar con todo ese estr\u00e9s acumulado en tu interior.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you want to save the world, you can\u2019t do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You are not a hero who will save all those who suffer or take their pain away. Your heart is too small to store all those feelings. You will end up in tears, completely broken because you didn\u2019t think about yourself in time.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Please, remember that some things can\u2019t be fixed. The same is with people. Some of them don\u2019t want to be fixed and some of them are simply not ready to do that yet. So let it go. It is okay to let it go and leave others to decide about their lives.<\/p>\n

Pones tus expectativas muy altas, pensando que si eres bueno, los dem\u00e1s pensar\u00e1n lo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But in most cases that is not true. People are self-centered and selfish and most of them wouldn\u2019t help you if they saw you suffering.<\/p>\n

I know that you want to help everyone but there are times when you need to say, \u2018No.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tienes que convertirte en una prioridad y no en una opci\u00f3n.<\/a> Because if you don\u2019t do it, nobody else will. If you continue doing all this you will lose yourself in the chaos.<\/p>\n

And once you lose yourself, it is difficult to be the old you again. So, be smart. Help people but don\u2019t forget to help yourself in the first place. And every time you feel like not getting out of your home, stay there. You need yourself and others can wait.<\/p>\n

Lo que has estado haciendo es incre\u00edble y ojal\u00e1 hubiera m\u00e1s gente como t\u00fa en este lugar tan cruel.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ojal\u00e1 todos aquellos a los que ayudaste tantas veces te cogieran de la mano y fueran contigo por la vida cuando pasas por una mala etapa de tu vida. Ojal\u00e1 los dem\u00e1s fueran tan cuidadosos y atentos como t\u00fa.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

You are worthy. You are amazing. And above all, your heart is made out of gold. I hope you will find a person who will be with you in better or worse, treating you like a queen, because that\u2019s what you are – a queen.<\/p>\n

Espero que alguien vea ese brillo y honestidad en tus ojos y te proporcione lo mismo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And I hope he will be worth the wait. So, continue doing what you are the best at – spreading the love and affection – but don\u2019t forget to keep some of that for yourself.<\/p>\n

El mundo tiene suerte de contar con una persona como t\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con amor,
\nUno que ha estado all\u00ed<\/p>\n

\"Carta<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My Dear, I know that you are giving your best to satisfy all those people around you. But in all that mess, you are forgetting to take care of yourself. So just stop for a second and breathe. Your life mission is not to save the world, so don\u2019t do it, okay? Take some time…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":114721,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Takes-Care-Of-Everyone-But-Herself-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114721"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}